I am very sorry to say that crazymj is no more we have recently gone threw a divorce.
i have meet man cool people on here and would love to keep in contact. at the same time i am now a single male and understand that alot of the fun things i have done with you guys over the years is not as welcome with the single males but i still want to continue any and all friends ships i have made hope to see you all again.
sincerly marty
i have meet man cool people on here and would love to keep in contact. at the same time i am now a single male and understand that alot of the fun things i have done with you guys over the years is not as welcome with the single males but i still want to continue any and all friends ships i have made hope to see you all again.
sincerly marty
Actually, I think it is a good topic... If one needs a general opinion, what is the better way to ask it?
I think it's a VERY appropriate forum topic.
Those who are so quick to denegrate us singles (males and females alike), and question our place in the Lifestyle, should stop for just a moment and ask themselves a couple very simple questions:
What if - by whatever circumstance - I was to suddenly find myself without my spouse/partner/significant other?
What then, once I became one of them, would my views be of the role singles (male or female) play in the lifestyle?
What if I were to suddenly become what I so loathe and criticize?
It can happen to any of us.
And trust me, I know from first hand experience how the attitudes of so-called friends can change once you are no longer what the elitists consider to be on an even par with them.
You would NOT believe how quickly some folks (who pretended to be friends as long as it was to their benefit) will suddenly treat you like a lepor(sp) - just because you've lost your mate and are no longer a socially acceptable "couple" (by THEIR standards) as opposed to a dreaded "single" with scales on your back and green slime oozing from your every bodily orfice.
Those of you who are able to play in, and participate in the Lifestyle as a couple can count your blessings.
But remember - life doesn't always turn out the way we plan and hope it will.
And:
There but for the grace of God go I.
To all my once-upon-a-time, so-called friends who now wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire, I say:
Count your blessings today - you may not have them tomorrow.
Those who are so quick to denegrate us singles (males and females alike), and question our place in the Lifestyle, should stop for just a moment and ask themselves a couple very simple questions:
What if - by whatever circumstance - I was to suddenly find myself without my spouse/partner/significant other?
What then, once I became one of them, would my views be of the role singles (male or female) play in the lifestyle?
What if I were to suddenly become what I so loathe and criticize?
It can happen to any of us.
And trust me, I know from first hand experience how the attitudes of so-called friends can change once you are no longer what the elitists consider to be on an even par with them.
You would NOT believe how quickly some folks (who pretended to be friends as long as it was to their benefit) will suddenly treat you like a lepor(sp) - just because you've lost your mate and are no longer a socially acceptable "couple" (by THEIR standards) as opposed to a dreaded "single" with scales on your back and green slime oozing from your every bodily orfice.
Those of you who are able to play in, and participate in the Lifestyle as a couple can count your blessings.
But remember - life doesn't always turn out the way we plan and hope it will.
And:
There but for the grace of God go I.
To all my once-upon-a-time, so-called friends who now wouldn't piss on me if I was on fire, I say:
Count your blessings today - you may not have them tomorrow.
single males aren't inferior... they just come with less baggage and more balls. MMM... single males.
i am glad to hear i have some supoort and if any of you guys wanna hook up let me no ill still give what i have to offer oh and i put the just me now cuz i cant chang my profile
This lifestyle is fun, exiting, and we thought had a broader view on things or people that can bring happiness and satisfaction. We thought that's what this site was for. We hope that your journey only has a brghter day after those dark nights. Good luck! G&J(o)(o)
Oops! Brighter days. That's better, lol!
Pretty sure you can talk to the administrator and get that profile thing fixed too.
I think this is an appropriate topic. The idea of your "friends" shunning you after a major change in your life is not just limited to the lifestyle. Even as a married couple, we've had a little experience with our "friends" shunning us after leaving the LDS religion.
crazymj - good luck to you. I hope everything works out well for you.
carrierman - sorry to hear you've had a rough time with your friends.
independence-guy - You brought up a good point that just because someone goes from being part of a couple to being single, that does not make you any less important. I totally agree with you.
crazymj - good luck to you. I hope everything works out well for you.
carrierman - sorry to hear you've had a rough time with your friends.
independence-guy - You brought up a good point that just because someone goes from being part of a couple to being single, that does not make you any less important. I totally agree with you.