Swingers Forum - Squirters...how do you handle this?

Thank you for being up front about it! I was with a squirter a while back and she failed to mention that little fact. Here I am, going down on her, fucking her, and going back down on her (yeah, I do that) when all of a sudden, I get a face full of squirt. I didn't mind it was just a surprise.

So thanks for being honest with your partners. I wouldn't mind a squirter saying, "Hey, we need to take precautions with this furniture/bed/rug/whatever 'cause I know I will squirt with you." It would be hot to hear that from a partner...

Mav

I have been with a few squirters, and there's a couple tricks you can do. Like the previous poster said, when meeting at a hotel, try to get a room with two beds...one for play, the other for sleep. I also knew a couple once who used heavy duty shower curtains when hosting or going to a party where she knew she would soak the bed. You are on the right track by being open with people about it. Most people should understand and be reasonable about it and accomodate to what needs to be done to prevent a mess.

I have a tendancey to make a very big mess. Since I mostly play at my own house it is easy to set things up so your comfortable before guests arrive. When watching a movie I lay out a full king size comforter (and pillows) so everyone fits and it is thick enough to absorb most anything while providing padding so laying on the floor is more comfortable. I also like to keep a small garbage can and kleenexs nearby so if someone gets too sticky (or finishes) it is easy to clean up. If we play on a bed or couch I usually keep a thick beach towel handy. One that has a "cool" picture on it, so when I pull it out my playmate focuses on what it looks like rather than what I'm going to be using it for. If I am asked why I am pulling it out my simple reply is "because I like it."

I have done it twice... and wow... talk about a serious suprise the first time.. Just wish I could still play with the guy who made me do it both time.. Only problem was, kinda ruined my favorite pillow for the night.. but worth it.. lol

Bren

MUCHFUN69 wrote:

I think it would be fun at our next party.

ROFLMAO....we're not circus freaks sweetie....roflmao

No not all women can do this and (for me anyway) it's not with everybody...I have to be VERY comfortable with my play partner and my surroundings, not to mention not being dehydrated. We have also ended up having conversations about it before and if someone says they don't like it then it kinda puts me on high guard and I never let myself relax and get comfortable enough for it to happen when with them...but then hubby always takes care of me after Anyway....kisses...Naugh-Ty

P.S. There was a "how-to" video I posted a link to in another forum thread about this that was very informative...a little cheesy...but still useful...infact I know of 1 couple that watched it and she practiced and was able to finally find that spot

I would be close to say only half of the guys that have been with me when I squirt actually like getting wet. Most are intrigued by the amount and force of the "squirt." But I have yet to meet a girl that enjoys another girl that squirts.

I luv when a girl can squirt or I make them squirt.

OMG that was so funny to hear. Since about a month into our relationship, did I make my lady squirt for the very first time. We are still happily together 13 years later. And she is still the biggest squirter I have ever been with. We have met some great lady's on here as well and are proud to make them squirt their first time as well. My lady says I got the magic cock. As well as my lady. She has some sort of magical power with the women as well. She first makes them question if their straight or not, does some bi-girly touching, and watch out there squirting too. Why can't they all squirt. It needs to be a requirement for all women.

Peace out to all the sexy peeps
Rick and Gabrielle

Queen...best advice is just make sure you go to the bathroom before starting...it does kinda feel that way but just relax and go with it...I think that's why the comfortableness factor is big with me...kisses...Naugh-Ty

Thank you for all of the responses. It seems as though honestly is the best policy and if your play partners are expecting it as a possiblity, then grabbing a blanket, towel, shower curtain, or anything else that is handy should be sufficient.

I agree with a lot of the girls here too, it has a lot to do with your comfort level with your partner. I have only squirted with my husband. Although I may tell you I can, and you may try, I may not be able to do it on demand. You men need to be aware of that when you are with a squirter. You may not get the "show" you are hoping for. Just enjoy your night and don't get hung up on it.

to queenofcrunkxxx - for a long time it felt like I was going to pee too. I follow Naughty's advice of peeing before you start to play, then you know in your mind that you are not peeing. The more you do it, the more comfortable you will get with it and it won't freak you out so much. I would also suggest that you look into getting a waterproof blanket, like the one we have. We got it from liberator.com. It has prevented any mess and is machine washable. It was a great investment for us and made me relax completely.

I have always been a squirter and most of the time it is always a given for us to have our squirt blankets available. A few other ladies that we play with are squirters as well, do we really have not had ant negative issues with it, all the guys seem to love it! But as alot of people, its not an automatic thing, circumstances and technique have to be right.