My girlfriend and i have talked quite a bit about having another girl over for a threesome. We tried posting a meetup a couple times but got no responses. Is there a better way to go about it or just keep posting meetups?
If you are a couple why does it say single male
I'm with you VANESSA-BABY
I have been emailing and messaging the admins to get the account changed but have got no responses. I'm thinking we might just create a new couple account.
I was a single male on here for several years and have played with a couple different couples but I'm no longer single.
Kinda interesting that you were "...a single male on here for several years and have played with a couple different couples but I'm no longer single." but now only want to play with single females. No judgment (you should definitely fuck who ya wanna fuck)...but quite interesting nonetheless. 
^ judgement
She's not ready for couples yet. She has played with girls before but never with other couples. We discussed it but she'd rather just play with another girl at the moment.
MariaYDoc wrote:
^ judgement
I, of course, meant it sarcastically. We've been in the lifestyle for a long time and it's hard not to be a little bit skeptical when you've heard every excuse in the book and seen every kind of ploy imaginable.
Not saying that it's necessarily the case here but anyone who's been in swinging long enough will certainly have plenty of experiences where they're seen men overtly or even subliminally influence the lady to only want to play with women...while they, of course, join in too.
And you'd probably be shocked at the number of single men we've met over the years who have openly admitted that they would NEVER allow a woman they are in a relationship with to fuck another man. Additionally, we've met very few newbie women who didn't have a much bigger problem with their man fucking another woman than with any other lifestyle scenario. It's just human nature.
How about this? Maybe look for another couple that you find a mutual attraction with and start out with just the girls playing while the guys watch. Then, slowly, as you build trust, move into situations where you exchange partners...even if it's just soft swap at first. I guarantee that finding this type of situation will be MUCH easier than finding a woman for a threesome. Just a thought.
Single bi females are rair here. We can't find one lol
WER1FUN69 wrote:
That a unicorn!! Very Very rair..
Extremely rare indeed.
They dont exist except in movies, we've given up trying to find one.
I would say "Back Page" but the morality police have spoken>
Agreed RnM. All of our "unicorns" are from the vanilla world. There are many, and they are willing and even eager. Why would they need to join a swing group when they can get it any time or anywhere they want.
Have you tried GROUPON? That's where Ms. Evil and I get all our single females to have threesomes with.
I hear unicorns hide..under boulders and short bushes...pruned bushes only, no doubt!
Lol uts but you guys can always delete that account and start over a new one as a couple if you are a couple
I'm a single female and I think I am a pretty girl, I am having a hard time getting people single men, females, and couples that I would like to play with to even respond... I wanted a whole weekend of crazy sex but nothing...😔 being a unicorn is lonely. 🦄
Okay, okay, okay... The moment couples stop calling them "unicorns" and think of them as "ellusive" they will start popping up. Here's my hint: A SINGLE FEMALE SEEKING COUPLES DOES NOT HAVE A NEED TO BE ON A SWINGERS DATING SITE NOR AT A SWINGERS CLUB!! Use other alternatives, be creative, they are out there, many of them, they are not easy to find but I'll say they are not as impossible as most couples think they are. Most of you are looking in the wrong place. The good thing about finding a single girl is that there is a big chance she will become a steady girlfriend. Don't you cute couples think cute girls find you both attractive, interesting, sexy? They do! There are single girls everyday looking at you both at the mall and saying to themselves: "I'll eat them both!" Our experiences: we had play with single females often, not as much as couples. We also had 2 steady girfriends relationships lasting 1-2 yrs (we've been LS for 20 yrs) Hint requests to my inbox.
When my ex and i swung we found ladies through Craigslist (sucks this is gone) , girls id already dated, fkd or knew they'd rather have some then none I guess and in a couple cases that I just met in public. I'll say it was a lot of work looking.