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Saw this in Playboy and it made me think. "If size matters, why are there no 3" dildos?" Makes ya think....

Yes, there are small vibrating dildos that gives some merit to the argument, "It's not the size but how you use it." But then there are more 8"+ dildos on the market than motion tools.

Then again, how many women really have an orgasm from an 10" dildo? I'm betting more can get off with a 2" bullet.

So, does size really matter? Even the sex industry can't help us answer it.

Mav
From a mans stanpoint we may wish that size doesn't matter but we would only be fooling ourselves. "size does matter" I have dated and been with many women in my lifetime and have been married for the past 16 years to a gorgeous woman that agrees with me. Sometimes when we are watching a XXX flic and some 9" dicked guy comes on she will comment on the size and I will get her to fanticize about having it all to her self and she will really get off on it. Prior to our marriage she had had a few big ones and they were very pleasing "BUT" comments that I am the best she has ever had because its not the, get on and just fuck her it what happens the hour or more before and after. A woman can climax multiple times prior to penatration. I'm only 6 inches but she says i'm the best she has ever had. In short, size matters but only to the selfish.
If you really think about it, the sex industry and all its branches of it is the probably the most recesion proof industry in existance. In fact the sex industry has been around for thousands of years. If you have ever gone into one of those he sex toy stores, there is more stuff in there that is promoted to increase pleasure for both sexes but primairly for the woman. 95% of the stuff does not work and a waste of money. A good quality lotion and the willingness of both persons to "explore" is the best way to go, someone watching or not.
Bigger isn't always better, but yes. size matters. but i have the size that works best for me and its not gonna be the same for everyone. and yeah. you gotta know how to use it. dead fish are no bueno.

kitty
I think size only matters when the person to be pleasured is not pleased. I want a guy who can work it and that is it. If he cannot get the job done because he is worried about his size then it is a waste of time.
i think for some it might be mood dependent. my wife cums everytime with me and we both have a great time. but sometimes she wants and needs that good deep filling fuck that i cant give her. then she wants me after to be able to feel the contrast too, lol sometimes smaller does a better job at hitting other places, sometimes bigger does a better job of reaching places others cant. its all good as long as she is happy.
In my own experience with the Sybian, the two most popular attachments are the "G-Spotters" and they are only 1.5 -2 inches. It seems the actions that are most conducive to orgasm. That and a lot of foreplay, touching, and teasing with the machine. Ramping it up and then backing down as she's about to climax, do this a couple of times and then when she cums, it 's usually very intense.
"There's long and there's short. There's fat and there's thin. What really matters is who it goes in."
Everything matters. The brain is the primary sex organ. What makes you hot? Your brain and your imagination! Size is important and stimulates two senses - sight and touch. We have the largest penis to body mass ratio, on average she is only 6 to 7 inches deep and are the only species has sex face to face. Does she really fantasize about Brad Pitt because she thinks he's bigger?
The bullets are very nice and serve their purpose well. Size.. Well size, both length and girth, is nice. BUT As long as the attention and skills are applied to ensure all parties are throughly satisfied, does it really matter the how it is achieved? Cumming is cumming and sex fun :).

Mrs Heber
It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean.
I knew a woman who said it best, I think. "a woman who says size doesn't matter has never had a large cock before." Yes size does matter. Ladies be honest, would you rather have a 10"er instead of a 5"er. If you can't be honest with the rest of us, then at least be honest with yourself and mate.
HANDC wrote:

I knew a woman who said it best, I think. "a woman who says size doesn't matter has never had a large cock before." Yes size does matter. Ladies be honest, would you rather have a 10"er instead of a 5"er. If you can't be honest with the rest of us, then at least be honest with yourself and mate.


Sorry. I have had a 10" and I have had a 5". If they know what they are doing it's no different. Maybe I'm just lucky and my G spot is easy access. And lets face it, some places 10" is TOO MUCH.
IF SIZE MATTERS THEN EVERY ONE SHOULD HAVE A 10 INCH TOUNGE