We like to have a few drinks to relax, lower inhibitions, and have fun.
But we dont like ppl who get drunk/wasted. Everyone is different when they drink. Some ppl get beligerent, aggressive/pushy, lose interest, lol.. some pass out.
What do you think about alcohol? Is there a "too much" for you or when it comes to other couples? And whats a good way to explain to the other cpl that ur not into drunk ppl??
But we dont like ppl who get drunk/wasted. Everyone is different when they drink. Some ppl get beligerent, aggressive/pushy, lose interest, lol.. some pass out.
What do you think about alcohol? Is there a "too much" for you or when it comes to other couples? And whats a good way to explain to the other cpl that ur not into drunk ppl??
There is defiantly such a thing as too much a sloppy drunk is a major turn off to us...as far as telling them i am not sure how to do that...
Yea its also a definate turn-ff for us, not to mention disrespectful
Perhaps the best way is to just be Honest. Tell them you don't like to make love with someone who has Had to much to Drink. It is your life and you can decide were the evening is going and which way it going to end up.
yea honesty and communication is the most important things in swinging. just be upfront and say, "hey b4 we meet, just wanna let u know we dont like ppl who get wasted. not saying u do, its just a hint and heads up"
LMAO yea if ur talking like that... no i havent had any officer mister alcohol!
Take me drunk officer, im home
Take me drunk officer, im home
So here's a little secret from Johnny's closet...I quit drinking almost 3 years ago and it might have been a little handy a few weeks ago. We got our very first "playtime" with a couple friends we have, and I was so nervous that I couldn't perform...at least not with "jr". What a moron!!! That has never happened to me before. They all said it isn't a big deal, (no pun intended) and they had a blast, but I felt so embarassed and stupid for days!!! They want us back, so thats a good thing, but am I alone? Does this happen to others? My new indian name is "WALKS-WITH-A-LIMP" and there's nothing wrong with my legs. LOL. Anyway, WTF???
I don't like to be more than 1 or 2 drinks deep when playing with anyone. If i'm not gonna play with anyone I'll have more to drink though.
To the original idea of the post: there is such thing as too much of anything. Everything should be done in moderation is my opinion. (with the exception of a few things that i don't wanna do ANY of. haha)
*kitty*
To the original idea of the post: there is such thing as too much of anything. Everything should be done in moderation is my opinion. (with the exception of a few things that i don't wanna do ANY of. haha)
*kitty*
lmao acutually, ur not alone dude. I can get hard pretty easy and keep it up forever when im with my own girl. but when it came to our first few full swaps, seemed like i couldnt get if up for the life of me and when i did, it wasnt full size and would limp faster than usual... I believe its from anxiety, nerviousness and all those little feelings we get. I think we're not used to being watched, watching others, and making sure we perform, and what the other cpl is doing. Its perfectly normal. My girl and I full swap in same room, but ive suggested seperate rooms to see if that will solve the problem.. cuz its easier to focus on urself and the person ur with at that moment... plus, u wont worry or wonder what the other 2 r doing.. i also know another idea if u guys wont seperate room...
Hello_kitty, I agree. I try to sip my drinks and only go thru a few if im gonna play, but if not playing i may have a few more. but I only let myself get drunk in the comfort of my own home. not with other cpls. but if its just me and my girl or its just my brother and the guys playing Xbox... lmao
lmao. drunken xbox or pc games with a mic are fun. i like to yell on the mic. :P
OMG so does my brother. we play call of duty and whenver he gets killed he yells and curses and blames it on Lag and other dumb shit! lmao
hahaha. i mostly giggle like mad and yell nonsense. the other players always hate me. lol.
Its kinda simple actually. You drink to where you are comfortable to partake in your activity, Then you can moderate your intake to make you comfortable. About them, thats their problem! As you, they should not consume enough where it is disrespectfull to you. As you wouldnt them. If in fact they cant moderate themselves, you can probably thank yourselves about your smart decision not to party with those that cant contain their alcohol; now or in the future. Its never fun.
yea i agree.