anyone have a problem with your kids trying to see you nude all the time. if i forget to lock the door, they all try and come in.
Are they trying to see you nude? How old are they? We don\'t hide our bodies but at the same time to go showing it off to them. They have seen us nude many times so it is not a problem that we need to lock the door (unless we are going to play). I think the more you try to hide the more they want to see. Don\'t make a big deal with it and I bet it becomes a nonissue. After all what kid does not want to look at what they are not suppose to see?
R
R
they are 9 and 11 boys, girls is 13
We have 4 children and we only haveone bathroom, so there is always someone seeing someone. We have brought them up with the knowledge that mom and dad are sexualy active so if our door is shut they stay out. But at 15, 16, and 18 our girls now are not ashamed of thier bodies as they know it is just skin, they also are not afriad to ask about any other subject that comes to mind, we feel it is a healthy thing.
I dont know but i guess times have changed since the late 60\'s and early 70\'s. My parents used to walk in and out of the bedroom nude and i couldnt help not to see them. They never seems to hide it. As i got older they would only do that when they thought i was in my room or somewhere i couldnt see them. I dont know but nowa days i dont think it\'s such a good idea. Altho there will probably be alot of debate on this touchy subject. Tell me what you think email me if you want. Oh one more thing kids will remember what thier parents looked like naked later on in life as i can remember my mom had huge ones.. I mean i cant think about that! But i do remember
Yeah, that\'s a sticky wicket with Brenda and I regarding our girls and nudity. Now Bren will walk around nude all the time with no problem, but with me I\'m a bit more modest around the girls simply because of how I was raised. I wish I could be more open, but not for tittlation or anything, but I guess so there\'s nothing hidden. I think a lot of it determines to how you were raised and the way you were taught to view our bodies.
Ed
(EdNBrenda)
Ed
(EdNBrenda)
Western societies typically have issues with nudity, even among family members. Nudty is natural and should not be associated with sexual behavior of any kind. Most European and Asian countries do not see nudity the way we do here in the US. You can find it on game shows, in advertising...just about everywhere.
If you teach your kids that nudity is acceptable under certain circumstances from an early age, they can still grow up modest...just without the social hang ups we seem to foster here.
Luvbugs!
Isnt it also interesting that this country in particular has the highest sexually based crime rate in the world. (rape, sodomy, etc) Also, we produce and sell more porn than anyone else. You can say \"shit\", or \"asshole\" on prime time television, your kids can sneak a peak at South Park....but all hell breaks loose over Janet Jackson\'s bare nipple. We need to get our proirities straight.
If you teach your kids that nudity is acceptable under certain circumstances from an early age, they can still grow up modest...just without the social hang ups we seem to foster here.
Luvbugs!
Isnt it also interesting that this country in particular has the highest sexually based crime rate in the world. (rape, sodomy, etc) Also, we produce and sell more porn than anyone else. You can say \"shit\", or \"asshole\" on prime time television, your kids can sneak a peak at South Park....but all hell breaks loose over Janet Jackson\'s bare nipple. We need to get our proirities straight.
Wow alsome topic. We are actually beging to have issues with it. we have three kids and the oldest is 3. Everyone that talks to Sasha knows she Hates cloths. She feels very restricted and confined. Well our son now wakes up and see\'s her Naked sometimes chatting on the computer. She is becomming more and more uncomfortable with the Idea. Its great to hear peoples thoughts on it. And I too beleave it is a very natural thing. Thanks for everyones thoughts.. \"Rich and Sasha\"
I can only speak for my better half and myself, but i grew up in a family where my parents were both late in life having me. They are both from the old school, so to speak...we never seen them naked, although we have all seen them in various stage\'s of dress (bra, panties, underwear, etc.)
Me and my sister\'s grew up comfortable with ourselves and the way we looked, I am not in the shape i was in when i was younger, but I am still comfy with myself. My better half was raised very differently, she was raised to believe sex was dirty and her body was ugly...she is getting much better about it since we met, but still has issue\'s now and then.
We now have a child of our own and have discussed how we are going to raise him, and we believe...mind you, this is only how we feel, we have decided not to hide anything from him...we want him to be able to grow up and make choices based on reality and what he understands...not on what society has come to teach everyone! If he grows up to become a swinger then so be it...as far as we are concerned, there couldn\'t be any better way to live
Not sure if this helps any, but it\'s the way we feel
James-n-Jackie
Me and my sister\'s grew up comfortable with ourselves and the way we looked, I am not in the shape i was in when i was younger, but I am still comfy with myself. My better half was raised very differently, she was raised to believe sex was dirty and her body was ugly...she is getting much better about it since we met, but still has issue\'s now and then.
We now have a child of our own and have discussed how we are going to raise him, and we believe...mind you, this is only how we feel, we have decided not to hide anything from him...we want him to be able to grow up and make choices based on reality and what he understands...not on what society has come to teach everyone! If he grows up to become a swinger then so be it...as far as we are concerned, there couldn\'t be any better way to live
Not sure if this helps any, but it\'s the way we feel
James-n-Jackie