Swingers Forum - High Scool Bull Shit

would you like some cheese with that?
i catch mice all the time, i'm sure i could steal the cheese while i'm at it.

Like I told you last night, sometimes we haven't gotten past high school issues and fucking our therapist has kind of hindered our sessions.

I'm a firm believer in calling people out for lying/misleading/bullshit. I also understand baggage and that EVERYONE has it. It's not baggage I have an issue too, it's the sneaky way people try to cover it up and pretend it doesn't exist. I've been accused on more then once occassion of being TOO HONEST. Well that's because I've bitten in the ass by others lying/cheating/dishonesty that it's safe to say I would rather put it all on the table. What you see is what you get. And it that doesn't appeal to you, then fine. Move on and find someone else to lie and manipulate.

I can be a bitch about this...but that's because I have been hurt in ways most people simply cannot fathom. I can't change what they did, but I sure as can change how easy I make it for them to do it again.

I think there is high school bullshit in all communities. Whether it's who's doing whom, who hurt whom, who is wearing what, bitching about playing by the rules, who's job has strickter morality clauses, who has pics, who hasn't, whatever it is...that is why we have meet and greets. To feel people out and get to know them on a personal level. Trust me, not everyone online is the same IRL. Everyone thinks I'm funny, sarcastic, evil, and a great kisser. Well behind that persona is a person is fighting with cancer, going thru a divorce (albeit an amicable one), taking care of 4 kids, has a spine injury and a torn rotator cuff, in love with her boyfriend, dealing with my car accident law suit, robbing peter to pay paul, and is STILL struggling with identity issues after losing half her weight and not used to all the attention. But can't deny she craves it either. Hell, it's a mind fuck being me. But its all I got.

So if someone gets on your last nerve, tell them. Or walk away. No harm no foul either way. Last night when you told me you thought I was a bitch I wasn't the least bit offended. First, you had the courage to tell me to my face and second, it means my wall is firmly in place and people think I'm stronger then I really feel. Oh and since I didn't mention it, I thought you were a sweetie. Ha. So there. ;-)

Ok, off to take my Prozac and hit Starbucks. I really needed to be medicated and awake before posting.

hugs, kisses, and naughty gropes.

xox
Tammy

Next time...next time.....;-)

if people only knew what the real story behind this post is about......

Well.. try to understand this.. life teaches us birds of a feather tend to flock together. No idea of the circumstances you have encountered or the people involved. We have friends that don't click and just treat them as separate people. But it seems reasonable to judge people by the company they keep.

Not saying it is fair or right but it is human nature and is an instinct that sometimes should not be ignored.

AHARLEYCPL wrote:

Well.. try to understand this.. life teaches us birds of a feather tend to flock together. No idea of the circumstances you have encountered or the people involved. We have friends that don't click and just treat them as separate people. But it seems reasonable to judge people by the company they keep. Not saying it is fair or right but it is human nature and is an instinct that sometimes should not be ignored.

I do agree and that is why i think it is important to say this let my instincts work here and if I have questions I will ask but don't tell us who we should hang out with or shun us because we talk to or hang out with some one you don't like as we would not do that to you

Yes if we all could grow up and find out the real truth instead of just assuming things you hear are true this lifestyle could be a whole lot easier

"If you want to view, paradise, simply look around and view it" "Anything you want to, do it. Want to change the world...there's nothing to it."

Tammy, I still love you

*grope, grope*

WILDATLCOUPLE123 wrote:

CANT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG? SHIT... FUCK...DAMN

Im trying to play nicely...I got the fuck and the damn down, but uh, can we skip the shit. Hommie don't play that. ~shudder...ewwww~

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

Or perhaps grow up and not start rumors to begin with....just a thought. Nothing worst then lying attention whores.

Well, it's not quite the same, but very similar words are sometimes quite pleasing to people. I mean just imagine a "Whore, lying at attention?" She just MIGHT be popular?

Sorry, just trying to lighten it up a bit in here!!

FUN4MWF wrote:

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:

Or perhaps grow up and not start rumors to begin with....just a thought. Nothing worst then lying attention whores.

Well, it's not quite the same, but very similar words are sometimes quite pleasing to people. I mean just imagine a "Whore, lying at attention?" She just MIGHT be popular?

Sorry, just trying to lighten it up a bit in here!!

huh. So *thats* how I got popular. dammit. I thought it was because I'm funny and came with my own paper bags.

xox
Tammy

p.s. all comments, posts, and opinions stated by the redhead are hers alone and do not represent the owners or administrators of said site. At least not officially. :-D

BLUEEYESINUTAH wrote:


Sorry you feel you have to delete it. But thanks for the good read and for something to think about. Now hurry up and post something I can comment on. Hey I know. Make a thread about what to do with 10lbs of fresh tomatoes...especially if you are not the canning type. I'm a loss here people.

Throw them at the cranky people? There seem to be a few of those around! Hey, did my screen just get hit with a big splotch of red?

ABCCOUPLE wrote:

Sleddogs.. you guys having nothing to worry about. Talk to who you want to talk to! Fuck who will let fuck you! And if anyone tells you otherwise, tell them to "Fuck off". Okay, now I used fuck now 4 times I feel much better ;-) Yeah shit happens, and honestly it does happen just as much in the Vanilla lifestyle as it does in the the Swinger community. Have you ever poked your head in one of those female "Slumber Parties", vanilla chicks, swinger chicks, it doesn't matter, its gossip....gossip....gossip...drama...drama..drama... I think very few people grow up after highschool, life just delays growing out of those human needs we have, which are to be accepted by others. Many times this need leads others to lie, say bad things about one another, or jealousy. Just look at some peoples marriages for hell sake, its a constant drama and then your thinking they won't show drama in the lifestyle.. LOL.. thats like telling the sun not to come up in the morning. I'm to the point that I fully expect Drama each and every time we meet someone new. But the question is, will the drama kill the relationship, or can we deal with the drama and just accept these people for who they are. Bottom line, expect drama every damn time, and if their profile says they hate drama, then expect a shit load.

my profile says no drama no it and i havent been , just been cute and cuddly since i made my profile lol

I just wanted to say thanks for the entertaining reading material....lol...never gets old.

Gee...look at the drama and energy generated just from this original post, which...ironically was posted to target and whine about the drama-mongers...

Is it just me, or are there others of you who think the subject of this thread has deteriorated from "high school" to "pre-school"?

Unfortunately, We've been affected by the rumors.......... Sad really. Think it is started by jealousy, spite, insecurity, etc. As far as the birds of a feather flock together comment, I don't agree with that. In my opinion, it isn't necessarily a good way to judge people either. Being new to the lifestyle & hanging with people until you figure out or come into your own is a norm. Just because I hang out with someone doesn't mean I should be pegged as the same. (Maybe I invite them to hang out with me to get to know them.) Our motto is try to get to know everyone (not sleep with everyone-- and even if we did choose to do that, isn't that our choice and the choice of those we meet?) Even at our best as we have chatted in the chat room our opinions have formed. We were blown away by meeting a person for the first time at the M&G this past weekend and found out they were completely different and way cool.. Glad to have met them. We had to take a step back and remind ourselves to keep and open mind. If you're offended by us hanging with someone else other than you and your group, get over it! It in no way means we don't like you but, we want to expand our horizons......

HA HA this pretty much says it all..

I've got a headache now. It's time to go to bed...

FUCKADOODLEDOO wrote:

THAT'S IT EVERYONE GETS A TIME OUT GO TO YOUR ROOMS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL I crack me up
Gina

I got a better idea. You all have been very naughty. Go to MY room. ;-)

Same shit every day cause people are people and they don’t change.