I've noticed a trend in the threads.... Apparently it is perfectly acceptable to bash singles, joe 6pack, and big boob barbie. Maybe I'm blind, but I've not seen the thread bashing couples in general, jim keg, and natural tits tracy. What makes it okay to insult ken&barbie but not their average neighbors? If everyone is gonna bash ken & barbie I think a thread is called for that starts insulting people who ate one too many burgers or the girl that had too many kidlets and is no longer in her prime. What's good for the goose is good for the gander eh?
I'm not single. I have a couples profile on here with my wife but made a seperate profile so we could both chat in the chatroom at the same time. I couldn't decide which status and just ended up putting single and haven't filled out the profile to explain yet.
I'm working on it. Just been lazy since I don't use it often. I'll fix it asap though.
Bash those damned bashers!
Got my pitchfork, tar and feathers, and yep...even a burning stake ready-to-go!
Got my pitchfork, tar and feathers, and yep...even a burning stake ready-to-go!
I'm not meaning to bash. Just pointed out that I see threads galore about how much ken&barbie are just terrible creatures but not the other way around. Doesn't sound very fair to me. *shrugs* just me 3 cents really.
I've noticed this trend. I don't intentionally hurt anyone's feelings around her but I've been insulted all night at parties and even told I'm not welcome at parties and had the insults cover anything from my age (cuz i can change this one eh?), my weight (i'm naturally very tiny and spent a lot of hard work getting back to this weight after babies) , my boobs, my hair, to my choice of tattoos. (Which btw I design and sketch myself and they mean personal things to me.) I don't feel like this is fair, nice, and/or called for. I'm no barbie by any means, but nobody likes getting insulted on either end of the spectrum. And I'm not seeing how it's perfectly acceptable to insult me all night long at a party when I didn't do anything to the insulters. I try my best to be nice to everyone and make friends with everyone. Shouldn't I deserve the same respect?
I think we can all agree we are on here for a reason. We want to meet great people and not create drama in our lives. For those of you that find enjoyment in a single male, single female, etc...it is all up to you, what you want. What doesn't make sense to me is that when you specifically request no single males, and you get single male friend request everyday, obviously they think that there is no value in our preferences. Same goes for couples that request friendship, with no pictures, no real attempt to make any contact. This is where I feel each and everyone of us has a right to be picky without hurting anyones feelings. This is not an attempt to replace our spouse. That being said, we hope you do not get bent out of shape when we deny your friend request.
I think honestly if people would just realize that we are not here to only share naked photos, have sex due to a "made up" hall pass, or we will show you our boobs the second you log on to chat, or give you a sex show just because you ask, there are plenty of other free sites for that. Just my two cents.
I think honestly if people would just realize that we are not here to only share naked photos, have sex due to a "made up" hall pass, or we will show you our boobs the second you log on to chat, or give you a sex show just because you ask, there are plenty of other free sites for that. Just my two cents.
again. i'm not a single male. i just need to quit being a lazy bum and fill out the rest of my profile and post my wifey's profile on my page so y'all know who i'm married to.
There. I've filled out my profile as much as I'm willing to do so at this point in time. :P
thank you. i think i have the look that doesn't work for most, but i have my niche of fans? lmao. i'm just me and apologetically so. glad you like it. 
if you're ever in utah, say hi eh?
if you're ever in utah, say hi eh?T4REAL69 wrote:
Anyway I say let a person be who and what they are and if you can't get along with them then leave them hell alone and hopefully they will do the same for you.
Precisely
Our experience has been that swinger in general seem to be nicer and more open than their prudish cousins. However we must remember that swingers are still a cross section of society and we all know that society in general is well stocked with assholes and unfortunately some will spill over into the lifestyle. All we can do is ignore them and hope they disappear quickly.
Bob
Bob
well i must admit, there are as many ass wipe haters here as ther are in our everyday life. no matter where you go, we will always encounter them. but that is exactly what makes us human.we are all differant and have many likes and dislikes.
i personally dont like the GOOD LOOKING ONLY croud.then i see there pic and i almost barf. lets face it, we all think were good looking...RIGHT.
so right now i hate :
people who are better looking than me
younger people ( not you kitty )
older people
single people
and ohh ya fat people ( im not fat, im just pleasantly plump )lmao
and finally, the people that have NO SINGLE MALES in there profile, but then they do booty calls including single males. just too funny
i personally dont like the GOOD LOOKING ONLY croud.then i see there pic and i almost barf. lets face it, we all think were good looking...RIGHT.
so right now i hate :
people who are better looking than me
younger people ( not you kitty )
older people
single people
and ohh ya fat people ( im not fat, im just pleasantly plump )lmao
and finally, the people that have NO SINGLE MALES in there profile, but then they do booty calls including single males. just too funny
Hellokitty... they are all just jealous of your body and attitude! We still love ya too!
aww. fanks for the love.
Well, isn't hate just envy in disguise?
If you are fat, you envy the thin. They can shop anywhere for clothes and look good in a bathing suit.
If you are thin, you envy the fat. They eat whatever they want. Mmmmm, steak and chocolate cake.
Small breasts envy larger breasts. They round out her figure so well.
Large breats envy smaller breasts. I bet her back doesn't hurt.
The smaller "member" guy envies the well endowed man.
The well endowed guy, well, he just grins!
Mav
If you are fat, you envy the thin. They can shop anywhere for clothes and look good in a bathing suit.
If you are thin, you envy the fat. They eat whatever they want. Mmmmm, steak and chocolate cake.
Small breasts envy larger breasts. They round out her figure so well.
Large breats envy smaller breasts. I bet her back doesn't hurt.
The smaller "member" guy envies the well endowed man.
The well endowed guy, well, he just grins!
Mav
OMG we are pretty sure this issue goes all the way back to high school... The Jocks can date the cheerleaders but the cheerleader can not date the average guy. The girl who has a boyfriend cant have any guy friends. each group has to make fun each other group because they wish they were part of the other group...Bowling for soup sings a song about this its called high school never ends lmao...
Here is what i think...
Average people don't approach the "Beautiful people" because of self confidence issues
The Beautiful people want to be approached but have an image to live up to and i think its not easy for them either when people don't approach them.
Single males (with the exception of the ones who send multiple friends requests with no emails) get put into a category that most don't belong in and then get in an uproar which they should alot of them are really good guys...and feel the need to defend themselves...
Our solution is simple just treat every person you meet as you would wish to be treated its really that simple....
I know we are not perfect but we try to live life by that simple rule and we have many friends in all of these "groups" of people...
The fact of the matter is people are just people and everything in life is the same you get back what you put in so be a good friend and you will have good friends...Be a hater and you will be hated..
Anyway just my two cents Happy New Years all.
Lucky and Naugh-Ty
Here is what i think...
Average people don't approach the "Beautiful people" because of self confidence issues
The Beautiful people want to be approached but have an image to live up to and i think its not easy for them either when people don't approach them.
Single males (with the exception of the ones who send multiple friends requests with no emails) get put into a category that most don't belong in and then get in an uproar which they should alot of them are really good guys...and feel the need to defend themselves...
Our solution is simple just treat every person you meet as you would wish to be treated its really that simple....
I know we are not perfect but we try to live life by that simple rule and we have many friends in all of these "groups" of people...
The fact of the matter is people are just people and everything in life is the same you get back what you put in so be a good friend and you will have good friends...Be a hater and you will be hated..
Anyway just my two cents Happy New Years all.
Lucky and Naugh-Ty
Very Good Observations Morgan. I think too often we want to put poeple into our own boxes to makes us feel more comfortable and secure. I think a lot of times by doing that people fail to learn more about other and miss a lot of lifes little learning experiences. By doing that they just relive the same high school bs they hated.
As a single male I do get pissed off when another guy is on chat and acting like an ass. I feel it makes every guy look bad and does give single males as a group a bad stigma. On the flip side, I do like to learn about people and get to know other couples. Most of the time their is no agenda to try and hook up with these people. It's just fun to chat. I beleive respect is a two way street but it starts with each individual.
BTW Kitty. You look great an are a riot to talk to. I can't figure what box to put you in so you are in your own LOL
Happy New Years Everyone.
As a single male I do get pissed off when another guy is on chat and acting like an ass. I feel it makes every guy look bad and does give single males as a group a bad stigma. On the flip side, I do like to learn about people and get to know other couples. Most of the time their is no agenda to try and hook up with these people. It's just fun to chat. I beleive respect is a two way street but it starts with each individual.
BTW Kitty. You look great an are a riot to talk to. I can't figure what box to put you in so you are in your own LOL
Happy New Years Everyone.
UTVRODDER wrote:
BTW Kitty. I can't figure what box to put you in so you are in your own. LOL
haha. yeeeah. i kinda live in my own little world over here. :P but like they say, i live in my own little world but they know me here? lol.
What's the first rule about swingular fight club? We don't talk about swingular flight club! Hahaha
Anyway, yeah..lots of pushy single dudes...lots of hot couples who won't give us fatties the time of day...lots of fatties not wanting to approach the hot couples in fear of rejection. Really?...you are on a site FOR SWINGING...If any of you feel the need to judge anyone else..uhh...look in the mirror...remember why you are in this lifestyle...who got you here...get back to your sexual roots...don't give the single guy a hard time for wanting to bang yer wife...what is he suppose to think...YER ON A SWINGER SITE don't reject us fatties we need love too and we try harder..show us some love and pudding snacks...fellow fatties..if you ask a "hot" couple for some play and they reject you...come to us haha...anyway..yeah..I get it...we should all get along like a huge incestuous family...but that's not likely...if a single guy is pushy...call him out on it...post his name for all to see...same with single skanky females...same with couples...they act innappropriately..let's call them out...screw etiquette...these people are annoying us..so let's annoy them...we are here for a purpose...let's fulfill that purpose and stop bickering...the single guys..the skanky homewrecking females...the obnoxious pushy couples that have to meet RIGHT NOW..DON'T READ THIS STUFF..THEY DON'T CARE..THEY JUST WANT TO FUCK..they obviously can't read your profiles..so why would they read forums. Let's bring them to light and either embarass them into stopping obnoxious behaviour or they will leave the site and not come back...not trying to be mean...just stick up for yourself..let the dorks know they need to play nice
Wow...my rant is over..thanks for reading
JennandBrandon
Anyway, yeah..lots of pushy single dudes...lots of hot couples who won't give us fatties the time of day...lots of fatties not wanting to approach the hot couples in fear of rejection. Really?...you are on a site FOR SWINGING...If any of you feel the need to judge anyone else..uhh...look in the mirror...remember why you are in this lifestyle...who got you here...get back to your sexual roots...don't give the single guy a hard time for wanting to bang yer wife...what is he suppose to think...YER ON A SWINGER SITE don't reject us fatties we need love too and we try harder..show us some love and pudding snacks...fellow fatties..if you ask a "hot" couple for some play and they reject you...come to us haha...anyway..yeah..I get it...we should all get along like a huge incestuous family...but that's not likely...if a single guy is pushy...call him out on it...post his name for all to see...same with single skanky females...same with couples...they act innappropriately..let's call them out...screw etiquette...these people are annoying us..so let's annoy them...we are here for a purpose...let's fulfill that purpose and stop bickering...the single guys..the skanky homewrecking females...the obnoxious pushy couples that have to meet RIGHT NOW..DON'T READ THIS STUFF..THEY DON'T CARE..THEY JUST WANT TO FUCK..they obviously can't read your profiles..so why would they read forums. Let's bring them to light and either embarass them into stopping obnoxious behaviour or they will leave the site and not come back...not trying to be mean...just stick up for yourself..let the dorks know they need to play nice
Wow...my rant is over..thanks for reading
JennandBrandon
Just one last thought on the subject.
I rarely post on these issues, but have to throw this in on this particular thread. I believe the basic question that we all have to ask ourselves is:
"Why are we in the LifeStyle to begin with?"
I will not presume to answer for anyone on here, but for my wife and I the particular reason is to spend our lives living not living to spend our lives. As far as all the single males, fatties, skinnies bashing that appears to be occurring, folks, we are missing the basic premise of the swinging lifestyle here. It is to meet new people, establish friendships and to reap the benefits of those friendships even if they are just someone to go get a burger with. Just because you are on a "Swingers" site, sex is not all that there is. We are just as happy finding folks that want to grab dinner and see a movie as we are playing around with. Building lasting relationships and having people that one can count on is more important than notching our bedposts.
As far as the body weight issue is concerned, K has gone through quite an ordeal to lose over 100 pounds in the past 15 months (and she is looking very good!). To those folks that apply the HWP stipulation to their profiles. all I can suggest is that perhaps you should redefine your limitations. You could be missing out on not only some great friendships, but actually some pretty intense sexual experiences.
Kitty, anyone that has anything negative for you should seriously step back and examine who they are, what they want, where they are in life and why they are in this particular lifestyle. And BTW, I am with you on your own little world thing!
It is ALL about having fun, making friends and enjoying life. The limits that each individual or couple places upon themselves, is by their choice and I support that choice, but they only limit the experiences they will have in our exceptional community.
Secrets, I totally agree with you on the being good at being ourselves point. However, sometimes the choices and perceptions that we have are too overwhelming. Let's face it, no one is born into this lifestyle and all of our ideas, conceptions and beliefs are based on what we learned in our formative years. For some, that includes the perfective (is that a word?) states of looks, shape and health. Is that the goals that should drive us in a lifestyle of this nature?
One last thing.....Kendra, love the tat on your back, but MAN that had to hurt!
I rarely post on these issues, but have to throw this in on this particular thread. I believe the basic question that we all have to ask ourselves is:
"Why are we in the LifeStyle to begin with?"
I will not presume to answer for anyone on here, but for my wife and I the particular reason is to spend our lives living not living to spend our lives. As far as all the single males, fatties, skinnies bashing that appears to be occurring, folks, we are missing the basic premise of the swinging lifestyle here. It is to meet new people, establish friendships and to reap the benefits of those friendships even if they are just someone to go get a burger with. Just because you are on a "Swingers" site, sex is not all that there is. We are just as happy finding folks that want to grab dinner and see a movie as we are playing around with. Building lasting relationships and having people that one can count on is more important than notching our bedposts.
As far as the body weight issue is concerned, K has gone through quite an ordeal to lose over 100 pounds in the past 15 months (and she is looking very good!). To those folks that apply the HWP stipulation to their profiles. all I can suggest is that perhaps you should redefine your limitations. You could be missing out on not only some great friendships, but actually some pretty intense sexual experiences.
Kitty, anyone that has anything negative for you should seriously step back and examine who they are, what they want, where they are in life and why they are in this particular lifestyle. And BTW, I am with you on your own little world thing!
It is ALL about having fun, making friends and enjoying life. The limits that each individual or couple places upon themselves, is by their choice and I support that choice, but they only limit the experiences they will have in our exceptional community.
Secrets, I totally agree with you on the being good at being ourselves point. However, sometimes the choices and perceptions that we have are too overwhelming. Let's face it, no one is born into this lifestyle and all of our ideas, conceptions and beliefs are based on what we learned in our formative years. For some, that includes the perfective (is that a word?) states of looks, shape and health. Is that the goals that should drive us in a lifestyle of this nature?
One last thing.....Kendra, love the tat on your back, but MAN that had to hurt!
LOBOSWINGER...I say congrats to your wife...that is not an easy task...I know first hand...I have lost 80 pounds in just over 1 1/2 years...we have had some that wouldn't give us the time of day before but now they seem to want to get to know us...to them I say whatever...I am still the same person inside (well with a healthier self image) and I have always been great in bed (so says my hubby) but now that I feel even better about myself, that too has improved...if they snubbed us before because of my few extra pounds then they don't deserve our attention now...we have a WONDERFUL group of friends who we know we can be ourselves around, flirt, a little play, whatever....but we are always looking for more friends and we TRY not to be the same judgmental people we disliked before...we always read our posts to each other so that it doesn't come across offensive and I have even erased a few and decided it best I not post because I don't ever want anyone to think I am one of those judgmental haters that everyone is referring too...all we ever ask is just be yourselves...if your not, sooner or later it will come out and that would most likely end things there....we love the friends we have made, a few we have even included things with our families and to us that is a great feeling...any play that may come with it is just bonus!! Kisses...Naugh-Ty (and Lucky B lol)