I was already to meet this couple after an hour of talking and wanting to hook up then they change there mind...... I really think I am done with this site. PS They even told me where to meet them, once I was half way there they wouldnt call back, so becareful who you trust.
Maybe for some reason they became uncomfortable. That kind of thing happens.
Can't hold the site accountable for the flakey actions of SOME of the people who happen to be members of it. All swinger sites have their fair share of flakes...however, we have found that most (including Swingular) have more legitimate/real/everyday people than they do the bad ones.
Hang in there...the bad ones always weed themselves out
J
Hang in there...the bad ones always weed themselves out
J
ALL4FUNWESTJORDAN wrote:
I was already to meet this couple after an hour of talking and wanting to hook up then they change there mind...... I really think I am done with this site. PS They even told me where to meet them, once I was half way there they wouldnt call back, so becareful who you trust.
It happens on all sites. It is a good idea to go to meet and greets or parties to meet people first; we have had good luck that way. Then if you do hit if off you can make plans. Plus the more people you know, the more people will know others. You can get a good feel for people that way.
Make sure people are verified (we aren
Every time you have ever emailed us its between 1 and 4 am.. and often on a weekday.. we been sleeping for hours by that point.
Heres an idea.. Why dont you show up at the Meetngreet party tonight and meet us and many others. Its the best way to meet people.
hope to see you there.
email us if you need info on where it is.
kk
Heres an idea.. Why dont you show up at the Meetngreet party tonight and meet us and many others. Its the best way to meet people.
hope to see you there.
email us if you need info on where it is.
kk
We have met real people on here and had a great time. They are out there.....
CLIFFNOTES wrote:It happens on all sites. It is a good idea to go to meet and greets or parties to meet people first; we have had good luck that way. Then if you do hit if off you can make plans. Plus the more people you know, the more people will know others. You can get a good feel for people that way. Make sure people are verified (we aren
[quote=ALL4FUNWESTJORDAN]I was already to meet this couple after an hour of talking and wanting to hook up then they change there mind...... I really think I am done with this site. PS They even told me where to meet them, once I was half way there they wouldnt call back, so becareful who you trust.
WERSHI wrote:It happens on all sites. It is a good idea to go to meet and greets or parties to meet people first; we have had good luck that way. Then if you do hit if off you can make plans. Plus the more people you know, the more people will know others. You can get a good feel for people that way. Make sure people are verified (we aren
[quote=CLIFFNOTES][quote=ALL4FUNWESTJORDAN]I was already to meet this couple after an hour of talking and wanting to hook up then they change there mind...... I really think I am done with this site. PS They even told me where to meet them, once I was half way there they wouldnt call back, so becareful who you trust.
there are certain types of people on this site. and since im bored, i will list them:
asshole single males..nuff said
Awesome single males...ya know..the respectful kind that actually talk to you...flirt with you..but not all up in your grillz tryin to come over RIGHT NOW THIS VERY SECOND cuz their hard-on just wont go away..
single bi females. not so much a unicorn as ive noticed. not really that hard to find in varying degrees. there is even a couple on here with a wife that only wants to get down and dirty with a girl. you know who you are and you guys are awesome.
and then there are the couples. now...there are different types of couples
1. All About The Guy: this is the couple with the male half calling all the shots. he sets up the meetings...talks to other couples or single females or males and is basically the initiator. this is all fine and dandy til you find out that A. the guy is an asshole single male who has pictures of a chick on his profile and CAN be part of a couple on any given day...but isnt and you go to meet this "couple" and when you get there, the "girlfriend/wife/imaginary friend" is sick...out of town...not real.. or b. he loves to fuck other guys wives/girlfriends/blowup dolls but would rather you not bring your male half in case there is a chance that your hubby's balls might be in the same room as his....or the dreaded c. his wife has no idea he is even on swingular. his excuse will be.."but honey, we talked about swinging in bed after hours of lovemaking and you said you were ok with it!?!?" thats what we call...pillow talk..baby..
2. Its All About Her: this is the same as number 1 but with a chick. the only thing different is there is a good chance that if the girl brings home a chick or a couple for the guy to fuck...there will be a little less conflict cuz what guy doesnt want his significant other to bring home some strange?
3. The Over Eager Beavers: this is the couple who contact you in some way..either by email...chat or at a meet and greet and jump down yer pants after only knowing you 5 seconds. they are a lot like pushy single males in the fact that they want to meet RIGHT NOW or..and this is usually the case....the husband is free to play, but the wife is at work so let me come fuck you please please please please please. this has happened to me a couple times and it makes me very uncomfortable. with all the crazies out there...jenn and i both like to get to know the couple we will be violating a little better because you find out if you are a sexual match better that way. we have certain tastes that some if not most couples dont...and if the couple has you show up at their house 5 min after chatting in a chat room...where is the fun in that? you dont know what you are in for. i get that people dont want endless emails and blah blah blah...but there could be a little bit of seduction and discussion.
4. Frosted Flakes: this couple really twists my tally whacker! you find a couple who you get along with....have stuff in common with...can flirt with and get flirted with back....you set up a meeting...get showered....groom your downtown region.....get ready..get in your car..you are meeting at a coffee shop at 3pm....you get there.wrestle your seat away from smelly coffee shop hippies and wait....and wait.............and wait................................and wait...and they never show. they dont call...they dont email...they just dont show...and when you finally get ahold of them they either have a lame excuse or they say they are taking a break from swinging suddenly or just dont reply at all...lamesauce. with this...honesty is the best policy...if you dont like us..just tell us..we can take it..we just dont like...nay...hate...arranging our schedule to make time with you, and have you flake and not have the common courtesy to either call ahead and reschedule or just say...hey...we just arent that into you.
5. the awesome couple: this couple is out there...they are the couple you are waiting for and possibly searching for. we have had the luck of finding two awesome couples on this site. you know who you are and you are in our hearts forever. you are fun, we made a connection with you...you were dependable and flexable. we have a sexual match. we could talk for hours about absolutely nothing wearing nothing and just relax for once. you are understanding and caring and awww...just way cool. these are the couples we think are the majority on this site. so dont give up on swingular. yeah, there are some douchenozzles on here...and you know who YOU are...but dont let the minority effect you.
its a fun site.
Brandon
asshole single males..nuff said
Awesome single males...ya know..the respectful kind that actually talk to you...flirt with you..but not all up in your grillz tryin to come over RIGHT NOW THIS VERY SECOND cuz their hard-on just wont go away..
single bi females. not so much a unicorn as ive noticed. not really that hard to find in varying degrees. there is even a couple on here with a wife that only wants to get down and dirty with a girl. you know who you are and you guys are awesome.
and then there are the couples. now...there are different types of couples
1. All About The Guy: this is the couple with the male half calling all the shots. he sets up the meetings...talks to other couples or single females or males and is basically the initiator. this is all fine and dandy til you find out that A. the guy is an asshole single male who has pictures of a chick on his profile and CAN be part of a couple on any given day...but isnt and you go to meet this "couple" and when you get there, the "girlfriend/wife/imaginary friend" is sick...out of town...not real.. or b. he loves to fuck other guys wives/girlfriends/blowup dolls but would rather you not bring your male half in case there is a chance that your hubby's balls might be in the same room as his....or the dreaded c. his wife has no idea he is even on swingular. his excuse will be.."but honey, we talked about swinging in bed after hours of lovemaking and you said you were ok with it!?!?" thats what we call...pillow talk..baby..
2. Its All About Her: this is the same as number 1 but with a chick. the only thing different is there is a good chance that if the girl brings home a chick or a couple for the guy to fuck...there will be a little less conflict cuz what guy doesnt want his significant other to bring home some strange?
3. The Over Eager Beavers: this is the couple who contact you in some way..either by email...chat or at a meet and greet and jump down yer pants after only knowing you 5 seconds. they are a lot like pushy single males in the fact that they want to meet RIGHT NOW or..and this is usually the case....the husband is free to play, but the wife is at work so let me come fuck you please please please please please. this has happened to me a couple times and it makes me very uncomfortable. with all the crazies out there...jenn and i both like to get to know the couple we will be violating a little better because you find out if you are a sexual match better that way. we have certain tastes that some if not most couples dont...and if the couple has you show up at their house 5 min after chatting in a chat room...where is the fun in that? you dont know what you are in for. i get that people dont want endless emails and blah blah blah...but there could be a little bit of seduction and discussion.
4. Frosted Flakes: this couple really twists my tally whacker! you find a couple who you get along with....have stuff in common with...can flirt with and get flirted with back....you set up a meeting...get showered....groom your downtown region.....get ready..get in your car..you are meeting at a coffee shop at 3pm....you get there.wrestle your seat away from smelly coffee shop hippies and wait....and wait.............and wait................................and wait...and they never show. they dont call...they dont email...they just dont show...and when you finally get ahold of them they either have a lame excuse or they say they are taking a break from swinging suddenly or just dont reply at all...lamesauce. with this...honesty is the best policy...if you dont like us..just tell us..we can take it..we just dont like...nay...hate...arranging our schedule to make time with you, and have you flake and not have the common courtesy to either call ahead and reschedule or just say...hey...we just arent that into you.
5. the awesome couple: this couple is out there...they are the couple you are waiting for and possibly searching for. we have had the luck of finding two awesome couples on this site. you know who you are and you are in our hearts forever. you are fun, we made a connection with you...you were dependable and flexable. we have a sexual match. we could talk for hours about absolutely nothing wearing nothing and just relax for once. you are understanding and caring and awww...just way cool. these are the couples we think are the majority on this site. so dont give up on swingular. yeah, there are some douchenozzles on here...and you know who YOU are...but dont let the minority effect you.
its a fun site.
Brandon
"Glazeddonutface" . . . That is so true. We were all set up to go to the Candyland party . . . even sent out a group message to all our friends saying, "look for us, we'll get there early and get a table . . ." Got all dressed up (and I mean, special make-up, straightened hair, hot dress, silks and stilettos), ready to go, then "BAM" - last minute stuff came up and couldn't go. It does happen, all the time; however, the "no call, no answer" stuff seems to indicate that something else was up. At minimum, if the other couple were not in a place to be able to answer or call, they could have sent an "apology message" - I mean really, that's just rude. It's not like "All4funwestjordan" doesn't know who they are on the site - they were the ones left "holding the bag" - the least this other couple could have done is gotten in contact with them. Not a good way to make friends in the lifestyle. Anyway, to "All4funwestjordan" I say, don't give up unless you really are not that into it anyway ;o Many couples are well worth the wait!
JENNANDBRANDON's response should be in an everything you wanted to know about swinging but were afraid to ask, book.
As they say, few bad apples...
As they say, few bad apples...
lmao@glazed
the only thing i hate more than the nocallnoshow set is the ones that add the ridiculously obviously a lie excuse later. although i do get a kick outta seeing how creative they can get about it. lmao.
the only thing i hate more than the nocallnoshow set is the ones that add the ridiculously obviously a lie excuse later. although i do get a kick outta seeing how creative they can get about it. lmao.