So I have been thinking about this for awhile now and to be honest I really don't know what to think. I might just be rambling here and if I am please just ignore. But why is it that almost every guy I talk to always wants two girls????? Personally I think it
I too prefer the MMF balance. I didnt have enough hands or other body parts during my FMF experience. Plus its a turn on to arouse her over and over. There are different things to experience during a MMF thats most enjoyable. I look forward to more experiences and meeting new friends too. (Single Male).
Well It's great to see so many people agree with me!!!! Now I have to take baby steps with my other half so she can work up to that experience. I think she will like it and she thinks so too but she wants to get her feet wet "so to say" with just being with another girl and work up from there!!!
Yup you are not alone, I like that a lot!
we also like MFM, but include MFMF, FMF, and many other combos into our play group. Guess it depends on the nite
Me, I love when my lady is getting it with a hot guy. I watch, I join, And she gets ultimate pleasure. Nummy Nummy. I mean we love other couples cuz we all get to play. And we love single ladies. But my lady works real hard, for me and well Hell she's got to be able to have her cake and eat it to. In fact if we all just passed on a little more love around this world could, and should be a better place. Anyways have a freat rest of the night. And peace out to all my peeps.
R and G
R and G
Funny, the couple that says they enjoy MMF don't allow e-mail from single guys. Hmmmmmm
Mav
Mav
MAVENX, I had no idea that was set. I need to change that. And yes we do. If you looked at my reply on the other page you will see that yes the male half would love that but the female half is new to the life style and is in the process of taking baby steps first before she jumps in with both feet. So really if you know the scene the girls control the life style and I want to move at her speed and not mine. After all she is the one going to get tag teamed lol. look for my post early on and you will see a more detail replay.
That is what turns me on so much about the lifestyle, is to watch her recieve as much pleasure as possible, we love the lifesyle because we can experiment, with all the different possibilities. and one of those is MFM, i love to see her smile, and a hot erotic night that everyone is on the same page, is the ones we enjoy the most, weather that be 2,3 4, 5, or more. males females, couples or all the above. going in with no expectations, and coming out saying oh my god that was great. i love seeing my lady pleased, and we dont put rules on singles, because when you find the respectful ones, there is nothing better. nothing like watching your girl laying there in extasy with her eyes rolled in the back of her head, and hearing the pleasure in her voice.
so lets play, have a great day
so lets play, have a great day
Yeah MMF is one of our favorite things. It seems a lot more people are into it than most realize besides sometimes it is far less complicated.
OneFun: guess my sarcasm didn't show through the e-mail. I really meant I thought it was funny.
Mav
Mav
ONEFUNCOUPLE wrote:
Well It's great to see so many people agree with me!!!! Now I have to take baby steps with my other half so she can work up to that experience. I think she will like it and she thinks so too but she wants to get her feet wet "so to say" with just being with another girl and work up from there!!!
This is how we started FMF...I am bi and we started with just me playing with the girl and he watched, then I was comfortable enough to let him join....now we are full on swappin swingers...hahaha...love FMF, MFM, MFMF, MMFMM, and ALL other combinations...hehehe...have fun and let her set the pace...you will be happy in the end letting her do it how she feels comfortable...she will reward you for your patience...I know I did Lucky B...hehehe...kisses...Naugh-Ty and Lucky B
to me nothing more erotic then watching a women being pleasured by two guys ! ! ! sweet sweet 
We have found that during play, with another couple, it is kind of a normal progression to have a MMF or FFM. It has never been something that we have discussed before hand, it has always just happen and we have enjoyed it. That is part of the fun being with another couple, you create experiences and memories that you will foster forever.
When you have two bi women and one guy it is a blast. So FMF for us any day.
WildNCrazy: It is called rest periods. LOL
Julian: Thanks for sharing that. It is such an important distinction.
TreatMeGr8: Good motto!
Mav
Julian: Thanks for sharing that. It is such an important distinction.
TreatMeGr8: Good motto!
Mav
Just for the record, I When I'm talking about MMF I really mean MFM...... Just thought I would clear the air on that one. LOL I didn't even think of that!
Our motto is..if it is fun do it...if it is not...don't...pretty simple. The one thing I would suggest for newbies is to let it happen and not force a situation. If it flows there, it is natural and going to be more fun, if it is forced it becomes like a job...not fun.
Wow this thread kinda blew up.... Well I'm glad to hear back from you all. I have one more thing to say then I will shut up. Since I posted this thread I have been getting ton's of friend request from guys, "Not to mention just friend request no message" So annoying. But anyway It's kinda driving me nuts cause if you read the thread instead of the original post you would see that Yes I do think it's hot the male half. But the female half is not there yet. And I'm going to be very patient with her and let her choose who she want's. So if you are reading this and your a guy. Please don't just add me. Also just and FYI I have gotten some messages from Single guys too and wow I'm very impressed. There are some really really kind and genuine guys on here.
-J
-J
I would not way no to try sex with to girls...
BUT I love watching when another man is fucking my wife :P
If I had to choose to share her with another girl or another man, it sure would be a man.
I'm 100% straight, but sharing the wife with other man is so exiting.
BUT I love watching when another man is fucking my wife :P
If I had to choose to share her with another girl or another man, it sure would be a man.
I'm 100% straight, but sharing the wife with other man is so exiting.
CNKISS are absolutely right, just let things progress slowly that way, and she'll enjoy it that much more. The 'no pressure' enviornment is critical. I'm sure it'll go well, and I'm sure she'll love it.
Gee, looks like I'm living in the wrong place. UTAH is the place to be!
I agree not alone I love that my girl loves to pimp me out to couples. She has a vouyer said that loves to imagine what is going on when i am out with a couple, and loves when I come back home.
So I agree making a lady center of attention is very sexy and hot to me also
Chad [email protected] if anyone needs a 3rd!
So I agree making a lady center of attention is very sexy and hot to me also
Chad [email protected] if anyone needs a 3rd!
that's what I'm here for.. any floridians?
sorry, had to remove comments. we started getting more single male mail than usual, lol.
Ya know, I always kinda fantisized about what it would be like to be with two women at the same time.
And I couldn't wait for it to happen.
Until it happened.
I was up to the task, but overall, I found it kinda awkward.
That said, I find mfm to be a LOT more gratifying.
I've been with a number of couples (my preference by far) and found it to be more fun and more satisfying for all concerned.
Sometimes, fantasies are better left as fantasies than bringing them to fruition.
Reality can often be a dissapointment.
And I couldn't wait for it to happen.
Until it happened.
I was up to the task, but overall, I found it kinda awkward.
That said, I find mfm to be a LOT more gratifying.
I've been with a number of couples (my preference by far) and found it to be more fun and more satisfying for all concerned.
Sometimes, fantasies are better left as fantasies than bringing them to fruition.
Reality can often be a dissapointment.
We love any and all combinations. Not sure which one of us or how we started. Just seems like one night when we had another couple over both gals worked on one guy then the other then I ended up with both guys and some great feels from the other gal. After that time we have 3-somes and enjoyed them very much. Highly reccommend them to everybody.
For years clubs and parties have mostly stipulated that it was for couples and single girls, and no single males. It was always said that the girls made the rules. Not quite true. Those rules were made by the men because they didn't want any unattached competition. They wanted to be the center of attraction. During the last year the pendulum has started to swing the other way with the girls wanting to become the center of attraction, and allow single males in. The girls have found out how nice it is to have two men for themselves instead of just sharing one. The married males are objecting to this change in the womens attitudes, but are losing the arguement. Single males are finally becoming something the married and single girls want at their parties and clubs. Husbands might be pressured to get in shape, and start performing to impress like the single males are doing. I'm single and I love watching a girl with a look of ecstasy constantly on her face for an entire evening brought on by two guys. MFM is slowly gaining on FMF.
Whatever it is, as long as everyone is having fun, let's do it. Been in all the scenarios and each have their merits and fun.
Mav
Mav
Probably for the same reason women (OK - not all) like to have 2 guys at the same time. 2 playing with 1 is all about being the center of attention.
It is really cool to see a very nice post like this. MFM is the way to go!!!
My experience lately has been that women are finding it more enjoyable and fun to have two men to herself (MFM), as opposed to sharing one man with another woman (FMF).
Well, I must admit I love it both ways! I am the woman and love it with 2 guys or 2 girls it gives a certain kind of pleasure to my man and to me when we trade off in these scenarios. But DP with another girl is awesome as well. So lets all just relax and enjoy each other.
As a couple we prefer MMF over FFM. We are both straight and know that there is always a little same sex interaction but would like to keep it at just that, A little. I like being the center of attention with the two men, there is always enough to go around and my hubby loves watching me with another guy. In FFM, all too often it seems all the girl wants is another girl to explore her BI side and not really into the other guy unless he wants to watch. All of that is fine if you are Bi but if not your feeling let down. As for finding the single men to join that can be a challenge too. Some seem to think that we will do just any single guy around. Not True. There must be some attraction from both of us on our end and hope there is some from the other end too. Couples are good but thats not really a threesome.
I have done 5 MMF and all of them have been GREAT!! I had a year long relationship with one cpl then I had to move for work but we still keep in touch. To me it's safe to play with a cpl as I'm not looking to break them up just please the female half. I'm str8 and have never had a problem with the male half, we set the rules and stick to them. I find that being respectful to both goes a long way, however I do find I have made some great friends with the male half's. That's my two-cents worth!!!
Onefuncouple: You are defiantely not alone but part of a much smaller segment of the swinglifestyle. I am currently single but have been involved in the lifestyle with both a live in girlfriend and then my ex-wife. When I first started swinging I thought it would be erotic to have two girls at the same time and it is erotic. But I found shortly there after that I was just as turned on by having just another guy involved than a couple. I am completely straight but sharing her with another guy just was so damn erotic. However men like us are more of a minority in this lifestyle. There are still more woman than not who are lifestyle bi...... and would rather have another cock to play with than a pussy. But it is all good no doubt...
We have done the MFM thing a couple of times with a friend that moved away. We both think it has been the hottest sex we have ever had. It always seems to be a problem getting things started on line. I guess we need to club a bit more. If any couples have a suggestion on just how to make this easier or maybe even a recommendation let us know. Or maybe a couple with a male friend? I guess that would be MFMFM......WOW.
C and K
C and K
I guess for me as a single person tho i have been through all the others is i think having a bunch men and woman just taking care of me would be like WOW
We've cum to learn that MFM is one of our favorites, she really enjoys the act of pleasing two men at once. Not to mention the variations of cock: taking one between her huge titties while sucking one or fucking one with her pussy or ass and all the other combos of fucking her pussy & ass, mouth & pussy, mouth & ass and two in her pussy at once is her favorite! She loves to feel hot cum explode inside her pussy, ass, mouth and on her titties. I love all the combos, watching, participating and taking photos!
hihi... as a newly single male i am more actively seeking couples more so than single ladies.... not that the ladies arent alot of fun i just like the comfort zone involved with a couple... i feel more at ease knowing there arent going to be anny awkward times after.... and knowing there isnt going to be anny feelings of attachment and posessiveness of wanting something more.... im throwing my nuts on the chopping block again with this one (first time was 4 years ago but that was with a doctor...lol) as i say in my profile im looking for a couple as gracious host as the ex wife and I were to single males.... friendship and strong caring for a person is one thing, that is ok from friends but with couples that are secure in their relationship (as should be if you are a couple in the LS)there is a 100% guarantee that there will be no attachment. in a nut shell pleasuring a lady with another guy ROCKS!!! there are a few couples the wife and I were CLOSE with that have come foreward since the divorce and expressed their interest in me as a single male. D (formerly dsfun2day)wife has the profiles now i keep telling her she needs to get a single female one but she still cruises as US.... dont know why....
I am a single male that has never tried either but most guys would say they want fmf but I have found that I wan to be with mfm and explore all the things you may not do in a setting with just guys. I would like to try oral giving and receiving on a guy especially if she gets off seeing this. I know most guys ould never say it but they at one time or another were curious about other cocks. Besides every man should feel what women feel when stroking and sucking a cock. Even if it is just a learning tool...