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I don't know if this subject has already been brought up, probably has...but its buried so here is a fresh post about orgasms.

here is the question: what does it take to get you to cum? do you cum during sex? do you cum while swinging? do you let your sex partners know ahead of time that you might not cum from their efforts?

i know that it takes an act of congress to get me to cum from oral sex. But penetration may only take moments. then after the first orgasm, and i get hard again...i can go for what seems like hours before i orgasm again, and i have a little more control.
jenn is very vocal, she lets you know when she is going to cum, but she usually only cums during foreplay. she likes penetration, but rarely cums from that.
with jenn its all about the slow counterclockwise swirl of your tongue, right across the clit....you will have her yelping to stop, but when you do...she will be like...wtf keep going lol
What do ya suppose would happen if you got a little wild and crazy and went clockwise?
For me it depends, it could be just my husband touching my pussy soft and gentle, and other times it could be him fucking me hard. Really it normally depends on what type of mood Iam in. Cant answer about if i cum during swinging becasue we cant seem to get a responses from anyone so, hopefully we will find out soon
The wife likes to tell me when she's about to cum...which is good so that I can keep doing what I'm doing for her. She cums from both foreplay (really quick with oral...ohh I love to suck on that thing!) and pen. Funny thing though, she usually has to flick the bean during penetration for her first orgasm but after that first one, pen alone can bring her to consecutive ones.

For me, like the OP, it takes a while to cum by oral. If I'm in the mood pen can last a few strokes but I can generally hang in there.

@kinkycouple, hope you find some good folks to share with. I think the wife is the same way...it's all in the mood.