How can I go about getting my wife to try anal? I really want into that sweet ass. Any tips are appreciated :P
the book "i hope they serve beer in hell" chapter 11 will explain first time anal....lmao
i loved my first anal it was wonderful and unexpected i was laying on the bed and he started to give me a back rub in front of the fire place. It last what i thought was forever and then he went for it and it was amazing. Now i love it all the time.
relax, take it slow, LUBE!
you could always offer a quid pro quo...
just sayin'
just sayin'
you know, the quid pro quo was suggested to me by a partner once, and i acquiesced (she was nice and did not use a giant toy or anything). it was, eye opening. ultimately, what i learned, though, was invaluable for future opportunities (i.e., knowing what it feels like helps with technique and not hurting her). and yes, kitty is on the money, LUBE.
I think all have had great input... weather from the male perspective or the female. My opinion is give her time and for hell sakes don't push her when and if she is ready she will let you know. The woman will know more of how she will feel and react than us guys. Like kitty says go slow. The sphincter can tear if you just ram it in then you will be fucked and not in the pleasuable way.
We do anal maybe once a year but the mood for the wife has to be there or it isn't pleasurable for either. Good luck the others have given some awesome advice hope we all helped you.
We do anal maybe once a year but the mood for the wife has to be there or it isn't pleasurable for either. Good luck the others have given some awesome advice hope we all helped you.
Try out some toys with her anally--butt plugs, vibrators, etc. Work her up to your cock if she's leery about it.
seet the mood and let here do the work and set the pase
There is an author named Tristan Taormino who is an anal enthusiast she has written and produced a number of items on this subject. The major one is "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women" this is available in print and video, I have introduce a few women to this subject using the video. The video has two version an us and European more explicit and hardcore examples. I try to use a glycerin free lubricant appropriate for the type of activity of interest. There was a very nice website about anal sex and many aspects surrounding it from Match Stick (it was the exploration and evaluation of anal sex and important aspects). Have fun in your exploration and adventures.
Make sure its a slow ride and take it easy.