We've read quite a few couples with these as their opening lines on their profile. When you read these as their introductions what are your first and honest reactions? Our first reaction is a laugh and then we ask ourselves, "Selves, do these demigods have any unbiased evidence, besides their own opinions, to show in support of their claims?"
Looking at your profile proves that you have nothing to hide or embelish. We promote ourselves in a honest manner and expect the same from others.
Bob
Bob
I think its even worse to pick a horrid screen name like bigcock27 or some dumb shit like that. But I digress, if you need to tell people how hot, smart, or rich you are, and you may be all those things, you are sorely missing the point and those people will NEVER be happy with anything. All of us have kids, all of us have 5 or 75 pounds we need to lose. People need to get over themselves, we all look good in the dark fucking!
Hey Ammend! I like your attitude. Seems like you strive for honesty and get rankled by pretentiousness. (Did I spell that right? Spell check says I did.)
We want to meet real people and leave behind the judgment. That's part of the reason we are involved in the "lifestyle." Or is it just about fucking? Guess it takes all kinds to make a village.
We want to meet real people and leave behind the judgment. That's part of the reason we are involved in the "lifestyle." Or is it just about fucking? Guess it takes all kinds to make a village.
The last too posts are so true and honest. I love you peeps. It should be just about fucking, and yeah all of us need to lose more wieght. And yes a lot of peeps need to be friends. I am of the mind that if we meet and become friends while we hang out and fuck then thats cool. But if we don't thats cool too. We are all so different yet so alike minded
Rick and Gabby
Rick and Gabby
We whole heartedly agree with everybody.. This is all about sexual fun. None of us are perfect... All of us could stand to lose some weight and dont look how we did when we were 18. That's life.. thats reality.. People that start with statements such as those are way too in love with themselves and need to get over it. We have met a few and they were some of our worse experiences... You don't have to be a supermodel to have fun in the bedroom.... You can be fat, thin, short, tall, hung, small, flat-chested... etc etc etc ... we can still have fun in the bedroom.. personality is so much more important than the other things... Tragically those that deify their bodies tend to have the worst personalities.. Just our two cents worth.... BTW it says right on our page that we are not Ken and Barbie.... I think honesty counts big time in this situation!!
As an extra added ammendment to this thread... We also can not stand liars.... Again it really matters little what you look like, how well you are endowed, etc.... Why should we lie about it?? I mean if we click we are going to meet. As soon as we do, we will see that you have one huge personality flaw, being a liar. That is a huge turnoff and we have simply left when people have done that to us before.
We have often wondered that same thing.
The subtlety of being confident and loving oneself (which we find attractive), can easily get blurred with arrogance and narcissism (definitely NOT sexy!).
Our experience has been that those qualities don't necessarily need to be publicly advertised or articulated with words.
Honestly, individuals/couples that possess those and similar qualities often make them apparent upon meeting in person, or merely hanging out with them in person; it simply emanates from them.
In fact we have experienced...as a possibility...that individuals/couples who feel a need to brag about how simply "unimaginably awesome" they are, actually feel that they lack those attributes (although they may not admit it or are even aware of their lacking in those areas).
Through verbalizing and making sure we know how "magnanimous" they are, they are simply compensating for their own perceived lack in these areas.
It has been mentioned that perhaps it's merely sarcasm and humor intended to break the ice, which of course very well may be.
However, in human behavior, how often have humor and sarcasm been used as masks, behind which insecurities and fears can be hidden?
The subtlety of being confident and loving oneself (which we find attractive), can easily get blurred with arrogance and narcissism (definitely NOT sexy!).
Our experience has been that those qualities don't necessarily need to be publicly advertised or articulated with words.
Honestly, individuals/couples that possess those and similar qualities often make them apparent upon meeting in person, or merely hanging out with them in person; it simply emanates from them.
In fact we have experienced...as a possibility...that individuals/couples who feel a need to brag about how simply "unimaginably awesome" they are, actually feel that they lack those attributes (although they may not admit it or are even aware of their lacking in those areas).
Through verbalizing and making sure we know how "magnanimous" they are, they are simply compensating for their own perceived lack in these areas.
It has been mentioned that perhaps it's merely sarcasm and humor intended to break the ice, which of course very well may be.
However, in human behavior, how often have humor and sarcasm been used as masks, behind which insecurities and fears can be hidden?
i think part of the problem is that it sucks to describe yourself. Most of us, I think, don't really know what to say. We just try to sound like something others are interested in, we become advertisements trying to catch someones eye. I think some people are arrogant assholes, but others just think they need to say something, but just don't know what to put in their profile. I agree with most of what has been said and the feelings behind it, but I think some of the time it isn't as narcissistic as this thread makes it seem.
I still feel like my profile sucks and doesn't really express ourselves, but it has gotten better the longer we have been on here and making adjustments to our profile.
I still feel like my profile sucks and doesn't really express ourselves, but it has gotten better the longer we have been on here and making adjustments to our profile.
What ....You mean i'm not HOTTTTTTTTTTT.....oh there goes my ego JK very nice post with some very well thought out answers...I do agree with the poster who said sometimes you just don't know what to put in your profile..As for me i have no problem describing my wife the beautiful thing she is but i hate trying to describe myself....
Kendra...point well-taken. Perhaps my point had more serious undertones than I had intended; we both appreciate and value those with a keen sense of humor and wit.
Our two cents, worth it or not, if you have to say it, it ain't true. Think about the products in the retail stores "High Quality", "High Fashion", if the product says it, it most likely isn't. So, yes it is great to be confident, have a sense of humor, and to "put your best foot forward". To go on and on about it, what are you hiding? And yes we all look great in the dark fucking....if we do it right 
Awwww....baby you are the HOTTEST in my book!!!!!!! And sweet as can be 
Have to agree with all that have posted...but it is very difficult for me to describe myself...so I let that Lucky B up there do it...*giggles*...kisses...Naugh-Ty
Have to agree with all that have posted...but it is very difficult for me to describe myself...so I let that Lucky B up there do it...*giggles*...kisses...Naugh-Ty
We've found trends, read our profile on this subject just for fun. In particular items #3, IIIV and VI - lol
And yes BLUEIDKAT, from our years of experiences it is all only about FUCKING for most people. The village is a little one sided...
And yes BLUEIDKAT, from our years of experiences it is all only about FUCKING for most people. The village is a little one sided...