What were your first time events like? FIRST TIME - Swinging,swing club visit,bi experience, first couple, first threesome, interracial, first kiss,first swingers cruise.
Any first time experiences in the lifestyle good or bad. We have had the pleasure of meeting so many great people through the lifestyle over the years, and shared some great experiences we would of missed not being in the lifestyle.
Any first time experiences in the lifestyle good or bad. We have had the pleasure of meeting so many great people through the lifestyle over the years, and shared some great experiences we would of missed not being in the lifestyle.
Imagine two young college kids, newlyweds (Actually VIRGINS before we were married in the temple just a few short years before.) for all intents and purposes, sitting in a car chugging Bartyles and James wine coolers, trying to summon up the courage and/or daring each other to go into a small house party back east. To say we were petrified is an understatement. We were certain we were going to hell for even driving up to the house and drinking alcohol in the driveway. Eventually, curiosity and sheer horniness overcame our fears and we went inside. We played a rousing game of strip poker as an icebreaker with the few couples there (Ms. Evil TOTALLY cheated!) and then went into a bedroom and soft-swapped with another young couple. 
We started with mff fun w a Barbie doll coworker of mine. My wofe of course had the insecurities as expected. It was a no touching thing for me on the other girl but full contact for her. It took some convincing but it went really well. Weeks later we did it again and I had the green light to do whatever. This time it was even hotter. Since then we have had countless mff fun and each time they are super hot. Everyone is involved 100% and everyone goes home happy. We tried swapping once and it was awkward and uncomfortable. It didn't end up happebing. We learned a lot from it and we are open to trying it again taking w it what we learned from previously. We just tried jumping right into it with the other couple and it set the wrong time. If we messed around first and gradually climbed into things we both think it Would've been a success. We have done a scenario or 2 where she has given a guy head while we fucked but havent advanced past that yet. Its a work in progress and it just takes time sometimes to get comfortable.
The Mrs, a blonde and a hell of a birthday gift.
Mrs and I were still dating at the time . It was my 23rd birthday and we had invited a bunch of friends to bar hop with us. One of the friends we invited brought a beautiful blonde friend with her that I had never met before. We were all at the old Port O Call bar and one of the girls wanted to go to the Green Street bar in Trolley Square (side note, this is where Mrs and I met for the first time ever). So our female friend and her beautiful blonde gal pal, that I was eyeing the whole night, and my wife went to Green Street where I would eventually meet up with them later. When I walked into Green Street I found the Mrs seductively kissing our new blonde friend right on the lips and her hands were exploring the blonde's very fit body. This was pretty typical late night bar behavior of the Mrs. She is always seeking out the most beautiful women after a few drinks. Meanwhile, our female friend had found a boy that she liked and as we got closer to closing time she said she wanted to go back to his place. The blonde had rode with our female friend and didn't have a way home... I seen my wife's eyes light up with excitement as she knew this was the perfect opportunity to offer the blonde a ride home "or back to our place" as she said with a mischievous smile and a wink. To which the blonde happily accepted. It would be difficult to turn down the Mrs after she has had her lips and hands all over you for the past few hours. So we all hop in a cab, Mrs and the blonde in the back seat and myself up front with the driver. The whole way home those two were all over each other, kissing, touching, groping... I sat quietly up front making sure not to say anything as I feared my excitement might show and I would kill the mood with awkward enthusiasm. At this point I am so turned on and my cock is actually aching with anticipation. We got to our apartment and I walked into the kitchen to get us some drinks and when I walked back into the living room the girls were standing in the center of the room, topless and staring at me as if to say "we are waiting for you". Understandably I was frozen in place as I took in one of the most beautiful scenes I've ever had the opportunity to view. These two beautiful young women were all mine. What the fuck was I about to do!? I had dreamed about this moment so much for I was sure it was never going to happen... And yet here I am, beer in one hand, two glasses in the other. And my dreams waiting for me to make the next move.
We had sex on the couch while Dave Matthew's played on the background TV until my camera died (of course I was gonna film this!) and we moved it to the bedroom and fucked until we all passed out. The next morning I woke up between these two sexy girls and I lightly tested to see who was awake by gently rubbing my legs against the women on either side of me. The blonde responded first. I kissed her, put my arms around her and entered her before even saying good morning. The light bed rocking and moans of pleasure woke the Mrs. I reached over, caressed her soft skin and pulled her closer switching over to her body and fucking her while the blonde watched. I came so hard I think I might have taken a few years off the end of my life. The first words I heard that morning were from the beautiful blonde's sweet lips "y'all are crazy"
That is the story of the best day of my life and a birthday I will never ever forget...
Mrs and I were still dating at the time . It was my 23rd birthday and we had invited a bunch of friends to bar hop with us. One of the friends we invited brought a beautiful blonde friend with her that I had never met before. We were all at the old Port O Call bar and one of the girls wanted to go to the Green Street bar in Trolley Square (side note, this is where Mrs and I met for the first time ever). So our female friend and her beautiful blonde gal pal, that I was eyeing the whole night, and my wife went to Green Street where I would eventually meet up with them later. When I walked into Green Street I found the Mrs seductively kissing our new blonde friend right on the lips and her hands were exploring the blonde's very fit body. This was pretty typical late night bar behavior of the Mrs. She is always seeking out the most beautiful women after a few drinks. Meanwhile, our female friend had found a boy that she liked and as we got closer to closing time she said she wanted to go back to his place. The blonde had rode with our female friend and didn't have a way home... I seen my wife's eyes light up with excitement as she knew this was the perfect opportunity to offer the blonde a ride home "or back to our place" as she said with a mischievous smile and a wink. To which the blonde happily accepted. It would be difficult to turn down the Mrs after she has had her lips and hands all over you for the past few hours. So we all hop in a cab, Mrs and the blonde in the back seat and myself up front with the driver. The whole way home those two were all over each other, kissing, touching, groping... I sat quietly up front making sure not to say anything as I feared my excitement might show and I would kill the mood with awkward enthusiasm. At this point I am so turned on and my cock is actually aching with anticipation. We got to our apartment and I walked into the kitchen to get us some drinks and when I walked back into the living room the girls were standing in the center of the room, topless and staring at me as if to say "we are waiting for you". Understandably I was frozen in place as I took in one of the most beautiful scenes I've ever had the opportunity to view. These two beautiful young women were all mine. What the fuck was I about to do!? I had dreamed about this moment so much for I was sure it was never going to happen... And yet here I am, beer in one hand, two glasses in the other. And my dreams waiting for me to make the next move.
We had sex on the couch while Dave Matthew's played on the background TV until my camera died (of course I was gonna film this!) and we moved it to the bedroom and fucked until we all passed out. The next morning I woke up between these two sexy girls and I lightly tested to see who was awake by gently rubbing my legs against the women on either side of me. The blonde responded first. I kissed her, put my arms around her and entered her before even saying good morning. The light bed rocking and moans of pleasure woke the Mrs. I reached over, caressed her soft skin and pulled her closer switching over to her body and fucking her while the blonde watched. I came so hard I think I might have taken a few years off the end of my life. The first words I heard that morning were from the beautiful blonde's sweet lips "y'all are crazy"
That is the story of the best day of my life and a birthday I will never ever forget...
We have always been very sexual and were thrill seekers from day one, having sex in theaters, bathrooms of dance clubs, dressing rooms etc... But we’d never imagined how our first experience would be that would lead us down this path.
About 6 years ago we had moved to Arizona and became really close with about 5 couples whom I worked with selling alarms. We were all still church goers at the time. One night we all started drinking a little which wasn’t the norm for us. the ladies all decided to dress up is lingerie and do dances for us. It was more hilarious than sexy. A lot of us guys out stripped and out danced the ladies for a great night of laughs.
After a lot of laughs and a few more drinks, I remember looking over at my good friend and his wife next to us and she was lying there naked getting eaten out and she was staring at us. She was an extremely sexy woman too. So the wife decided to start blowing me, and before we knew it all 5 couples were having sex in one room. It was so thrilling and sexy. We had never seen each other naked or talked about doing such a thing. Unfortunately the next few days were awkward with a few people but we all got over it. No one ever discussed or talked about it ever again. Unfortunately, we moved away to Utah and we continued our sexual path in the lifestyle, but we only talk to those friends once a year through social media. We don’t think any of them have done such a thing since but we’d give a lot to hook up with all those people once again.
About 6 years ago we had moved to Arizona and became really close with about 5 couples whom I worked with selling alarms. We were all still church goers at the time. One night we all started drinking a little which wasn’t the norm for us. the ladies all decided to dress up is lingerie and do dances for us. It was more hilarious than sexy. A lot of us guys out stripped and out danced the ladies for a great night of laughs.
After a lot of laughs and a few more drinks, I remember looking over at my good friend and his wife next to us and she was lying there naked getting eaten out and she was staring at us. She was an extremely sexy woman too. So the wife decided to start blowing me, and before we knew it all 5 couples were having sex in one room. It was so thrilling and sexy. We had never seen each other naked or talked about doing such a thing. Unfortunately the next few days were awkward with a few people but we all got over it. No one ever discussed or talked about it ever again. Unfortunately, we moved away to Utah and we continued our sexual path in the lifestyle, but we only talk to those friends once a year through social media. We don’t think any of them have done such a thing since but we’d give a lot to hook up with all those people once again.
I was hoping for more First time stories.. it helps newcomers a lot.. 
It was cool when it finally happened but we had a ton of flakes that nearly ended our swing days.
The reason the flakes are bad is because I feel the women take it personally it really tore my wife down to where she felt she wasn't good enough because some asshats couldn't show up or just simply cancel.
But we slowed way down now so if it comes our way hell yeah we're gettin down if we agree but we don't look for it anymore.
Flakes and liars ruin shit but to the newbys don't let a few ruin it there are some great people out there willing to take time to help you along.
The reason the flakes are bad is because I feel the women take it personally it really tore my wife down to where she felt she wasn't good enough because some asshats couldn't show up or just simply cancel.
But we slowed way down now so if it comes our way hell yeah we're gettin down if we agree but we don't look for it anymore.
Flakes and liars ruin shit but to the newbys don't let a few ruin it there are some great people out there willing to take time to help you along.
AWHOOTY wrote:wow... How the other party feels when someone now-show didn’t cross my mind.. now I know and I am sure someone else does too thanks👌🏿 Update- I think one side may call the other side a Flake but the Flake probably concluded it wasn’t going work out or WAS FEELING PRESSURED? I am not talking about You, when people No-Show does the host ever reach out again to understand why?
It was cool when it finally happened but we had a ton of flakes that nearly ended our swing days.
The reason the flakes are bad is because I feel the women take it personally it really tore my wife down to where she felt she wasn't good enough because some asshats couldn't show up or just simply cancel.
But we slowed way down now so if it comes our way hell yeah we're gettin down if we agree but we don't look for it anymore.
Flakes and liars ruin shit but to the newbys don't let a few ruin it there are some great people out there willing to take time to help you along.
I'm posting from my single profile but our first time, I had a crush on a co-worker, female, and we got on the subject of swapping somehow. She admitted her and her boyfriend wanted to try it. They came over, we had some drinks, her and I went to the other room. It was amazing. My husband would use this anal eaze stuff down the main vein and head of his cock. It numbed it just enough to typically give a good 15 to 20 minutes more time of fun. Well the other dude took it off the counter and we told him what we used it for. Instead of a pea size amount, he rubbed that shit on like lube and there was NO coming back from that. He got hard but then it kicked in and became a useless extra body part. Her and I tried everything. Poor dude. They were super embarrassed and we just couldn't wait til next time yo try again. There never was a next time sadly. I did get to see my husband enjoy her thoufh as did I and that was mostly what I wanted so oh well.
Our first time to break the ice was going to strip clubs together and then came the private lap dance rooms. Out side of Utah they get a little naughtier which we found we liked. We had a stripper go down on both of us in New Orleans and after that we said it was time to start making new friends ... Lol ..
After the clubs I set up a MMF for my wife's birthday. I was the nervous one he was experianced in the 3 some dept and was cool with walking me through .. of course cuz it was our first I got off quick but enjoyed home give her a birthday orgasm that she will never forget.
Since then we have had numerous beautiful experiances with other couples. The first guy several more times. .. The people that know us best in life are our friends in the Lifestyle.
After the clubs I set up a MMF for my wife's birthday. I was the nervous one he was experianced in the 3 some dept and was cool with walking me through .. of course cuz it was our first I got off quick but enjoyed home give her a birthday orgasm that she will never forget.
Since then we have had numerous beautiful experiances with other couples. The first guy several more times. .. The people that know us best in life are our friends in the Lifestyle.