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ok I just have to ask is it me or are more "so called" single men really married signing up here. I mean yes I cheated and regret it and ruined my own marriage however I vowed to never hurt anyone like that. Well while some sites promote cheating on ones mate, this site to me has always seemed classier and more for couples and etc. However, is it me or now that I am single and actually responding to a few of my emails are more married men signing up as single men. Just frustrating however since been there done that I so can spot them, also does not help telling me ur in ur mid twenties or early thirties living in orem with scotty dogs. Now come on, first of mormonville, if u dont go on a mission ur married by 20, and if ur not ur gay or challenged in someway. And do gay single men even dare live down in Utah County. Anway, I maybe blonde but even I know when u wont send a pic, say u cant talk cuz of work, school whatever oh and have scotty dogs that ur married or gay. So with that said, incase not clear what said. So is it me or more married, "single men" coming to the site and when you straight out say in ur profile no married men. What is the best way to handle it. Personally I think a good ole fashion threat works but what yall think. Or has this always been an issue but as a single woman see it more.
So let me get this straight...
1) If you live in Orem and
2) You are in your mid 20's to early 30's and/or
3) Have scotty dogs

You have to be married or gay....but can't be gay because a single gay man wouldn't dare live downtown in Utah County?

And (in mormonville) if you don't go on a mission, are gay or challenged in some way then you are married by the time you're 20?

Wow...I had better call my cousin and tell him he had better locate his wife because there is no way he is single and straight!!

***Disclaimer***
Covering my ass here I just want to say that I am in no way condoning cheating and/or lying...It is wrong and we will have nothing to do with anyone who does so...I believe in open honest communication and respect between spouses/significant others.
And people wonder why we have a strict no single male rule, albeit since Majestic is bi and we really have no use for them.(no offence to our single guy FRIENDS...lol) but hey, your gonna run across the liars and cheats in here just like everywhere else, you just have to be smart and weed em out. Its too bad theres alot of really cool single guys on here and it seems the neomaxizoomdweebies F@&k it up for the legit ones.
neomaxizoomdweebies....hahaha...LMFAO!!!! That is great!!! But yes...we agree...we have met some really super great single males...and it is too bad that a handful have given them such a bad name :( Just be aware of the flags and listen to your instincts....go with your gut...usually isn't wrong...kisses...Naugh-Ty and Lucky B
Doesn't this topic go hand in hand with the theme of couples who swear they always use protection and then we spot the pics in their profile or see them at a party going bareback?

It's not the site, it's not the lifestyle, it's more the deceptive drive of human nature. It makes it 'more exciting' and so people always have and always will do these things.

We have learned not to be surprised by anything that people do or are into at this point, lol.
PAIRPLAYERS wrote:

Doesn't this topic go hand in hand with the theme of couples who swear they always use protection and then we spot the pics in their profile or see them at a party going bareback?



maybe they're using those new trojan ecstacy condoms. according the commercials its like nothing is there. lmao
It is bad enough competing against the other truly single guys here and so unfair to add the married men into the mix saying that they are single. Hopefully the truth from the honest singles brings us some good karma!
I would think that there are some signs and flags to look for like others have stated.
It seems nowadays that many are not what they claim to be, sad.
There are some like us. We started this web site as a couple. Then one day we get on and misteriously it has been changed to single male without our permission. We have been trying to get it changed back for awhile now but with no success.

They say we have to get validated but have done that but with no response. It saying single male is ruining our chances of getting together with other couples cause they think its a male trying to cheat on his wife. thats far from the truth. I have heard that we are not the only ones that has happend to either. Anyone can help get us validated let us know or can help get it changed back. But back on the cheating, Its not right and if you have been in this long enough you can spot the fake ones. I know we can.
What if it is a lady doing the same thing?

I'm betting that's a whole other ball of wax....

We fucking get it, you don't like single males....who gives a rats ass? What does it matter if he's married or actually single? Does it make it less fun?

Get a life and quit the single malke bashing....
COWBOYCOUPLE85:
We re-verified you, its been a little while but we know your REAL....REAL HOT that is;) Hope to catch up with you two again soon, hope this helps with the verification prob.
I had to go back and double check which topic I was reading since this one turned from "Cheating Mates" to yet another single male bashing post...uugghhhh!!!

For us it doesn't make a difference...male or female...cheating is cheating and we will have no part of it!! This is something that we do for us and our relationship and we will not disrespect any marriage by taking part in the dishonesty and betrayal of a cheating mate!!

No matter what aspect of life you look at there is always liars, cheats, and fakes...As decent honest caring people we just have to sift through them to find those who are real and deserve our time and attention...And just remember...Karma is a bitch and those who deserve it will get theirs in the end (pun definitely intended there...hehehe)...Kisses...Naugh-Ty and Lucky B


P.S. Cowboycouple...just keep emailing administration to get changed back to a couple...you are validated as real and we can vouch that you are a couple also...kisses