We have been on here for a few years now and have found it very difficult to find a single female that is actually serious or that will at least reply to your emails, we always read profiles and try to send emails that show we are interested and actually read there profile. We are a sexy couple looking for Drug & Disease free fun! (As is everyone else, we hope....) What are we doing wrong? Also it seems like the single guys on this site just dont know how to read when it says NO SINGLE MALES we mean it! GET THE HINT.....
After reeding your post and then your profile I could see from your profile how a couple would replay to you but no matter how you want to look at it most seangles will flake out on you
Realize your looking for the holy grail just like thousands of other couples on this site..lol, best of luck to you in that endeavor, as for the single guys that cant read, We think its kind of like fishing, irregardless of your wishes, they will throw you a line just to see if you will bite, too bad theres not a "Do Not Call" list here, but you can adjust your settings to block single males from contacting you.
Yeah we know what you mean and totally agree 100% We were just wondering if there was something we might be doing wrong or if our profile is hard to understand or maybe misleading? We are up for any suggestions that might help us! Thank you for your comments
We've never had an issue finding single ladies....
Our experience is that most single ladies are in here trying to find a mate, that is why most of them are MIA when you look at the profile, they've not been here in months or weeks....
Anyway, we find that MOST people don't respond, yet, when you run into them at the club, they'll run up and try to flirt or whatever, sorry, if you don't have enough style and class to respond to an email, we wouldn't wanna play with you in a club either.
Our experience is that most single ladies are in here trying to find a mate, that is why most of them are MIA when you look at the profile, they've not been here in months or weeks....
Anyway, we find that MOST people don't respond, yet, when you run into them at the club, they'll run up and try to flirt or whatever, sorry, if you don't have enough style and class to respond to an email, we wouldn't wanna play with you in a club either.
Yeah we know what you mean about them trying to find a mate! I agree things do usually go better at a club we are going to try a few different clubs and go from there!
Yeah we totally agree that has always been the way we like too do first dates or whatever they want to call it! We have 3 kids so going out is kind of hard, we had a babysitter but then they moved! Thank you for the advice.
It seems there is no end to the Forum posts from folks complaining about one thing or another having to do with other Swingular members who do NOT live up to expectations.
And I have NO doubt that 99.9% of the complaints are justified.
But when are all the folks who are doing the complaining going to wake up and realize that 99.9% of the complaints are due to the fact that there are a LOT of "posers" on Swingular who have ZERO intention of carrying out what their profile suggests?
Far more people than we would all like to admit are swinger "wannabes" who will NEVER make the move toward actually hooking up and playing.
For them, it's a game - a fantasy - and they will NEVER commit.
They live vicariously through sights such as Swingular.
This holds true for couples as well as single males and single females.
If you're interested in someone, look at their profile - are they certified as real?
Are there any feedbacks at the lower left of their profile from folks they've played with?
If neither applies - do the math.
And lower your expectations.
And I have NO doubt that 99.9% of the complaints are justified.
But when are all the folks who are doing the complaining going to wake up and realize that 99.9% of the complaints are due to the fact that there are a LOT of "posers" on Swingular who have ZERO intention of carrying out what their profile suggests?
Far more people than we would all like to admit are swinger "wannabes" who will NEVER make the move toward actually hooking up and playing.
For them, it's a game - a fantasy - and they will NEVER commit.
They live vicariously through sights such as Swingular.
This holds true for couples as well as single males and single females.
If you're interested in someone, look at their profile - are they certified as real?
Are there any feedbacks at the lower left of their profile from folks they've played with?
If neither applies - do the math.
And lower your expectations.
As a single female I personally have had more problems with couples. The few that I have met were not great experiences. But then again they were having issues within and were using the site to try to fix and needless to say didnt work out. Also have run into a few instances where the man is trying to hookup behind spouses back or posing as a couple and so unless I can talk to both refuse to meet. So I think we all have our own issues dealing with within this site all we can do is just keep trugging along and see what happens.
CARRIERMAN:
Yes we know exactly what you are talking about and totally agreee 100%, I know it's not possible but don't we all wish we could just delete all the fake people out there! HA HA there goes over half of the site right!
1HOT_WILDCAT2:
We understand what you are saying about couples using this site to try and fix their relationship, and the male partner going off trying to cheat yeah we all know how guys think! All we can say about all that is it looks like you know how to handle that situation so no more problems for you right?
INDEP0102:
We agree we have seen alot of good profiles on this site that live in Florida! Maybe we need to move to Florida Ha Ha
Yes we know exactly what you are talking about and totally agreee 100%, I know it's not possible but don't we all wish we could just delete all the fake people out there! HA HA there goes over half of the site right!
1HOT_WILDCAT2:
We understand what you are saying about couples using this site to try and fix their relationship, and the male partner going off trying to cheat yeah we all know how guys think! All we can say about all that is it looks like you know how to handle that situation so no more problems for you right?
INDEP0102:
We agree we have seen alot of good profiles on this site that live in Florida! Maybe we need to move to Florida Ha Ha
I agree with the "let's get naked and have fun." The chemistry has to be right, that can be tested to some degree before nakedness, hence more fun if the chemistry is there.
ALITTLENAUGHTY:
We were thinking the same thing about single guys on this site! We are good with whatever the night brings or should we say takes us as long as the other woman wants something like that! We totally agree about not wasting people's time, at first when we found this site we were really excited but then their has to be all the fake people on here nothing against the site but all that is getting really old! Half the time we are worried to even send a email to someone who hasn't been certified on here!
We were thinking the same thing about single guys on this site! We are good with whatever the night brings or should we say takes us as long as the other woman wants something like that! We totally agree about not wasting people's time, at first when we found this site we were really excited but then their has to be all the fake people on here nothing against the site but all that is getting really old! Half the time we are worried to even send a email to someone who hasn't been certified on here!