My hubby has this fantasy of watching me get fucked, and absolutely loved it the one chance he has gotten to see it happen. He said you get to see things from such a different perspective. So tell me, what is it about watching your spouse or significant other get pleased or pleasure someone else that is such a turn on?
Its a real turn on watching your lady getting it on with another male, or males. I love to film it then join in for all the fun. Maybe a fetish, I know the exact feeling. But the same can be said by lady as well. She loves to watch me make another gal cum. It drives her wild. So I guess its Hot swinger sex. I mean thats why we are all here. Some dirty rotten sex, with some strangers. Go figure.
Sincerely
Rick and Gabrielle
Sincerely
Rick and Gabrielle
I like to watch her get pleasured 1) because I love her and want her to be happy 2) because it makes her want me more intensely 3) it makes me want her more 4) we can learn new things she likes to have done 5) we learn more things that I might like to have done 6) we share in the sexual energy 7) I get a better perspective of what drives her wild 8) It lets us be more free and open in our communication as she is less ashamed of what happens when she cums 9) she loves to have me hold her hand as she gets pleasured 10) I can ensure that she is safe and doesn't get treated anyway she doesn't want to be treated.
These are just some of the reasons it is so hot for me to watch her. She has many of the same reasons for watching me, in addition for her watching me it boosts her confidence in abilities and self image to know that she can treat me right. It also helps her feel better knowing that the things I do to her, other women like as well.
Life is not a test. It is a laboratory.
These are just some of the reasons it is so hot for me to watch her. She has many of the same reasons for watching me, in addition for her watching me it boosts her confidence in abilities and self image to know that she can treat me right. It also helps her feel better knowing that the things I do to her, other women like as well.
Life is not a test. It is a laboratory.
my wife loves to watch me do another woman primairly because i have a somewhat large cock. Its normally about 9.5" but when i do her it can peek at 10". The other woman loose control and that really turns my wife on. Sometimes i tease the other woman by holding back and let them only stroke me and i may put it in half way and pull out. It makes em mad and my wife will laugh than let loose. Watching is what its all about PERIOD. Thats why we all do what we do otherwiswe we would not have more than each other.
I really love watching other men fuck my wife. We have tried it several times and I like it more each time, and it's one of my biggest turn-ons. Next step is that I want to watch a older (than us) man fuck her, she is 29 so a 50-55 would be good :P And also I would like to watch as several men share her.
I don't feel that it's so easy to explain why I like it... It's hard to say.
I know that there is two different "aspects" or what to call it, that are a little bit separated but they both turn me on a lot.
1) It turns me on to watch other men fuck and enjoy my wife, with the focus on that they "use" and get pleasure from my wifes sexy body. In this aspect she is a little bit of a "object" that I let other men use, and it turns me on to see them use her. In this case the man don't have to be that good looking, or good in bed.. the key thing is that he get to use my wife. Actually, in this case it would be extra "sexy" for me if the man was a older, unfit and not that good looking guy... A man like that who get to "use" my sexy wife would turn me on... That last part is not anything we tried, and I don't think she is up for it yet at least.
2) It also turns me on to watch my wife, that I love so much, get pleasure from other men... Here the focus is on her, her pleasures and the fact that she get get pleasure from some other man. In this case it's obviously very important that she like that guy, that she find him attractive, sexy and that he is good in bed. Here it would be the biggest turn on for me if that guy give her the best sex she ever had, if he can drive her crazy and give her maximum pleasure.
I feel that thees two "aspects" are rather different from each other, and I have to say that they turn me on in slightly different ways as well. But both are very good for me.
I have still not been able to answer WHY any of this turns me on... I just don't know. I just like it, and that's what's important
And I'm lucky do have the best wife in the world who is open for exploring my turn-ons with me.
I don't feel that it's so easy to explain why I like it... It's hard to say.
I know that there is two different "aspects" or what to call it, that are a little bit separated but they both turn me on a lot.
1) It turns me on to watch other men fuck and enjoy my wife, with the focus on that they "use" and get pleasure from my wifes sexy body. In this aspect she is a little bit of a "object" that I let other men use, and it turns me on to see them use her. In this case the man don't have to be that good looking, or good in bed.. the key thing is that he get to use my wife. Actually, in this case it would be extra "sexy" for me if the man was a older, unfit and not that good looking guy... A man like that who get to "use" my sexy wife would turn me on... That last part is not anything we tried, and I don't think she is up for it yet at least.
2) It also turns me on to watch my wife, that I love so much, get pleasure from other men... Here the focus is on her, her pleasures and the fact that she get get pleasure from some other man. In this case it's obviously very important that she like that guy, that she find him attractive, sexy and that he is good in bed. Here it would be the biggest turn on for me if that guy give her the best sex she ever had, if he can drive her crazy and give her maximum pleasure.
I feel that thees two "aspects" are rather different from each other, and I have to say that they turn me on in slightly different ways as well. But both are very good for me.
I have still not been able to answer WHY any of this turns me on... I just don't know. I just like it, and that's what's important
And I'm lucky do have the best wife in the world who is open for exploring my turn-ons with me.I loved watching it also. But what realy got me was when I kissed her while my friend was fucking her. Her tongue went almost down my throat as she sucked mine into her mouth. To watch and feel her enjoy it in a different way as she came. Unbelievable. I would almoxt line up guys out the door for her if she would let me.
Will and I have discussed this many times, as he enjoys watching me with a select guy from time to time. I admit, I also enjoy. I believe he enjoys for several reasons... He enjoys being laid back and not in complete control after being so in his profession during the day. He also enjoys seeing me from that vantage point as he refers to it as seeing his sexy wife in a porn. And he enjoys the pleasure it brings me which makes me very hot with him in return. My thoughts anyway.
Great responses everyone! Thanks for sharing. He76_she80, I like the way you describe that you enjoy it two different ways, to watch her get used and to watch her get pleasure. That is an interesting perspective and I can see many men thinking the same thing. Trisha, I think my husband feels the same as yours in the sense that he is seeing his own wife in her very own porn, what is hotter than that? Love all of the responses! You guys are great.
My husband tells me he enjoys watching, cause I really get into it and loves me. But I have one question. If a man had a 9.5"-10" cock, wouldn't he be proud enough to show pictures of it?
Watching eachother is the one of the best parts of all of this, He likes watching her because of the look on her face as she is being pleased by someone else, she loves watching him with other women, because she likes to see him please another woman. Just too see your partner with someone else, and to be a part of it as well.....in our opinion is just hot. and keeps us coming back for more.
TOUCHDOWN .. i guess you're referring to my posting. My wife and I do not post any pictures of any sort for anyone. I don't have to be proud its just there and nothing much I can be done about it. My wife is very particular anout our private life and even though others have wanted to take pictures while playing we would not allow it. Im sure there are plenty of guys out thre in Utah that would be proud to give you a show if they met your qualifications.
I have to concur with some of you about one thing, maybe I have not been thinking about it just like that, but it sure is true. That aspect of "seeing me sexy wife in a porn"... That sure is a aspect of this that turns me on And as me an my wife is living on different continents for a while, the pictures and videos I have of my wife with other men is my best porn to use here when I'm lonely And she likes the fact that I rather use pictures and videos of her with other men than regular porn.
And as me an my wife is living on different continents for a while, the pictures and videos I have of my wife with other men is my best porn to use here when I'm lonely And she likes the fact that I rather use pictures and videos of her with other men than regular porn.