Can someone please explain to me why we all feel the need to bitch about this or that or the other is this just human nature or what?
Lately on the site the forum topics have covered a wide range of complaints everything from bitching at admin. for the upgrades or to many single males to bitching at single males and the race driven thing was ridiculous it went like twelve pages or some shit.
Is it really that hard to look at the good in things? Or is it just easier to complain about the bad?
I think it is pretty simple if you ask me....Treat everything and everybody the way you wish to be treated . If you all want admin to treat us like shit keep complaining about the job they are doing. I personally think they do an amazing job they provide a good site for a low cost with a lot of options. If you want single males to keep being "asshats" keep complaining then the good ones will feel even more pigeon-holed and become the assholes you keep telling them they are. And the race thing well I'm sorry but people are just people color does not matter.
Just remember hate breeds more hate and love breeds more love so move on.
My wife and I have gotten more out of this site than we ever expected. We have great friends, as well as sex partners and many we will be friends with for life..
Anyway that's my rant thanks for listening.
Lucky & Naugh-Ty
Lately on the site the forum topics have covered a wide range of complaints everything from bitching at admin. for the upgrades or to many single males to bitching at single males and the race driven thing was ridiculous it went like twelve pages or some shit.
Is it really that hard to look at the good in things? Or is it just easier to complain about the bad?
I think it is pretty simple if you ask me....Treat everything and everybody the way you wish to be treated . If you all want admin to treat us like shit keep complaining about the job they are doing. I personally think they do an amazing job they provide a good site for a low cost with a lot of options. If you want single males to keep being "asshats" keep complaining then the good ones will feel even more pigeon-holed and become the assholes you keep telling them they are. And the race thing well I'm sorry but people are just people color does not matter.
Just remember hate breeds more hate and love breeds more love so move on.
My wife and I have gotten more out of this site than we ever expected. We have great friends, as well as sex partners and many we will be friends with for life..
Anyway that's my rant thanks for listening.
Lucky & Naugh-Ty
Thank you, I couldn't have said it better! I'm not great at expressing my opinion on these forums, but I agree with everything you shared.
We, too, have had great experiences and made some wonderful friendships thanks to this site. Administrators, keep up the good work.
abcwoman
We, too, have had great experiences and made some wonderful friendships thanks to this site. Administrators, keep up the good work.
abcwoman
Well put D exactly how we feel also
Good post! I don't mind constructive criticism but plain old bitching is another thing. I have seen a few things that did not work as I would like them, so I make suggestions, I think that is how we improve things but just angry complaining does get old.
That being said I do have a problem with your use of the word Think! Kidding. :-)
Mr. C
That being said I do have a problem with your use of the word Think! Kidding. :-)
Mr. C
Thumbs Up Lucky & Naugh-Ty
good post!
good post!
Thank You LUCKY D,
Hi everyone! I do not post anything on here as it is either picked apart,taken the wrong way or used out of context. Even worse, we all have to pay the price with the raging bitch session that seems to always follow and dribble on for days if not weeks... If the energy here was focused on the good, the fun,the happy.... The let your hair down and let live attitude. This site and this world would seem and feel a little more friendly... Being an old Hippie I guess I lean toward "make love , not war"... Many of you who just replied know me and I couldnt agree more with your thoughts on this... good post Lucky & Naugh-ty!! The Captain
Oh I sooo should have been a 60's teen/young adult...all the free love and make love not war...I think Woodstock would have been a huge orgy for me 
Kisses...Naugh-Ty
Kisses...Naugh-TyBecause?...LOL
Just kidding. Great post. Thanks for sharing. Plenty of doom and gloom to go around so yes I agree. Sometimes though politics whether warrented or not is exciting and really fun. I know it has happened on this side of the forum as well. Passions run very high in some areas. Our society is what it is, and being a swinger does not extinguish those passions. Food for thought...love they neighbor and if you can love his wife.
All you need is Love. John Lennon
Just kidding. Great post. Thanks for sharing. Plenty of doom and gloom to go around so yes I agree. Sometimes though politics whether warrented or not is exciting and really fun. I know it has happened on this side of the forum as well. Passions run very high in some areas. Our society is what it is, and being a swinger does not extinguish those passions. Food for thought...love they neighbor and if you can love his wife.
All you need is Love. John Lennon
Thanks for all the feedback peeps keep up the free love and hot sex......
D, Ty,
You guys have been so gracious to me and you didn't have to be. I have had so many great times with the folks here but can attest to that odd bashind thing. I never even met or chatted with some and got beaten for being on here. Folks like you and the far greater majority are what keeps me here. Thanks and let the love flow, among other things......
You guys have been so gracious to me and you didn't have to be. I have had so many great times with the folks here but can attest to that odd bashind thing. I never even met or chatted with some and got beaten for being on here. Folks like you and the far greater majority are what keeps me here. Thanks and let the love flow, among other things......
Cuz I said so Bunny...and you must do what I say...so get down on your....oh wait, that is something else I'm thinking of...hehehe...kisses
Your welcome.
Kevin
Kevin
I agree, if you would like we we can talk about the band TOOL, like ,dont like , to love them, we like swingular, but wife hates tool but i love tool so it should be up to youu
Seems to me like the forum itself could be "cleaned" out. There are posts that date back so far, and the ones that stay on the main page don't really make sense because some do not even have comments.
This site is incredible, well worth the money, but it does seem that the forum is a place where some clean up could take place? And fresh topics, fresh ideas, and besides its just another way to get to know each other. There are so many sexy things we can talk about and positive things, but it all gets lost in the posts from 2004, or the yahoo post that has taken on a life of its own. With so much there and the posts that date back so far, it is intimidating to post.
Then I think some of those negative topics could just be dropped and we could move on to better things
This site is incredible, well worth the money, but it does seem that the forum is a place where some clean up could take place? And fresh topics, fresh ideas, and besides its just another way to get to know each other. There are so many sexy things we can talk about and positive things, but it all gets lost in the posts from 2004, or the yahoo post that has taken on a life of its own. With so much there and the posts that date back so far, it is intimidating to post.
Then I think some of those negative topics could just be dropped and we could move on to better things
Take the "B" out of bitch and you get "itch", and bitching makes my crotch itchy. Take the "tch" out of bitch and you get Bi. If you are bi, but you are bitchy, chances are no other bi will be itchy to make you twitchy. Take the "B" and the "chy" out of Bitch and you have "it". "It" pays to be positive so when someone is itching to have a good time or to be "bi", then all the elements of "bitch" become a positive thing. Let's turn off our bitching and turn on the fun.
Good post.
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Good post.
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