I often get asked "what do you like?" or "what turns you on?". Guys ask women that all the time and I understand why. But I'm curious as to what men want. What do you like? What turns you on? What can women do to spice things up and make things fun? Or is there anything a woman does or may say that will turn you off or make you feel uncomfortable?
A curious mind wants to know.
A curious mind wants to know.
Good question. I also want to know this answer.
This is the male of LVSTRIPPERBABE. I personally am visually stimulated. I love it when a girl gives me a lap dance... I love watching her strip down slowly and sexually. After the visual stimulation, I love when a gal is sucking me with her ass in my face. 69 position. You want to learn some new things to spice things up, well learn how to "Strip." I can't tell you how often I have Ms. Lvstripperbabe dance for me, with or without any others present.
Me personally I like when a woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to say it...There is nothing more erotic than to be at a party and have a woman whisper in your ear "I wanna fuck you" at that my excitement is going.
Dancing with someone, and watching her move her body, does wonders for me. A woman that like to talk, laugh, and can be a little perv.(hee hee)
When she is into me, and not flirting with me to get to my wife. (Bad Very Bad)
Turn off- Stuck on themselves, to good to be friendly, thinks they are tough and can kick anyones ass.
When she is into me, and not flirting with me to get to my wife. (Bad Very Bad)
Turn off- Stuck on themselves, to good to be friendly, thinks they are tough and can kick anyones ass.
Very simple. Be honest about what you want. Take the lead if there is something you wanna try. Show me how to give you the best/biggest orgasm.... Men are generaly good at following directions in this area..
Honesty, for starters. And since men, or at least me, are not true mind readers, direction. Tell me what you want and how you want it. Let me know that special way you like things done.
Honesty, for starters. And since men, or at least me, are not true mind readers, direction. Tell me what you want and how you want it. Let me know that special way you like things done.
me the male half here, i dont need a naked women. i love it when they just look at you in the way that makes you feel like your going to get it no mater what you say you have no choice. dirty talk and looks really get me going.
For me, it depends on the woman/situation, but mostly a combination of some of the above comments.
A woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it. 9 times out of 10, I have to make the first move, which I'm ok with...but it's very erotic on those rare occassions when a woman comes up and says "I want you to fuck me" or even better yet, doesn't say anything, just comes over and grabs me.
Visually...seeing my partner is enjoying themself as much as I am. If it looks like she's not, or is distracted by something else...I'm done (literally). I love eye contact (when possible)...having a woman look me in the eyes as I'm fucking her. I love seeing the expression on her face...in fact, I love doggie, but try to set it up in a situation where we are facing a mirror, so while I'm enjoying one of my favorite positions, I can still see the reaction on her face as I'm taking her from behind.
I guess to sum it all up...for me, it's all about knowing that my partner is having as much fun and enjoyment as I am.
A woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go for it. 9 times out of 10, I have to make the first move, which I'm ok with...but it's very erotic on those rare occassions when a woman comes up and says "I want you to fuck me" or even better yet, doesn't say anything, just comes over and grabs me.
Visually...seeing my partner is enjoying themself as much as I am. If it looks like she's not, or is distracted by something else...I'm done (literally). I love eye contact (when possible)...having a woman look me in the eyes as I'm fucking her. I love seeing the expression on her face...in fact, I love doggie, but try to set it up in a situation where we are facing a mirror, so while I'm enjoying one of my favorite positions, I can still see the reaction on her face as I'm taking her from behind.
I guess to sum it all up...for me, it's all about knowing that my partner is having as much fun and enjoyment as I am.
women thats what i lov.. the way they smell, walk, talk,fuck,suck,lick,etc it all turns me n my wife
on. having there nails done when her hands are wraped around my cock. i lov women to be women and be as sexy as you can. and show him that u lov yourself by flat out telling him what u like.
better yet show him mmm,,.we lov you to touch yourselfs show us the spots tell us if u like your neck
kissed n your ears nippled on.. most guys dont ever spend time rubbing, feeling ,licking, sucking
those wonderful nipples they just head on down. most of all just ask your lady what she likes.
they will lov to tell u or if u r lucky show you..yea.. lol. and lady the more you show n tell
the more you will cummmm.. cause thats what all this is about for us the ladys n giving them the best
orgasm we can n as many as we can..we lov the red lipstick nails all done done up sprayed up
the stockings high heels so to jack up her pretty ass..some little panties n a hot little short
jean skirt sexy hot little tiny top...
may i say more....the hotter they get i we get...so talk tell each other what u like n the word will be a better place lol
talk talk talk...
xo
on. having there nails done when her hands are wraped around my cock. i lov women to be women and be as sexy as you can. and show him that u lov yourself by flat out telling him what u like.
better yet show him mmm,,.we lov you to touch yourselfs show us the spots tell us if u like your neck
kissed n your ears nippled on.. most guys dont ever spend time rubbing, feeling ,licking, sucking
those wonderful nipples they just head on down. most of all just ask your lady what she likes.
they will lov to tell u or if u r lucky show you..yea.. lol. and lady the more you show n tell
the more you will cummmm.. cause thats what all this is about for us the ladys n giving them the best
orgasm we can n as many as we can..we lov the red lipstick nails all done done up sprayed up
the stockings high heels so to jack up her pretty ass..some little panties n a hot little short
jean skirt sexy hot little tiny top...
may i say more....the hotter they get i we get...so talk tell each other what u like n the word will be a better place lol
talk talk talk...
xo
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who is open with her sexuality. The type of woman that exudes sexual energy. With that energy, she can make anything hot.
Number one, the confidence she displays when she walks into a room. Second, there is nothing like a woman, soft skin, wonderful smell, and the look of passion in her eyes. It does not get any better.
WOW! Thank you so much for opening up and sharing. This is exactly what I was hoping for.
Are there any men that like to be chased? Or do you prefer to do the chasing? How aggressive do you like women to be?
Please, keep sharing.
Are there any men that like to be chased? Or do you prefer to do the chasing? How aggressive do you like women to be?
Please, keep sharing.
Chased? Both, who would not enjoy being chased?
I think in society it is expected that the men are the chasers so of course men enjoy being chased its kinda a turn on to be chased sometimes...
chase me!!!!!
Being chased is awesome especially by a woman that knows what she wants and can be aggressive at getting it
i am one that has always liked to be chased. if they are willing to chase me then then i cant wait to see what they do next
theses are the things that I want.
#1 -Men want to know they please their partner. I want them to want me! They need that ego! At least for me.
#2- I love to watch a woman undress and tease me.
#3 - I love to watch a woman touch herself!
#4 - I love it when a woman talks dirty, and tells me what her inner desires are!
#1 -Men want to know they please their partner. I want them to want me! They need that ego! At least for me.
#2- I love to watch a woman undress and tease me.
#3 - I love to watch a woman touch herself!
#4 - I love it when a woman talks dirty, and tells me what her inner desires are!
oh, and one last thing. I luv to watch a woman orgasm. The look, the sound, the moves, and most of all, the exxxtacy!
The way a woman smells is such a turn on...as much as anything visual. But if she makes great eye contact as if she's trying to see into your soul...OMG!!! Look me in the eyes as I slowly enter you, and for as long as you can, don't let your eyes leave mine. Then after various positions and telling me you love what I'm doing, face me again and burn your gaze deep into my blue eyes as you explode. I wanna see the pleasure that you can't hide at that very moment. Your eyes can't lie.
I LOVE a woman to know what she wants and is not afraid to verbalize it.
I also love a woman to have SOME hair on the naughty bits, bald seems to juvenile to me.
Finally, I love women, enough said.
I also love a woman to have SOME hair on the naughty bits, bald seems to juvenile to me.
Finally, I love women, enough said.
For me the biggest turn on has been the woman letting me know that she is aroused at the thought of being with me. It has come in different ways but the message was definitely communicated!
Has always made the moment when we hook up very hot and steamy!
Has always made the moment when we hook up very hot and steamy!
Hmmm, all very good comments. For me..Mr. CPL Desire is the key...Then, the Kiss, OMG It is so easy to see where things will go when you kiss someone who has a desire to be with you. I love it. And one more thing for the road. I love a woman that knows what she wants and wants me to do it to and with her. So a whisper in the ear and a smack on the ass goes along ways...
I like women that are confident in their walk, style, subliminal messages and feminine actions. I like innocent, selective, stimulating banter. I love the soft touch, smell and soft kisses just because. I love a woman that can wear both seductive/sexual and tear her clothes off lingerie, and create those vibes. I like her to be a professional in work, vocabulary, and structure, but know when to release that hair over a glass of wine, open up that slit in her skirt a little more and let the tranquility inspire and lead us into the unknown. Also, I like a woman who is not affraid to have a quicky in the parking garage, or against the window of an outside elevator. I like a woman that likes to give oral as if that will be the whole night, but also allow my time giving as well, and can handle all the time of my exploring her body. I like a woman that puts all her soul into our passions so that everyting is incredible.
Now that Ive reread this, I might as better go in town and purchase that Ferrari.
Now that Ive reread this, I might as better go in town and purchase that Ferrari.
mmmm all good responses... being a single male(new to single..used to be male 1/2 of dsfun2day)i might be being overly catious.... not to cross boundried but i will only give back what i recieve.... if a single female or female of a couple gives me the mmmm look i will return it if interested... if she kisses me i will kiss back, if she wants to dance i will in turn ask her to damce at another song of similar speed.... im kinda shy untail things progress past casual conversation...then i tend to talk alot... as to what i like to se..mmmmm the look and feel of a ladies body, prior, durring and after a good orgasam or two... love to make them squirt... love confident ladies but after a bit of flirting back and forth they take the shy submissive, coy standpoint on things to CUME...
Male half here. Sexual confidence is incredibly sexy. Not being afraid of expressing yourself and your desires. Trust me, your desires are probably no more fantastical than your man's...we just tend to hear the man's desires more often.
On a physical/behavioral level, wearing something sexy on a stay-at-home Sunday is a good start. There really should be no reason to not dress and feel sexy whenever you want. In for the night, go topless. Lazy Sunday morning, a bra and panties is all you need.
Perhaps it's because of my limited experience but it's good to be the aggressor once in a while. You want a man to sweep you off your feet well sometimes we want a woman to do the same...literally.
Spontaneous bj's never hurt either...
On a physical/behavioral level, wearing something sexy on a stay-at-home Sunday is a good start. There really should be no reason to not dress and feel sexy whenever you want. In for the night, go topless. Lazy Sunday morning, a bra and panties is all you need.
Perhaps it's because of my limited experience but it's good to be the aggressor once in a while. You want a man to sweep you off your feet well sometimes we want a woman to do the same...literally.
Spontaneous bj's never hurt either...
Male half here. What turns me on? MMMMM..... Intelect, confidence, dignity. Physically I love the eyes, the hair, her posture. Nice titties don't hurt either, but aren't a necessity. Those things will get my attention, but to keep it, she's got to be mature enough to be past the "I could be so much hotter if..." please, don't get me wrong I'm all for self-improvement but let's face it we need to be comfortable with who we are before we can make real improvements. Also she needs to be able to form an opinion and back it up. I love a lady's lady, one who knows how to tell you where the bear did its business in the woods without being vulgar, yet concise. These things will ensnare me and drive me to your/ invite you to my bed. In the act...well I am very sensual and love to touch and be touched. I love for a woman to tell me what she likes, but more important is to know what she doesn't like, and leave the rest to exploration. I love to be explored, through touch, taste, smell and sound. I love to hear a woman's moans, groans, and yes screams of pleasure, that drives me on, and I am relentless in getting her to express herself. I like a woman to drive me to those same moans, groans, grunts, growls, and cries of ecstasy and who will push me to beyond the limits of pleasure, because I love to do it to her as well. Our brains are our largest sex organs and for me if you can keep mine engaged, entangled and entrapped in yours it will open a whole new universe of pleasure for all involved. Just my humble opinion. xoxoxoxoxo T
As to being chased....I enjoy it, but much prefer to be lured, tempted, and drawn in... That being said I'm very dense and don't get subtle hints, so perhaps a good smack across my head to get my attention, then start the fun with the tempting and teasing.
I finally have it figured out (for me). I believe women can be divided into two groups:
1) Those who are absolutely dependent on having continuous drama in their lives (when it isn't happening as a natural life occurrence, they are compelled to create it)
2) Everyone else
I prefer group 2!
1) Those who are absolutely dependent on having continuous drama in their lives (when it isn't happening as a natural life occurrence, they are compelled to create it)
2) Everyone else
I prefer group 2!
I love talking to women, having an open sexual chat, stimulating each other with words, of what you like, what you want, how naughty you want to be. maybe taking her thru a sinerio of what we could do together, how i want to touch her, how she wants to touch me, i love getting the mind stimulated, then meeting, and knowing what each other wants, and at what point we will take it there, i love getting women to open up their most deepest secret desires, and trying to full fill those desires, i love deep passionate makeout sessions, it is especially hot when you have just met. i guess if the mind and body are stimulated, there will be no way you won't have very hot sensual sex together, so if any of you ladies would like your mind stimulated with some hot chat, with only a possibility of meeting, let us know, lets all just have fun, right?
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Guy
Guy
What I want is to please the woman
I like a woman who has the confidence to walk up to me and verbally seduce me, but not in a slutty way.
To me KISSING passionately is the most sexual thing to experience, besides the obvious.
Sensual touching and massaging is also a great prelude to having sex.
Ultimately watching my girl enjoying what I'm do to her is the best. I could do that for an hour
with not even her touching me.
To me KISSING passionately is the most sexual thing to experience, besides the obvious.
Sensual touching and massaging is also a great prelude to having sex.
Ultimately watching my girl enjoying what I'm do to her is the best. I could do that for an hour
with not even her touching me.
ABCWOMAN..I absolutely want to hear/read the answers to this one as well... I recently decided to do some of the chasing to see how that works (hehe -and it's sort of fun, getting me a little out of my comfort zone, but that is good too) but have also wondered how much "chasing" could be interpreted as "over the top" or "too much" .. so yes, definitely interested in reading further posts to this subject..
I have to disagree with Sexytimes2255. I like a woman who is more natural. I don't like perfumes and cosmetics. I like a woman who looks pretty much the same after she washes her face as she does before. And I just want to smell clean woman. Not something out of an expensive bottle. As far as stocking/ lingerie etc, it looks best on the floor beside the bed. You can't beat the nude female form. That's just my take on it. I admit to being from a different generation from most of you.
As far as attitude is concerned, I very much like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to share that with you. Whether it be a certain technique that really turns her on, or just being confident enough to let a man know that she wants him. Sex doesn't need to be a mystery, it's something we share with each other. The more we share, the less disappointment and frustration. If you ladies are attracted to a man, for gosh sakes, let him know......He's probably attracted to you too.
As far as attitude is concerned, I very much like a woman who knows what she wants and isn't afraid to share that with you. Whether it be a certain technique that really turns her on, or just being confident enough to let a man know that she wants him. Sex doesn't need to be a mystery, it's something we share with each other. The more we share, the less disappointment and frustration. If you ladies are attracted to a man, for gosh sakes, let him know......He's probably attracted to you too.
I can't speak for all men but I like a woman who is willing to explore new things, I think a woman who's limited in what she will do and try in and out of the bedroom will become boring. Saying that A woman who likes roll playing, sexy lingerie, public affection. A woman who'll surprise me with ideas of intimacy. A woman who'll make me sit back and watch her tease me be it masturbate with toys fingers. I really get more satisfaction out of giving than recieving but its nice to truly recieve sometimes too. And yes to answer your question a Take charge aggressive woman works for me, some of of like the challenge yet like to know that a woman know's what she wants and how to get it.
This is Rip ( male half ) I prefer women who don't wear allot of makeup , I've always been attracted to women who dress slutty but not act slutty. I'm more of a laid back type of guy and never been big on prusuing a woman,so I prefer upfront, confident,aggresive women that tell me they want me. I like a woman who likes to talk about fantasies and explore different things to spice sex up some, like ice cubes, candle wax and popsicles. I love it when a woman doesn't need anyone to please herself, I get really turned on watching Becki play with herself and turning others on. I also love it when she talks dirty during sex , for example fuck me hard , harder, oh god right there , damn your in so deep That always puts me over the top
That always puts me over the top This probably sounds cliche, but for me it's the somewhat undefinable connection with that person. You feel you have something in common intellectually, and sexuality follows. I find most women to be sexually attractive...it's like someone said, women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. I think that's true for the most part...but I prefer women who are intellectually stimulating.
I think women are seeing here what men see. Everyone is different. Hence the age old mystery of chemistry and attracation. I think when it's right you know it immediately most of the time. I think everyone has an inner requirement for what they perceive as hot and attractive. If you meet someone and those qualities are met (on a subconscious level), then your body responds naturually. If both male and female feel this same vibe, then sparks normally start flying before you ever hit any kind of sexual chord. For me personally, sexy eyes, great hair, confidence and a somewhat agressive woman who knows what she wants and isn't too timid is always a plus. If I approach her and get a chance to stare into those beautiful eyes that seduced me, grab her around her tight little waste and she smells good to boot, it's on! And what I mean by smell good isn't a bathing in your favorite perfume, but the subtlety of everything you exude whispering sexy to my olfactories. I think if someone really knew the secret to a perfect seduction and attraction, they'd be rich. Until then, exploring is the best part, hence our interest in being libertines. It's fun, it's sexy, and it's always full of surprises. Looking forward to the next...
Mr. UtHot
Mr. UtHot
That last post was posted by abcwoman. 
Thanks to everyone who was so willing to share your ideas.... I really love them all.
Thanks to everyone who was so willing to share your ideas.... I really love them all.
I like to watch girls hang drywall. But but thats just me.
I love it when a woman suck on my cock just right. no teeth, looking up at me, and enough spit to make that bj heavenly.
I also love it when a woman is dressed in hot outfit, with some nice heel to show off those legs.that is a total turn on.
I do enjoy a woman that i ok with offing a rimjob, it seems that they like to receive rimjob and anal them selves but dont often return the favor back to the male.
I also love it when a woman is dressed in hot outfit, with some nice heel to show off those legs.that is a total turn on.
I do enjoy a woman that i ok with offing a rimjob, it seems that they like to receive rimjob and anal them selves but dont often return the favor back to the male.
I love being pursued. Far to often it falls to the man to be the "aggresor" sexually. It's amazing and quite flattering to have a women be openly eager for you. As shallow as it may be it is a wonderful boost to the ego to feel desired in such a forthright manner. While I love seducing and wooing a woman having the switch up of a woman who is willing to openly pursue what she wants and not play coy games is unbelievably hot!!!
I really enjoy having the Mrs take control and making feel like a tool at times. I am in control most of the time at work and like a woman that knows whats she wants and gets it.
Totally agree with Branki. A woman who goes after what she wants is sexy!!
We both like the good old seductive lap dance by a sexy girl that knows what she is doing!!!!!!!
Men are easy! Show us you want us and odds are we will respond
NLR36,
If she had her own tool belt id be in haven!
If she had her own tool belt id be in haven!