I know we are new to the site but out of the 20 or so emails we have sent out one would think someone would at least say hi but no thank you or something. I was wondering if anyone would please email me just to say hello. We are adults and it seems kind of rude when your emails are not pushing sex but just kind of a hi lets see if we match kind of thing. We are looking for playmates but the right ones just like everyone else but we would like to have friends to chat with as well. Hope someone out there sees this and at least says hi, or just fuck off. Something is better than nothing
Welcome to Swingular....and hello from Utah 
Make sure you read their profile, a lot of people don't respond to out of the blue e-mails or friend requests.
Mr. C
Mr. C
I don't know the whole Fuck off is tempting, but I'll have to say hello as well. I am fairly new to the site, and it didn't take long for others to contact me. In fact ThoughtGarden was one of our first email contacts as well, so don't get too discouraged.
Thank you JC
Some people keep friend pics for people they actually meet or friends of friends etc. Our old site had public pics, pics for verified only and then friend only pics. We usually meet people at m&Gs so then we add them and commuicate more.
Plus, some of us like to read and answer together, so it just takes time to catch up.
Mr. C
Plus, some of us like to read and answer together, so it just takes time to catch up.
Mr. C
In your profile it says that you are looking for just one partner right now.....most COUPLES will not respond if they only play together. You must take time to read profiles thoroughly as well, we don't respond to those who send emails if their profile clearly conflicts with our. Personally we have had ZERO luck on this site along with ZERO on 2 other sites. We have had lots of meet & greets on one certain site, email me & I will tell ya about it. I have yet to have a response to any emails what-so-ever on here, but get emails daily on my favorite site & I always respond even if it is a "Thanks for checking us out, but not interested" If it is a new couple, I usually offer a piece of advice as well. With all these Swinger sites, there are probably about 40% fakes or those who never have intentions of leaving their computers to actually meet. Fortunately through our other site, we have met lots of LOCAL couples & have some longstanding friends w/ benefits. Good luck to you both!
Mrs SIF
Mrs SIF
MRS SIF with a body like yours if you were closer to utard we all would knocking down your doors to get in...
Hmmm....I'm sorry you aren't getting the desired response you want. I read your profile and think it is very clear and concise. Now if you are sending emails to couples who do not play alone that could be why the no response. If you are only looking for a single then start there. Of course, posting here should help with getting the word out. Also responding to posts. It puts you guys out there and makes people check you out. Just be careful. People will start sending friends requests without even reading your profile completely and totally ignore what you are looking for. Trust me, it will get old. If they have no comprehension skills, you sure as hell don't want to play with them. Low IQs are NOT sexy. ~shrug~
Good luck. I personally love Swingular. It is my all time favorite site.
xox
Tammy
Good luck. I personally love Swingular. It is my all time favorite site.
xox
Tammy
Thanks so much for the feedback. Being new is always hard and due to our schedule we have to be able to plan in advance. SUMINDYFUN I did change profile. Thanks again to everyone. I guess we just have to be patient, but when you want to play, who wants to be patient.