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Why must the single males be so crass?
Not ALL single males are assholes!!!!!! PLEASE dont group all of us single males in one group just because of a FEW assholes!!!!!
Okay you guys, I wasn\'t talking about all single males (there are a few here I am quite fond of),just the ones with no class. Sorry if I offended y\'all ~WW
I am a single man, and I get disrespected all the time. Mostly from women asking me to blow husband or wanting me to touch or something like that. (I am not gay, bi, nor curious) I let them know this but they keep asking. I am very respectful when it comes to couples, but I hardly ever get a message or an invite from couples, but when I do I am so respectful.
Now didn\'t that exchange make everyone feel a lot better!
Now gather around your monitors and sing kumbaya!
T4REAL69,

In recognition of the holiday season I was hoping to broker a single male ceasefire between now and Christmas.

And I agree it\'s tricky business labeling groups, I remember when we labeled Russia the enemy and France a friend. :^)

I refuse to believe we screwed up that bad, there has to be some cool people in France, without them we would have never had \"Fries to Super size\".

Wee Wee. :p

MrsFl4fun
<b>\"Metrry Xmas everyone!\"</b>

Let\'s pick on people who make EXTREEME Typos.
:z
Were pretty new to the lifestyle, however we\'d like to give a big shout out to all our single guy friends. You guys rock. So far is the couples that have been a big dissappointment, everything from lieing to being to pushy.

Thanks again Single guys (you know who you are).

Amanda & Peter
We sometimes play with single men, but we try to screen them to be sure that no problems arise, but to let you know there are some couples just as bad, I quote \"We want you to come by yourself and when you are comfortable with us maybe then your hubby can join, as long as he is willing to just watch !!\" We have recieved this message many times in our 3 years in the life, so it is not just the single men, mostly single men we have talked to are happy just to be a third in a 3sum and seem to know that if hubby isn\'t getting to play then bye-bye.
Ok boys! Where do I begin? lol First of all I want to thank all of you that took the time to respond, especially those of you who were true gentlemen about it. Thank you all for your offers to prove me wrong,lol, but I really do know that alot of the single males in the lifestyle are great guys! Ok point #1 In my defense, I never did use the word \"all\". Point#2 Since the majority of the response was from single males and me being that single bifemale that everyone is so fond of, I doubt if any of you have had as much contact or experience with men, single or otherwise. Some of you made some valid points, people of either gender or marital status can be rude being one. But to those of you who used aggressiveness or foul language, thanks for helping to prove my point. Here a couple more examples of what helped provoke my question(which btw, #3 was really almost a rhetorical question just to the crass single males, maybe help them realize they need to \"chill\" lol) As some of you may know, I like to frequent the cam chat here and most times its great. Theres a fun gang there and alot of the time, it just regular conversation, but sometimes we may flirt or get nude and occasionally a couple will even put on a show, but its done with class and is usually okayed with all present as to not offend anyone. And then suddenly theres one aggressive fellow taking over the conversation,making remarks to all the women, asking or making demands for them to do or show more,,,guess who? I know I don\'t have to check the profile, lol. Okay I\'ll show one other example that you can see for yourselves, check the new members page, do you notice anything in one of the profiles thats different than the rest? I do. Don\'t get me wrong I enjoy a good erection, but the rule clearly states that pics of them should not be used for the main photo. So whether its just plain stupidity or blatant disregard, there it is...need I check the profile? I think not...
XES95017,

I read your profile and yes it\'s more than one line but but don\'t expect to be nominated for a Pulitzer this year. And what the heck is a \"mkarried couple\" ?

Was that supposed to be \"McKarried couple\" do you both work at McDonalds?

PS: Two of our best friends go by the profile name XFS95017, for just a second there I thought you were them till I saw the F after the X.
In defense of the Single fellows out there, our experience has been about 50/50. Which is in all honesty about the same as ANY of the \"groups\" within the lifestyle.

There have been a few that have made me want to put my hand thru their head, but all in all as a whole, hasn\'t been THAT bad. We have had trouble with couples, and single females as well. I think everyone has. It\'s just the single guys are so easy to pick on, hey is that a bandwagon?:z . Tho we aren\'t looking for any single guys, WE WISH YOU GUYS ALL THE BEST.

Leo and Cheree
Oh no the single male thing again, anyways my exsperience is 50/50, we had our ups and downs. Mainly downs, but its all good we have several men that i havent hooked up with. One of these days well find that man that can satisify this tight hole thats craving two dicks. :z
XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO ;)
just as i have said in the slam on married single male form you have your bad ones but you also have your good ones so just take the time to weed them out. They\'re not all identical twins so get over it and deal with them. Since we have had good ones and we have had are share of ass holes

P&D
To the original question,\"Why are single men so crass?\" It might be that all men are crass, it is just that married ones have a wife to jab them in the ribs when they step over the boundary. After enough jabs even a man will learn.
I\"m so with you photog77, my hubby wrote to a single female here on Swingular from in Utah

She was RUDE RUDE RUDE.

Where he was polite and social, she was snotty and ignorant.

I wouldn\'t let a rude crass female like that near my hubby, she doesnt deserve to experience what a great guy he is.

It goes both ways, people should treat others how they want to be treated