My girlfriend and i have talked quite a bit about having another girl over for a threesome. We tried posting a meetup a couple times but got no responses. Is there a better way to go about it or just keep posting meetups?
Same here.. last year we were members for over 6 months , not one hookup. So many posts and friend requests, no responses to messages, we even went to the meet and greets and still nothing. Usually got messages just before we have to renew the subscription, which is common for lots of other sites too. We cancelled.
Now, 2 weeks ago we get talked into renewing our account. Here it goes again, tons of requests, no messages back, and we are going to yet another meet and greet.. if we had a dollar amount for all the time we have put into this so far, we could have just went to a cathouse in Wells.
Hopefully we can atleast connect with someone for more than just 5 mins , if not then I guess it's not meant to be.
The hardest thing here on this site is looking for what we want, like you guys are, the girl. Lots of the profiles say single girl, but when you read further she has a man also wanting to join in...and that's NOT SINGLE.. that's the frustrating part.
Hopefully you guys can figure shit out.. we are still trying also but don't know how much longer. GOOD LUCK 🤓🤓
Now, 2 weeks ago we get talked into renewing our account. Here it goes again, tons of requests, no messages back, and we are going to yet another meet and greet.. if we had a dollar amount for all the time we have put into this so far, we could have just went to a cathouse in Wells.
Hopefully we can atleast connect with someone for more than just 5 mins , if not then I guess it's not meant to be.
The hardest thing here on this site is looking for what we want, like you guys are, the girl. Lots of the profiles say single girl, but when you read further she has a man also wanting to join in...and that's NOT SINGLE.. that's the frustrating part.
Hopefully you guys can figure shit out.. we are still trying also but don't know how much longer. GOOD LUCK 🤓🤓
There’s a reason they are called unicorns. Best of luck and happy hunting.
Wife will come do one with you if yours will come do one with us...
Looks like JK0207 just solves that issue!
People on a swingers site complaining about other people not being single. I guess I missed the point of this site...
JK0207 wrote:
Wife will come do one with you if yours will come do one with us...
Send her over, we are down
Lol, we tried that once wife went and had a 3some with another couple everything was great. But when it was her turn to join us it never happened.
I feel your pain we have messaged many ladies to see if they would like to join us and we never get any response. It's frustrating on all the profiles they say they are interested in threesome but it never happens.
We should do what I read on one of the above comments the female from one couple join another couple and then swap and return the favor.
If anyone has any ideas let us know.
Fanceefree
We should do what I read on one of the above comments the female from one couple join another couple and then swap and return the favor.
If anyone has any ideas let us know.
Fanceefree
JK0207 wrote:
Wife will come do one with you if yours will come do one with us...
I think is a great idea.
For comfort:
Maybe it just makes more sense for 2 couples to get together and take turns (2 guys 1 Lady)
(2 ladies 1 guy)... We love taking turns.
Plan a 3some when you all know each other. (It can be a really scary thing to send your wife out with complete strangers.) and then we hear about only one couple doing it and someone has a change of heart. Just a thought. Or everyone should just wear masks 🤣
Maybe it just makes more sense for 2 couples to get together and take turns (2 guys 1 Lady)
(2 ladies 1 guy)... We love taking turns.
Plan a 3some when you all know each other. (It can be a really scary thing to send your wife out with complete strangers.) and then we hear about only one couple doing it and someone has a change of heart. Just a thought. Or everyone should just wear masks 🤣
I think the biggest issue is a lot of couples want to treat single women as a plaything not a human being. Take some time to get to know them. Find out their wants and desires. Treat them like a friend and you will have a lot more luck than just trying to find someone to use and discard.
NAUGHTYORNICE wrote:
I think the biggest issue is a lot of couples want to treat single women as a plaything not a human being. Take some time to get to know them. Find out their wants and desires. Treat them like a friend and you will have a lot more luck than just trying to find someone to use and discard.
I couldn't have said it better
We could make like a wife exchange program!
For that unicorn threesome
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For that unicorn threesome
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If you are frustrated with the life style because you cant find a single female for a threesome, then you have no idea what the swinging lifestyle is, most people want to chat go out for dinner and find out if there is a connection.
Hell yes!!!
It’s about (especially in Utah) finding adults that are not closed minded judge mental hypocrites. Most of the time we go out meet some amazing people have a wonderful time and end up having awesome sexy together. Not always 😉
It’s about (especially in Utah) finding adults that are not closed minded judge mental hypocrites. Most of the time we go out meet some amazing people have a wonderful time and end up having awesome sexy together. Not always 😉
LOVESEXFUN1973 wrote:
As a unicorn, let me tell you why you don’t get responses. You want us (a single female) to come over to your house whom we have never met. Most women just don’t do that. We have to look out for our safety. We like to talk first and get to know you, then meet up somewhere where there are people around. We have to feel comfortable with you first. We are not guys. Most of us don’t show up to strangers houses and just fuck.
Another tricky thing is making sure your woman and us click. In my experience, the female in the relationship often gets jealous watching her man fuck another woman. He’s getting a different female, but she’s not getting a different male.
Couples want a friend request from us without ever saying hello and getting to know us. How about giving us what we need, and we’ll give you what you need.
Maybe other unicorns don’t feel the same as me, but that’s my experience. Treat us like people instead of objects.
Hope this helps.
Seriously! You have the gist of it. The most drama is in the threesome realm where the wife is not really on board with sharing her husband. Unicorns get a lot of messages, but because they can have their choice of anyone they want, they don’t need to respond to every message and they can pick and choose who they spend their time with. As a former unicorn I preferred to find couples that can be friends as it cuts down on the meet and greet dance and that awkward voyage of getting to the bedroom.
8NowUntilThen8 wrote:
Get the hell off of a swingers sure. Go to tinder or some shit like that looking for a single woman. Guess what bud? We are mostly couples in here except the irritating single males. Lmfao
Spoken by someone who has been on the site for less than 6 months. Try 15 years! Perhaps it is you that needs to get the hell off. Members of this site are tolerant of others; always have been. Now it is your turn to adopt to our ways or get the fuck out.
Sorry, I don't normally call out BS when I see it but damn, that quotation was just rude and non-informed.
Mav
An honest question every member should ask before sending a message to a unicorn: "if I were a beautiful single lady, why would I pick my spouse and me over 100+ other couples that are also interested?" Are you good looking, fit, intelligent, witty, kind,....what is it about you as a couple that you think makes you stand out?
If you aren't finding success; up your game, lower you expectations, and just enjoy the ride.
If you aren't finding success; up your game, lower you expectations, and just enjoy the ride.
SEXYSLC30 wrote:
An honest question every member should ask before sending a message to a unicorn: "if I were a beautiful single lady, why would I pick my spouse and me over 100+ other couples that are also interested?" Are you good looking, fit, intelligent, witty, kind,....what is it about you as a couple that you think makes you stand out?
If you aren't finding success; up your game, lower you expectations, and just enjoy the ride.
^^this^^
SEXYSLC30 wrote:
If you aren't finding success; up your game, lower you expectations, and just enjoy the ride.
This is 95% of the problem for singles and couples that complain about not finding others to play with. Either up your game or lower expectations.