Yes, we're a dime a dozen, and some of us can be quite annoying, but we are a part of the lifestyle and probably a huge source of revenue for this site. We're not included in the featured members section on the home page and for good reason, for the most part, no one cares. However, for the few of us that aren't vermin, I would suggest some sort of featured single males venue. Perhaps a way to sort among certified real with positive comments from certified real couples and/or single females.
It'd just be nice for some recognition of the few of us that understand and observe the etiquette of the lifestyle.
It'd just be nice for some recognition of the few of us that understand and observe the etiquette of the lifestyle.
I don't think single females are features either are they? As far as I noticed they are couples only and you did have to contact ADMIN and let him know you wanted to be part of the featured set.
I thought I saw a featured member that was a single female...I could be wrong but I'll keep an eye out now cuz my curiosity is up...hehehe...kisses...Naugh-Ty
Naugh-Ty - You are correct! FEMALESEEKING is a single female featured member (black teddy on her tummy with her face blocked out) - mostly shows up on the left hand side of the log in page. ;> D . . .
Guess like any, "Single Male," he's got to take what he can dig up. He doesn't have anything to offer or share so he thinks he needs and inside with the "LifeStyle," to get his rocks off as can't do it finding a "Real Date."
2OFUS wrote:
Guess like any, "Single Male," he's got to take what he can dig up. He doesn't have anything to offer or share so he thinks he needs and inside with the "LifeStyle," to get his rocks off as can't do it finding a "Real Date."
I just added you to my blocklist
I am a single male and would love to see some type of S/M rating or varifacation myself. I have been to parties and gatherings where a single males are very welcome but at the same time I have been to some where on ass makes it rough on the rest of us.
TAB68OU1 wrote:
I am a single male and would love to see some type of S/M rating or varifacation myself.
I think our tantric massages should be given a rating on a scale of 1 to 10
2OFUS wrote:
Guess like any, "Single Male," he's got to take what he can dig up. He doesn't have anything to offer or share so he thinks he needs and inside with the "LifeStyle," to get his rocks off as can't do it finding a "Real Date."
I'd take my chance with him over your sorry pathetic loser selves. Get the fuck over yourself.
I'm rather fond of a certain single male myself right now. I give him 2 thumbs up. Yeah yeah. Im biased. hee hee.
I agree that maybe ALL swingular members need to have some sort of verification and get booted if they don't meet guidelines. And no, I'm NOT talking cock size. ;-)
I agree that maybe ALL swingular members need to have some sort of verification and get booted if they don't meet guidelines. And no, I'm NOT talking cock size. ;-)
GVNUXTC wrote:
Perhaps a way to sort among certified real with positive comments from certified real couples and/or single females.
I'm actually against the idea, in my experience comments can be as much a liability as a help.
First, I don't like broadcasting my business across the community. I like a certain amount of discretion, and I don't want total strangers (or even some of my friends) to know who I've been with and when.
And I'm also guilty, as I think many are, or judging people by who they've played with. There have been times when I've read a profile, liked it, skimmed to the comments and thought "OMG they did them/him/her" and it's killed my attraction.
So I'm happy to stand on my own two feet, I don't think I want or need a third party to vouch for me. Those that have met me have made their own minds up, and either like me or don't. Those that haven't I'm fine with trying to win over on my own.
And @ 2ofus, any guy who can't get a date in the real world ain't gonna last 10 minutes in the lifestyle. And at least we can spell better than you can.
OK I'm gonna go back to being flippant again
I find it interesting that 2OF is harping on someone about being desperate and needing to get their rocks of, when he had to go all creepy and hooked up with someone 23 yrs younger... eww.. just my opinion.. but EWWWW..
Bren
Bren
BREN...very good point, and it takes all types to make the world go 'round, but that jerk is the last one to be preaching about what gets ANYONES rocks off. No pics, probably eats viagra like rolaids to keep up with his young wife, who can't even be considered a "cougar" yet, and if ya read his profile, cant seem to complete a sentence either. He's blocked. LOL. Hope they stay in Green River.
I've said it before, and here I am saying it again:
90% of the couples I've played with have "NO SINGLE MALES" listed in their profile.
It would appear that the vast majority of folks here on Swingular and other sites are more worried about the "stigma" of playing with us single males than anything else.
OMG - what if our friends find out we lower ourselves to playing with the dreaded "single male"?
Come on folks, it's not like admitting to being involved in beastiality.
Why is it such a curse for some of you to admit the truth?
Granted, in "most" cases, we single males are more of an accessory than a necessity.
However, we are a part of the swinging lifestyle, and, whether or not you're willing to concede to our existence or not - we're not going to just fade away and disapper.
And, whether those of you with biased opinions against us are willing to admit it or not, there are those in the lifestyle who don't just accept us, but embrace us.
They may not admit to it in a public forum - but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Deal with it.
90% of the couples I've played with have "NO SINGLE MALES" listed in their profile.
It would appear that the vast majority of folks here on Swingular and other sites are more worried about the "stigma" of playing with us single males than anything else.
OMG - what if our friends find out we lower ourselves to playing with the dreaded "single male"?
Come on folks, it's not like admitting to being involved in beastiality.
Why is it such a curse for some of you to admit the truth?
Granted, in "most" cases, we single males are more of an accessory than a necessity.
However, we are a part of the swinging lifestyle, and, whether or not you're willing to concede to our existence or not - we're not going to just fade away and disapper.
And, whether those of you with biased opinions against us are willing to admit it or not, there are those in the lifestyle who don't just accept us, but embrace us.
They may not admit to it in a public forum - but no one knows what goes on behind closed doors.
Deal with it.
CARRIERMAN wrote:
the "stigma" of playing with us single males than anything else.
I think it might lessen the stigma if people started referring to us aa manicorns and not single males.
~the elusive manicorn
How about a database of info with a scale of 1-5. LOL
For instance: Initial contact - did they just send a friends request? Did they try to have a conversation with you first? Did they actually read the profile? Did they send you a "form" letter? Did they ask you any questions?! - (Sorry GLAZEDDONUTFACE, nothing personal toward you; but I WONT ANSWER BACK to someone if they really dont seem to take enough interest in me further, and try to find out more about me than the pictures I posted and crap I had to write to weed em out!!)
Then maybe a couple questions about how they were at making things go smoothly and comfortably if you actually met them. I wouldn't go into any sex related items because I think thats much more personal opinion and fairly rude! I would however have an item of how they behaved in the days/weeks/months after all that fun.
In all seriousness though that might be a little to extreme. I think the member comments area in the profiles is pretty good so make sure to add the good ones in there to make it easier for "the community". Yes, I dont have any comments in my profile, but you see how picky I am - lol. I just dont have the time, immune system or money for a full time personal security guard to be screwin around with every "Tom, Dick and Harry", and out of the 4 that I actually met over the last couple years, I haven't found anyone decent yet (1 - maybe??). 36DDSLC could you let me in on some of those good guys? Ah, yet another way to share info. ;-)
For instance: Initial contact - did they just send a friends request? Did they try to have a conversation with you first? Did they actually read the profile? Did they send you a "form" letter? Did they ask you any questions?! - (Sorry GLAZEDDONUTFACE, nothing personal toward you; but I WONT ANSWER BACK to someone if they really dont seem to take enough interest in me further, and try to find out more about me than the pictures I posted and crap I had to write to weed em out!!)
Then maybe a couple questions about how they were at making things go smoothly and comfortably if you actually met them. I wouldn't go into any sex related items because I think thats much more personal opinion and fairly rude! I would however have an item of how they behaved in the days/weeks/months after all that fun.
In all seriousness though that might be a little to extreme. I think the member comments area in the profiles is pretty good so make sure to add the good ones in there to make it easier for "the community". Yes, I dont have any comments in my profile, but you see how picky I am - lol. I just dont have the time, immune system or money for a full time personal security guard to be screwin around with every "Tom, Dick and Harry", and out of the 4 that I actually met over the last couple years, I haven't found anyone decent yet (1 - maybe??). 36DDSLC could you let me in on some of those good guys? Ah, yet another way to share info. ;-)
How about if single males feel like they're get a raw deal they go to some other site like rentboy.com. Let the hate messages commence!
OCEANCOUGAR wrote:
How about a database of info with a scale of 1-5. LOL
how about the same ranking for couples and single girls?
I've been here as a couple and now as a single for a few years now, and I've seen both sides of the game. I've encountered as many, if not more, rude and badly behaved couples (2ofus being a perfect example) and single girls as I have bad single guys.
I've met guys who've dragged their wives unwillingly into this, which makes them officially a couple in the lifestyle, but in practice they're parasites. I can't think of a worse experience I've had than realizing that late in the game and sitting in an awkward silence with a very unhappy girl while her husband finishes off boning your girl. I've encountered persistent and aggressive couples who would not or could not read our profile. I've encountered aggressive and drunken single girls at parties who've done stuff that I know I'd have been bounced in seconds for. And I've encountered a few single guys who've been total dicks.
But I've also met some of the most incredible people here: couples, single girls AND single guys.
We're all just people, judge everyone by the same standards. If you don't like someone, then block them. If you don't want single guys, block all single guys.
If you want to be featured and have your name up in lights, go for it, ask admin.
OCEANCOUGAR wrote:
but I WONT ANSWER BACK to someone if they really dont seem to take enough interest in me further, and try to find out more about me than the pictures I posted and crap I had to write to weed em out!!)
funnily enough, I feel exactly the same way
AMMEND wrote:
How about if single males feel like they're get a raw deal they go to some other site like rentboy.com. Let the hate messages commence!
I totally agree
CRAZYINLUV wrote:
We could always do a forum on our top single males that we like, just an idea? We would love to find out from other couples what single guys are their fav and who they would recommend.
Great idea!
I have actually started a thread at one time thanking the wonderful single males we had met and saying how they are not all bad...turned into a bashing ceremony quicker than I could get off...Kisses...Naugh-Ty