I'm looking to take my semi-vanilla spouse down to either the Caribbean or Mexico during the 3rd week of June. She and I have done swinging (separately) before but it was when our teenagers were MUCH younger. She has some bi tendencies but only when she drinks (crown & coke anyone?)
I want to take her to one of the all-inclusive resorts that isn't going to be overpowering with swinging to try and get her back into it again. Not that this matters but she is overweight and very self conscious but I still think she is as hot as they come! Can anyone recommend a resort for that time of year where we can both be drunk for a week, hopefully strip off some layers and have some fun?
I've thought about a few of the resorts down in Cancun since that is the closest and seems popular but not sure about the time of year.

I want to take her to one of the all-inclusive resorts that isn't going to be overpowering with swinging to try and get her back into it again. Not that this matters but she is overweight and very self conscious but I still think she is as hot as they come! Can anyone recommend a resort for that time of year where we can both be drunk for a week, hopefully strip off some layers and have some fun?
I've thought about a few of the resorts down in Cancun since that is the closest and seems popular but not sure about the time of year.
I would recommend Hidden Beach resort. Its south of Cancun by about 1 hour. Its an all inclusive "clothing optional" resort. It is not a "swinging" resort, but since most everone is nude it tends to have a high correlation to swinging, so there's no real pressure. Its a quality 5 star resort that is a very comfortable environment. We have been there several times and plan to go back as often as we can. June 1st is the official start of Hurricane season , however, we have been there over the July 4th weekend for a number of years, its hot, but delightfullly tropical. Hurricane season (in the Carribean doesn't kick into high gear until Mid Aug-Mid Sept, so you should be fine until then.
Lynn & John
Lynn & John
There wasn't any pressure at Desire Cancun. It was actually more of a fun atmosphere than pressure. Highly recommend it. Just pricey now.
Mav
Mav
You might look into coming with all of us to Caliente Caribe Dominican Republic June 8th to 15th, 2010
It's only $1795 per COUPLE for 8 days - 7 nights stay, all inclusive, of course your air is separate
Hubby & I will actually be there June 7th to 16th & can't wait, it's going to be a blast.
It's only $1795 per COUPLE for 8 days - 7 nights stay, all inclusive, of course your air is separate

Hubby & I will actually be there June 7th to 16th & can't wait, it's going to be a blast.
Thanks for the tips everyone - our dates are firm for 21-25 June as both our teenage children will be off on a summer trip with their grandparents and cannot be changed. Looking at the post recently, my wife is bi-curious and I think with the right mood and atmosphere will shed her inhibitions. I'm not looking for anything to happen outside of finding a place with the right atmosphere and seeing what happens. I won't pressure her into it and will leave it 100% up to her, afterall it's my wife who is in charge here.
I'll check out Caliente Caribe Dominican Republic as I've not considered the Dominican Republic as of yet.
I'll check out Caliente Caribe Dominican Republic as I've not considered the Dominican Republic as of yet.
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Thanks to the both of you for going way above and beyond the call of duty to help my wife and I out! You've earned a customer for life :-)