Is it just me or is it past time to educate the single men on this site again to read peoples profiles before they send them a friend request? Even though our settings is supposed to block these particular breed of vermin from contacting us they just seem to flood our in box with there annoying emails. It is no mystery to ALL that READ our profile how we feel about single men. If a man is not intelligent enough or have the class enough to read what we have to say then he does not belong here... and surely does not belong in OUR bed.... just food for thought.
If you have single men blocked how are you getting a flood?
i feel bad because im a single guy and im pretty normal i just like gnarly hot sex..... i guess i kind of want to apologize but there are crazy people on every site from ebay to craigslist to swingular to anything that ends in .gov but hey cant we just try to get a long and have fun? happy holidays, and from all the single guys that have made fantasies cum true and have been part of something positive kudos
I am a single guy and have made lots of friends here, some werent even looking for a single guy.
I am guessing its becuse i show respect to both the male and female. But your right whats hard about reading a profile?
I am guessing its becuse i show respect to both the male and female. But your right whats hard about reading a profile?
VERMIN??????????
How objective of you to paint all of us single guys with the same brush.
You and your lack of objectivity have my sympathy.
Merry Christmas from a NON vermin single guy.
How objective of you to paint all of us single guys with the same brush.
You and your lack of objectivity have my sympathy.
Merry Christmas from a NON vermin single guy.
We meet Buttholes and Angels.....JerksOffs and driven people every day. In this type of situation the wrong type of person is going to bark up more than 1 tree in the neighborhood.
INDEP0102 wrote:
Can I hear a Yuletide Amen?
Big Ol' Yuletide AMEN!
"Jebus"...haha...I thought we were the only ones to use that holy alias...
I'm sorry, this complaint cannot be limited to just single men. It's not just single guys who either can't read or comprehend profiles, I've have gotten emails/friend's requests from couples, cheaters, single women, as well as single men who clearly don't meet my stated requirements, ie, age group, what I'm looking for, etc.
Perhaps we should change this thread to "Stupid Fuctards Who Cant' Read and/or Have No Comprehension and Have the IQ and Class of a Used Condom".
Just a thought.
xox
Tammy
Perhaps we should change this thread to "Stupid Fuctards Who Cant' Read and/or Have No Comprehension and Have the IQ and Class of a Used Condom".
Just a thought.
xox
Tammy
I am sure there will always be others that do things one finds irritating. being that it is not legal to bludgeon them with a hammer, one is left with two options; one, complain and hope something changes. two, become harder to irritate.
it seems a rather Sisyphean task to complain in a forum about others inability to read a profile, somehow expecting they would bother reading a forum post. it seems unlikely that your complaint will be heard by anyone but those that already enjoy reading what we all write, and are the least likely to perpetrate the offensive behavior anyway.
I suspect the offenders are either just casting a wide net, relying on the statistical probability of getting a few replies. or they are reading at a compression level below what is required to understand a profile with , like, words, and stuff.
perhaps a visual representation of your message would serve you better.
but I am sure like most you will discover that really nothing you do will tame them, it is just the nature of these type of sites, lots of aroused people with a poor grip on reality that somehow think they are the exception to your rules and lots of basement trolls engaged in never ending bickering with their grandma over who ate the last grape freezy-pop while re-watching the latest streaming video from howtonailhotchicks.com with hopes of someday touching a woman, a real one, not like blow up betty, grandma gave the dog away when she walked in that time and caught him with peanut butter smeared on his balls and the dog licking it off while he jerked it, his sex life has gone downhill since then, grandma wont let him have another dog and he is on the outs with blow up betty over his porn addiction, in desperation he emails everyone hoping anyone will touch him.
you just can not rely on such a person for anything, let alone respecting your rules.
I would like to suggest that they are not worth more thought than the delete button and the block button.
we just ignore those that are not of interest to us, I actually kind of hope they get persistent and offensive, as I have invented a great game, would need 2 that you really did not like. get one of them to agree to host, send the other one to the 1st ones house, set the scene so the host is nude in bed with the lights out, and the guest to remove all clothing just inside the front door and to climb into the bed both under strict instructions to not make a noise.
if they only are mildly hate worthy have them rent a room in an expensive hotel, and don't show.
I am sure if you put your mind to it you could come up with all kinds of ways to teach them some manners, get your revenge, etc. in ways that bring you the most amusement.
a mild lesson would be to politely tell them no thanks, etc, and if they persist tell them ok, you will meet, get an e-mail and a cell number so you can text them, then go to craigslist and make a post on their behalf in the men seeking men section, use a newly created gmail account to make the post, and create a filter to forward replies to them, be sure to post their photo along with instructions to text them hot messages and photos. be sure to send them an email from your fake account asking how much they enjoy being bothered with unwanted harassing messages , no means no.
It behooves me to point out I have never have never done any of these things, I just don't care enough for it to bother me.
I understand there is an option to block single males? if this is true, then blaming single males for messages reaching your inbox is like leaving your front door open and getting angry at the cold for the temperature inside, like the cold, irritating people will find a way in if one can not operate the door, it is in their nature, if one can block single males, then it seems more a technical issue, or a site usability issue more than a single male issue.
no one blames the fox for trying to eat the chickens...it is what they do. and single males try, it is what they do.
I am sure they already expect you to say no, or ignore them. but...do you have mirrors? have you seen your pictures? are you aware that you both have bodies that look like they belong in a magazine? really, who can blame them for trying? just in case you say yes. they have nothing to loose.
cheers
it seems a rather Sisyphean task to complain in a forum about others inability to read a profile, somehow expecting they would bother reading a forum post. it seems unlikely that your complaint will be heard by anyone but those that already enjoy reading what we all write, and are the least likely to perpetrate the offensive behavior anyway.
I suspect the offenders are either just casting a wide net, relying on the statistical probability of getting a few replies. or they are reading at a compression level below what is required to understand a profile with , like, words, and stuff.
perhaps a visual representation of your message would serve you better.
but I am sure like most you will discover that really nothing you do will tame them, it is just the nature of these type of sites, lots of aroused people with a poor grip on reality that somehow think they are the exception to your rules and lots of basement trolls engaged in never ending bickering with their grandma over who ate the last grape freezy-pop while re-watching the latest streaming video from howtonailhotchicks.com with hopes of someday touching a woman, a real one, not like blow up betty, grandma gave the dog away when she walked in that time and caught him with peanut butter smeared on his balls and the dog licking it off while he jerked it, his sex life has gone downhill since then, grandma wont let him have another dog and he is on the outs with blow up betty over his porn addiction, in desperation he emails everyone hoping anyone will touch him.
you just can not rely on such a person for anything, let alone respecting your rules.
I would like to suggest that they are not worth more thought than the delete button and the block button.
we just ignore those that are not of interest to us, I actually kind of hope they get persistent and offensive, as I have invented a great game, would need 2 that you really did not like. get one of them to agree to host, send the other one to the 1st ones house, set the scene so the host is nude in bed with the lights out, and the guest to remove all clothing just inside the front door and to climb into the bed both under strict instructions to not make a noise.
if they only are mildly hate worthy have them rent a room in an expensive hotel, and don't show.
I am sure if you put your mind to it you could come up with all kinds of ways to teach them some manners, get your revenge, etc. in ways that bring you the most amusement.
a mild lesson would be to politely tell them no thanks, etc, and if they persist tell them ok, you will meet, get an e-mail and a cell number so you can text them, then go to craigslist and make a post on their behalf in the men seeking men section, use a newly created gmail account to make the post, and create a filter to forward replies to them, be sure to post their photo along with instructions to text them hot messages and photos. be sure to send them an email from your fake account asking how much they enjoy being bothered with unwanted harassing messages , no means no.
It behooves me to point out I have never have never done any of these things, I just don't care enough for it to bother me.
I understand there is an option to block single males? if this is true, then blaming single males for messages reaching your inbox is like leaving your front door open and getting angry at the cold for the temperature inside, like the cold, irritating people will find a way in if one can not operate the door, it is in their nature, if one can block single males, then it seems more a technical issue, or a site usability issue more than a single male issue.
no one blames the fox for trying to eat the chickens...it is what they do. and single males try, it is what they do.
I am sure they already expect you to say no, or ignore them. but...do you have mirrors? have you seen your pictures? are you aware that you both have bodies that look like they belong in a magazine? really, who can blame them for trying? just in case you say yes. they have nothing to loose.
cheers
Thoughtgarden; I think homer simpson does the jebus thing or did.
MFF_UT_TRIAD....That is some funny shit!
Note to self..."do not piss off MFF_UT_TRIAD"...omg, that is funny as hell!!! And SEXYPOKER...they got a point...you guys are definitely hot and you really can't blame one for hoping they might be the exception to the rule...I am not condoning the bad manners just sayin you are hot...kisses...Naugh-Ty
LMAO...Vermin!
I've been in and out of the lifestyle for over 10 years. Mostly out because every LTR I seem to get in has been with a vanilla woman, so consequently, virtually all of my experience in the lifestyle has been as a single male. This is the way it is:
1. You are nasty, old, fat, and psycho until proven innocent.
2. Don't even bother talking about sex with whomever you're interested in. Trust me, they've heard it, they're sick of it, if they want to know, they'll inquire.
3. Go to meet and greets. Be nice and flirtatious with everyone--even if you're not into them. People are much more inclined to entertain the idea of a single guy after they've met them in person and excluded them self from #1. or someone can vouch for them.
4. With couples you are a dildo on legs, an accessory. You're allowed into their play because 1. She's into you and 2. He trusts that you understand your role--dildo on legs.
5. Contact with couples should always be man to man. Do not call his wife directly!
6. As for single females...well...good luck with that!
I've been in and out of the lifestyle for over 10 years. Mostly out because every LTR I seem to get in has been with a vanilla woman, so consequently, virtually all of my experience in the lifestyle has been as a single male. This is the way it is:
1. You are nasty, old, fat, and psycho until proven innocent.
2. Don't even bother talking about sex with whomever you're interested in. Trust me, they've heard it, they're sick of it, if they want to know, they'll inquire.
3. Go to meet and greets. Be nice and flirtatious with everyone--even if you're not into them. People are much more inclined to entertain the idea of a single guy after they've met them in person and excluded them self from #1. or someone can vouch for them.
4. With couples you are a dildo on legs, an accessory. You're allowed into their play because 1. She's into you and 2. He trusts that you understand your role--dildo on legs.
5. Contact with couples should always be man to man. Do not call his wife directly!
6. As for single females...well...good luck with that!