Love the new profile pic! 
SPEXDEX wrote:
Love the new profile pic!
Meant for me? If so...credit goes to Trixiee for being the photographer and Jared for actually going thru my pics and changing it. LOL
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:SPEXDEX wrote:
Love the new profile pic!
Meant for me? If so...credit goes to Trixiee for being the photographer and Jared for actually going thru my pics and changing it. LOL
Lol, and yes. Kudos to all parties involved!
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:YOURTOY75 wrote:
I like your profile, I see what you are saying, also am intimidated by it... I'd worry about not meeting those expectations....and.... well.. fuck it.. I'll just skip to #3 and pound the hell out of it!
haha
Never skip a step. You might miss something. LOL Also...ADD PICTURES!
oh I know, I was only being silly... I do like #3, though, once I've adjusted to her and feel like I can pound away... I pound away!! :P and I agree with the pics... I just need to have a friend take some normal looking ones...minus goofy poses and what not
Thanks Eros, as you agreed with me, our game has to improve. But just because we think we're enlightened and progressive because we're swingers, some of societies stereotypes still apply. Men are still men, and women are still women. In other words, pursuit is usually up to the male. Chauvinist as that may sound, it probably is more about genetics then anything else. How many species in the animal kingdom do you see, where the female aggressively looks for a male. It's almost always the reverse.
So men, work your ass off in the gym, pay the 30 bucks for that that PDF manual on how to improve your game. (kidding of course about the last suggestion). What you may find is that it improves your own relationship with the wife or girlfriend.
One thing I noticed, when I improve myself, it only enhances my own marriage and my other relationship. That's always a plus plus in my book!!!
So men, work your ass off in the gym, pay the 30 bucks for that that PDF manual on how to improve your game. (kidding of course about the last suggestion). What you may find is that it improves your own relationship with the wife or girlfriend.
One thing I noticed, when I improve myself, it only enhances my own marriage and my other relationship. That's always a plus plus in my book!!!
ABCWOMAN wrote:
In other words, pursuit is usually up to the male. Chauvinist as that may sound, it probably is more about genetics then anything else. How many species in the animal kingdom do you see, where the female aggressively looks for a male. It's almost always the reverse.
Exactly. Contrary to popular belief....I'm quite shy/clueless about chasing. So unless you smack me upside the head and let me know I have no idea what your (people in general) intentions are. I've heard about so called signals but as a natural born flirt I'm never sure where that line is from "I'm glad to see you to OMG TAKE ME NOW".
However let be said there is also a fine line from chasing to smothering. Don't get confused.
xox
Tammy
LIXILULU wrote:
I have a hall pass for the first time!!! My hubby is out of state for a while so we've given each other one. How will I use it?
Maybe on us/
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:
I got to stop reading this thread. I have this urge to be hall monitor and see who I can get to come play with me.
xox
Tammy
I know right Tammy. . .I'm doing the same thing
LOLNever could understand the "Hall Pass" thing for swingers or the "No separate Room thing".
If you're confident in your relationship (which alot of you say you are) why do you need either?
If u guy's want to do these things...be careful what u ask for.
Your woman is going to have alot more opportunities then you.
If you're confident in your relationship (which alot of you say you are) why do you need either?
If u guy's want to do these things...be careful what u ask for.
Your woman is going to have alot more opportunities then you.
For most of us, there is a lot less sex going on than some would suppose. Family, work, and life in general just happen to interfere and not every date ends up in sex. I prefer the term open relationship to hall pass. In my mind it is more balanced but I would guess for most folks the terminology is the same.
I am bonded to and live with a woman that was in this lifestyle before me. Some would say that to be a real couple we should be married to each other. We don
I am bonded to and live with a woman that was in this lifestyle before me. Some would say that to be a real couple we should be married to each other. We don
Ours is an open marriage, we prefer couples together but playmates are welcome. Funny though, she has a lot more offers than I do, What comes easy for her I have to work at, she's just naturally a sexy flirt.
Well in our case...either of us can do whatever we want. We havent used a hall pass but if a good enough offer came along..we would...or give her a hall pass to play if the other female would get one too..everyone wants a mff...
We do it. Well mostly for her. I work out of town a lot so I let her play. It's actually pretty fun. The stories later in the bedroom are pretty hot! And NYMPHOSROCK is correct in that it's easy for her to get some, but much more challenging for a guy. Why is that. 
C'mon ladies, let your guards down and have some fun!!
And NYMPHOSROCK is correct in that it's easy for her to get some, but much more challenging for a guy. Why is that. C'mon ladies, let your guards down and have some fun!!We don't really think of it as a "hall pass" as much as trusting each other and wanting each other to be free to explore life and all it has to offer.
Evil
Evil
MISSSMITHNSIRNEWBY wrote:
In my opinion, part of the reason it is harder for guys is that they don't stick together and work as a team nowadays. Too much territorial, alpha male, mark-my-territory, silly stuff going on. We've ruled, regulated, and ridiculed each other into a narrow corner -- bereft of the sexual satisfaction we collectively deserve, dammit!
Remember how we collectively tended to get more female attention when we were younger? The difference isn't just because of growing waistlines or changing female attitudes. No! We hunted in packs, just like we did in the wild, and watched each other's backs (figuratively speaking -- unless you were a switch hitter -- not that there's anything wrong with that -- just saying).
We were successful because we worked together and kept females a little more on their toes. They had to work harder, too, and it was good for them, by golly! Some of the sex gamesmanship I see some of them get away with now is... well, really obnoxious. But it's our fault, men. We're asses and/or stupid in a way that empowers all sorts of nonsense from both sexes.
Time to return to our roots, and revitalize that hunter-gathering teamsmanship spirit! Can I hear an Amen?
SN
naa it was easier because the chick was hopping for a ring silly. With a hall pass there isnt any hope of that...
lol I am kidding.
Ok MISSSMITNSIRNEWBY:
Hello, how bout that ride in? I guess that's why they call it sin city. haha.
You guys might not know this but I consider myself a bit of a loner. I tend to think of myself as a one man wolf pack. But when my Sister brought Doug home, I knew he was one of my own. And my wolfpack, it grew by one. So where there were two of us in the wolfpack, I was alone first in the wolfpack, and then Doug joined in later. And six months ago when Doug introduced me to you guys, I thought, wait a second could it be? And now I know for sure, I just added two more guys to my wolfpack. Four of us wolves, running around the desert together, in Las Vegas, looking for strippers and cocaine. So tonight, I make a toast! (The Hangover, 2009) Here's to the new all male Swingular wolfpack.. LOL....
Hello, how bout that ride in? I guess that's why they call it sin city. haha.
You guys might not know this but I consider myself a bit of a loner. I tend to think of myself as a one man wolf pack. But when my Sister brought Doug home, I knew he was one of my own. And my wolfpack, it grew by one. So where there were two of us in the wolfpack, I was alone first in the wolfpack, and then Doug joined in later. And six months ago when Doug introduced me to you guys, I thought, wait a second could it be? And now I know for sure, I just added two more guys to my wolfpack. Four of us wolves, running around the desert together, in Las Vegas, looking for strippers and cocaine. So tonight, I make a toast! (The Hangover, 2009) Here's to the new all male Swingular wolfpack.. LOL....
We have given each other hall passes but it depends on the situation like how well we know the other singles/couples. We are cautious esp. until there is a trust between everyone. We prefer playing as a couple.
We both do Hall passes, but only she has ever used one. He seems to have a very hard time finding women willing to play with a married man.
Misssmith! Hiya! Its me...Howl'n Wolf! haha! I, as you well know... heed to the call of the Wild. Its my Nature... .. pure animal chemistry. No hall pass needed.
.. pure animal chemistry. No hall pass needed. Yes.....the HALL PASS....when I was in a relationship and had my partner in crime....it was GREAT!!! But I guess it depends on the person....I had no issues lining up girls nor did she.....however, the girls were primarily VANILLA!!! For some strange reason those females that were in relationships and expressed interest in enjoying a moment privately with me without their significant other .....the MAN always VETOED ME!!!! HAHA go figure.........now that I am a single male again looking for a new partner to enjoy these experience and be officially labeled a "COUPLE" again....is difficult....most men do not allow me to experience their wives or girlfriends without them there.....I was labeled a ROGUE...LOL ......
NYMPHOSROCK wrote:
We have decided to start playing alone. And to be honest this is not so easy for me find new friends. On the other hand she has no problem at all finding what ever she wants lol. So if anyone is interested then shoot us an email. Also I would love to hear others opinions on the subject.
We have the same problem i get a lot of answers but he doesn't. But i wont play with anyone unless he has someone to play with.
I so agree...
NENA1031 wrote:NYMPHOSROCK wrote:
We have decided to start playing alone. And to be honest this is not so easy for me find new friends. On the other hand she has no problem at all finding what ever she wants lol. So if anyone is interested then shoot us an email. Also I would love to hear others opinions on the subject.
We have the same problem i get a lot of answers but he doesn't. But i wont play with anyone unless he has someone to play with.
We call it a Wild Card when we play with singles. However we are a same bedroom type of couple. So as long as the person is good with playing in a couple situations then we are okay with accepting their fun in return.
We do not do it very often only if desire is wanted for certain foreplay. We also generally play with more single girls then single men. Mostly because its how we roll!!!
We don't do hall passes or meet up with people alone ever. So if that is what someone thinks helps them find a girl better be looking for my husband by my side.
We are not looking to fill a void but rather adding more to our fun sex life we already have!!
We like a little bit of everything so depending on our moods we then choose to explore our fantasies!!!
Love all of our friends and cant wait til we meet more. The more the merrier!!!
We do not do it very often only if desire is wanted for certain foreplay. We also generally play with more single girls then single men. Mostly because its how we roll!!!
We don't do hall passes or meet up with people alone ever. So if that is what someone thinks helps them find a girl better be looking for my husband by my side.
We are not looking to fill a void but rather adding more to our fun sex life we already have!!
We like a little bit of everything so depending on our moods we then choose to explore our fantasies!!!
Love all of our friends and cant wait til we meet more. The more the merrier!!!
Hey NymphosRock...I feel your Pain Dude...in the same situation. Of course you appear to be more Rebellious then I, and thats what women want..a little bit of Harley Ridin' Bull Nut eating, Tobacco Spitting...Rose Shitting Stud like yourself...lol...Just Kidding with ya dude..dont know what women want anymore.
I am tremendously grateful for women who share their men (with me). I usually get a great female friend in the process.
Some Hall Pass couples I "Favorited", for future contact. Other couples, I am interested, but their public album lacks a variety of male pictures, therefore damping down my interest.
I'm not even looking for "perfect". I actually prefer my men tall, lean, and kind of geeky/dorky looking.
Regardless, thank you to all the confident, unselfish women out there. :~D
T
Some Hall Pass couples I "Favorited", for future contact. Other couples, I am interested, but their public album lacks a variety of male pictures, therefore damping down my interest.
I'm not even looking for "perfect". I actually prefer my men tall, lean, and kind of geeky/dorky looking.
Regardless, thank you to all the confident, unselfish women out there. :~D
T
TREETREE wrote:And a sexy LADY YOU ARE.
I am tremendously grateful for women who share their men (with me). I usually get a great female friend in the process. Some Hall Pass couples I "Favorited", for future contact. Other couples, I am interested, but their public album lacks a variety of male pictures, therefore damping down my interest. I'm not even looking for "perfect". I actually prefer my men tall, lean, and kind of geeky/dorky looking. Regardless, thank you to all the confident, unselfish women out there. :~D T
TREETREE wrote:
I am tremendously grateful for women who share their men (with me). I usually get a great female friend in the process.
Some Hall Pass couples I "Favorited", for future contact. Other couples, I am interested, but their public album lacks a variety of male pictures, therefore damping down my interest.
I'm not even looking for "perfect". I actually prefer my men tall, lean, and kind of geeky/dorky looking.
Regardless, thank you to all the confident, unselfish women out there. :~D
T
Hello. My husband is tall and geeky and i am a woman that loves to share.
MY hubby and I do hall passes. I have better luck than he does finding a "date". I would love it if I could find him some intellectual, witty, sexy women to have hall passes with. We have found hall passes to be much easier and more fulfilling than trying to have a full swap experience. But it is a mutual thing for us both-I get them and he gets them.
H
H
PASSION4GROUPFUN wrote:
In reading these comments, it is a bit comical that there is so much focus on the "male" Hall Pass having to be validated, whereas the "female" Hall Pass seems to get an easier "pass" that does not require verification...why is that?
I know that women are a lot more comfortable knowing the wife is really ok with their husband sleeping with other women.
But I think that most people think men are more likely to cheat. I know in my relationship that isn't true. one reason being there is no need and another being its not in his character. He is an honest truthful man. Its one of the reasons I love him. He always does the right thing always will. But cheating happens even in this lifestyle and its always best to be careful that is why if I am going to play alone its going to be with a couple or one half a couple that I know and trust.
ALLWENEEDISU wrote:
Hello. My husband is tall and geeky and i am a woman that loves to share.
Uh...tall yes. Geeky yes. But kinda in the HOT GQ kinda way. Sheesh.
You do realize that you two are one of our favs? Stop laughing. I'm flirting you silly blond. *smooch*
xox
T&J
BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:ALLWENEEDISU wrote:
Hello. My husband is tall and geeky and i am a woman that loves to share.
Uh...tall yes. Geeky yes. But kinda in the HOT GQ kinda way. Sheesh.
You do realize that you two are one of our favs? Stop laughing. I'm flirting you silly blond. *smooch*
xox
T&J
He is hot, and sexy.
would be nice if the hubby could find some nice ladys to fill his hall pass
We do, have for a few years, I have played as a single male with couples and girlfriends and she has payed with couples and singles as well. She prefers to play with just a single male when she is on a hall pass, I don't really care either way, I am good with what ever. (couple handle is CNKSS btw)
We both have a permanent hall pass (hence I'm on here as a single female). It's WAY too hard to find 4 people who have enough in common to carry on an interesting conversation over drinks, let alone enough of a spark to all jump in bed together! I don't necessarily share details with the husband, either. We believe in taking time for yourself to enjoy the experience and not worry about "the report" after. We share details if we want to.
And finding a man is easy - it's finding the right man that is difficult! I NEVER take one for the team. Besides - I have a great guy right here at home. No need to settle.
And finding a man is easy - it's finding the right man that is difficult! I NEVER take one for the team. Besides - I have a great guy right here at home. No need to settle.
We'll play alone but our hall passes aren't wide open, they're conditional. We each have a short list of people who we know and trust that have a pre-approved green light.
We don't do hall passes. The most sexy thing about playing is looking over and watching my husband thrusting another woman as I am getting pounded! Knowing that we can please each other and then watching each other get pleased.......SOOOO SEXY!
Just like everyone else, she has used more hall passes than myself. Since we dont really know anyone in the area I am stuck searching online to no avail, or getting shot down when I go out. The whole idea of a hall pass just freaks a lot of girls out. Guess I could lie about being married, (wife would not care lol), but I just can't bring myself to do that. All that being said, for the time being she is taking a break from hall passes and has made it her mission to help me out, however that will work.
I am guessing most women are freaked out when guys say they have a all pass cuz we think it is bullshit. And probably why you get shot down too. Maybe there should be a key club started, lol.
We both have hall passes
We do it when we are both comfortable with the other parties.
We both do, we just need to be comfortable with the other party, even though she is a lil hesitant to go by herself even though i think it would be hot one of this days...
DABOMB wrote:
We both do, we just need to be comfortable with the other party, even though she is a lil hesitant to go by herself even though i think it would be hot one of this days...
I would volunteer for her
Hall Pass holders: please contact us!
BIGREID8 wrote:
We don't do hall passes. The most sexy thing about playing is looking over and watching my husband thrusting another woman as I am getting pounded! Knowing that we can please each other and then watching each other get pleased.......SOOOO SEXY!
We agree with BIGREID8 on this one. We are a packaged deal and we always play together. So no hall passes for us either. Neither of us want them anyway because we're having too much fun together.
She has one. But if any single males are reading this and you think you have what it takes to go out with her. Send face and body pics to be considered.
TEQUILAROSE wrote:
We both have hall passes
Hi Ms Tequilla I would love to have a hall pass spent on me
~ Looking Amazing MsIs it just us, or does anyone else run into problems with who the hall pass is being used on? Her last two boy toys didnt fully understand the meaning NSA and crossed a few boundaries, tried acting a little to emotional. Maybe finding people outside the lifestyle for hall pass use isnt the best idea, for us anyway.
We gave each other hall passes, but we actually almost never use them. He's out of town a lot so has an out of town policy too.
The wife gives me a hall pass (haven't had a chance to use it yet and I'm fine with her goin out too, but she has no desire to play with someone without me.
and I'm fine with her goin out too, but she has no desire to play with someone without me.hall passes sound fun..we both have them but havent used them yet...still waiting for a good wife swap for fun 3somes
hall passes sound fun..we both have them but havent used them yet...still waiting for a good wife swap for fun 3somes
we do but it seems that she gets alot more response than i get lol
Never tried this hmmmm maybe we should try it....