So does anybody else have this problem? We are friends with some people on here and we write them and never get a response. Like if people don't like what they see why don't they just delete them or at least write back. I just don't understand it. Does this happen to anybody else? Whats the point of being friends if you don't chat to become friends.
K&J
K&J
yes we have that problem too
I like how the friends list is taken so personally. I've had angry emails or angry messages in chat cuz the hubby went thru and randomly cleaned up the friends list of people he didn't know. It kind of amuses me really. I'm not picky about who see's my pics so I don't particularly care who is or isn't on my list. I don't really use the friends list for anything. *shrugs*
We recently cleaned up our Friends list, removing people we haven't heard from in a long time (or at all after the initial Friend request). Sorry if anyone was offended but if it means that much to you, why not make an effort to keep in touch?
I think ABCMAN's point is a good one - the name "Friends" doesn't really describe the way most people (including us) use the facility which is to gate access to pictures. That said, this is not really necessary because you can create separate albums and grant permissions on a username by username basis but not many people (again, including us) actually use that feature.
I think ABCMAN's point is a good one - the name "Friends" doesn't really describe the way most people (including us) use the facility which is to gate access to pictures. That said, this is not really necessary because you can create separate albums and grant permissions on a username by username basis but not many people (again, including us) actually use that feature.
We agree with all of you and there is need for a little upgrading per the whole site. Harlan1872 had a good point of folks doing it just for the chase, this isnt "MyFACE" or "Spacebook" or whatever you choose to play on to see how many friends you can have to win the prize of "Most friends in the swinger world." This is a lifestyle and although we dont reach out to all of our friends, we see most of them in the chat room. One of our biggest problems is someone popping in the chat room, viewing profiles then sending a friends request- Maybe if you read our (others) profile "first" you will see that most of us are easy going folks and we at least deserve a simple hello.... Hello??!!
we havent done it here yet but on another site what we do is like to keep our friends around 30-35.... because we try to stay real active with our friends so we do need to keep the number down.. so every month or so when we hit 50 or so we send out a group mail that say if we did it today it would say " we are deleting friends from out lists based on the following criteria... 1. you are a single male and havent writen or conversed or dont have any private photos. 2. you are a couple and we havent heard back from a mail we sent you over a month ago, after accepting your request to be friends. 3. no mater how bad male 1/2 wants to get jiggy with sara and he is always writing her but him and/or female 1/2 hasnt contacted dennis in a effort to get aquainted so things go smother upon our first meeting.
if you fall into one of thse catagories and wish to remain in our friends lists please mail before the 20th. or you will be going out n it wont be to dinner and a movie. Dennis"
we just barely found out how to view all our friends here after 5 years...lol and foud out how to see whos we are on... just wish there was a way to cross reference them so we can delete people who hav deleted us..... it is a nice suprise every once in a while we get a group mail from (its always 1 of 3 that we r friends with that do group mails... )a friend but we cant make it down to party or poker of wendover.... it does keep in mind there are those that live 175 miles away and we want to get to see next time we run down... we are behind on our trips that way...... D n S
if you fall into one of thse catagories and wish to remain in our friends lists please mail before the 20th. or you will be going out n it wont be to dinner and a movie. Dennis"
we just barely found out how to view all our friends here after 5 years...lol and foud out how to see whos we are on... just wish there was a way to cross reference them so we can delete people who hav deleted us..... it is a nice suprise every once in a while we get a group mail from (its always 1 of 3 that we r friends with that do group mails... )a friend but we cant make it down to party or poker of wendover.... it does keep in mind there are those that live 175 miles away and we want to get to see next time we run down... we are behind on our trips that way...... D n S