It was such an interesting conversation I had with a wonderful couple and friends to the fullest this morning. We swing with funftmyerscouple here on the site. The pics on our profile show this.
OK to the QUESTIONS: We thought it was so funny that couples with bifems look for other couples bifems for a threesome for THEM lmao. Lets see here OK 1st what makes these other couples think that the other couple's man got in the lifestyle just to sit in the corner with his dick in hand and watch his wife get laid. 2nd If the man wanted blueballs the strip clubs are always there. "Where is the love" or better yet quit placeing in your profile that you are ISO a couple when all you really want is a BIFEM ONLY...
next Question: When people write us a e-mail we always respond wether its a yes or no, and I know were not the only 1 feeling like this . but tell me why would anyone send me a kiss and then when written back they never respond.?
little funny huh? but would love to hear your feedback folks Kisses and licks in all the right place.
Jessica and Tre
OK to the QUESTIONS: We thought it was so funny that couples with bifems look for other couples bifems for a threesome for THEM lmao. Lets see here OK 1st what makes these other couples think that the other couple's man got in the lifestyle just to sit in the corner with his dick in hand and watch his wife get laid. 2nd If the man wanted blueballs the strip clubs are always there. "Where is the love" or better yet quit placeing in your profile that you are ISO a couple when all you really want is a BIFEM ONLY...
next Question: When people write us a e-mail we always respond wether its a yes or no, and I know were not the only 1 feeling like this . but tell me why would anyone send me a kiss and then when written back they never respond.?
little funny huh? but would love to hear your feedback folks Kisses and licks in all the right place.
Jessica and Tre
Well guess we are ones that you are talking about...maybe...LOL First we are soft/maybe swap with a Bi Fem. To us it is all about the girls then we play during and after with our own spouses. No "other" man is expected to sit there, he can help arouse his wife or mine, I will do the same. After 3 years in the Lifestyle we can tell you no one ever sat in the corner playing with themselves and not having any interaction with others.
The only thing is we are not going to full swap and our partners know this and respect it before we even meet. Funny thing to us is, most couples we play with a Full Swap...they respect our limits and some even say afterwards..."if this is Soft, we want more of it, very erotic". So I think it is a fallacy to think someone has to be left out of the play time. IOHO anyway...LOL
The only thing is we are not going to full swap and our partners know this and respect it before we even meet. Funny thing to us is, most couples we play with a Full Swap...they respect our limits and some even say afterwards..."if this is Soft, we want more of it, very erotic". So I think it is a fallacy to think someone has to be left out of the play time. IOHO anyway...LOL
Our thing is anything up to and including full swap. I get turned on seeing my lady being pleasured by another lady or ladies or guy or guys, she gets turned on seeing me with another lady or ladies (no guys, guys! lol). We both participate in the enhancing of each other's pleasures but when all is said and done, we pleasure each other. Besides, when all the swinging action is over, it is time for each other
We love each other and lust for others.
We love each other and lust for others.Boyyyyyy do we agree with you. It seems like most of the profiles say just that. We don't have a problem with that, to each their own. What I don't understand is why couples who only want a female try to hook up with another couple. Knowing that the male will be left out. Many times my wife has been aproached by a couple to join them for some fun. When she mentions she would have to talk to me to see if I am interested they say"we only want you, my wife doesn't want any other men women only" Or this one really gets me. A guy wants to have sex with my wife but i can't touch his because she is bi and won't play with other men and the guy says I'll have to go find another woman. Then when she turns him down he gets mad. Oh well life goes on. We tend to back away from profiles that state that it is all about the women....we thought it was all about everyone have fun.....but what do we know.
I think people just need to face the fact that there are not that many single bi chicks on the net. Apparantly they don't need the internet to help them find what they are looking for. Who knows, they may just be an urban myth. Has anyone ever actually met a single bi female one the internet who wasn't trying to sell you her webcam? Let's face it, if you are a couple looking only for a single bi female for a threesome you would probably have better luck at a club.
" but tell me why would anyone send me a kiss and then when written back they never respond.? " That is something I was just pondering today,got a lil kissy deal emailed back and nothing...seems to me since they showed interest first they would respond back....what can I say just odd LOL
Becky
Becky
Hi there.
Here a reply from over the ocean about bi- and single females and watching your partner having sex with another..
First, we had the luck to meet a single bi lady via the internet and NO, she didn't want to sell a webcam. It turned out to be a very warm experience and non of us were sitting in the corner when two were making love. When two had fun, the other was laying next to them, spending little kisses, just looking, or otherwise fill up the empty glasses.
The same is when you meet a couple. Its great to see your partner enjoying the attention he or she gets from others. Its like looking to a x-rayed movie. Its a nice break too for a person just to freshen up or have a drink/bite when the others have fun.
And about "blowing kisses". Just see that as a compliment.
A hug from Holland
Bea and Alex
Here a reply from over the ocean about bi- and single females and watching your partner having sex with another..
First, we had the luck to meet a single bi lady via the internet and NO, she didn't want to sell a webcam. It turned out to be a very warm experience and non of us were sitting in the corner when two were making love. When two had fun, the other was laying next to them, spending little kisses, just looking, or otherwise fill up the empty glasses.
The same is when you meet a couple. Its great to see your partner enjoying the attention he or she gets from others. Its like looking to a x-rayed movie. Its a nice break too for a person just to freshen up or have a drink/bite when the others have fun.
And about "blowing kisses". Just see that as a compliment.
A hug from Holland
Bea and Alex
We fully agree its either all or no play with one exception maybe its a night where one or the other of us just are not in the mood or maybe we have worn out from prior play(like at a house party) then we will do some one sided play BUT that is only with cpls we already have both played with. To us its no fun for one or the other to sit around and just watch so we tend to stay away from the "soft swappers" or the bi fem for bifem. We have found plenty of FULLSWAP cpls to make our nights funfilled.
N&S
N&S
AMPUSSY said it best- although swapping a threesome now and again adds a new dimesnsion of fun for couples we already know...but it doesn't have to be the FMF thing- send the husband over sometimes too LOL