During our time in the lifestyle the same awkward situation has presented itself more than a few times. How do the rest of you handle this when it occurs.
You and a few "friends" are in a room and everyone is butt naked and busy with someone else when some new friends arrive that maybe only know one couple in the room. How do you handle the introductions????
Bob
You and a few "friends" are in a room and everyone is butt naked and busy with someone else when some new friends arrive that maybe only know one couple in the room. How do you handle the introductions????
Bob
Stand up, and say "Hi,I'm _________ and this is ___________. Would you like to join us or watch???"
Or if they just walked in........."Seats taken.!..." LOL
Or if they just walked in........."Seats taken.!..." LOL
If you introduce yourself first, it should make them feel more welcome. Let what happens naturally take place from there.
Well of course the introduction goes without saying, but when your doing the round robbin intro do people just pause and waive or should you pull out, and go shake hands which is once again awkward when your at full mast, I am sure alot of you out there have been in this situation, have some fun and tell us how you handled it. We need to learn from each other because Dear Abby wont touch this with a ten foot stick.
Bob
Bob
Damn Abby! it would be awesome if she would address this!! No really, your the host, just take a second to welcome your friends, chances are you already know what they are looking for, so introduce them to everyone and have them join. I guess we would have them (if it was us they knew) come over to us, that way they would just "blend in" the mix from the most comfortable spot in the room for them......I would have to say that as a good host you should know who is coming and its up to them to be prompt. Its kinda bad that ethier they came late or the party started early. Keep the party to a dull roar until everyone is there....its just going to make the sexual tension stronger..we think that is a great for of foreplay.
Humor - the best medicine! For example, since you are all in the buff - my missus has nicknamed my member 'Charlie' -> "Hi, I'm Blank and this is my constant companion, Charlie yada, yada ... " - if humor doesn't break the ice, there may be a problem on the horizon.
Silent_Scorp , if we were on the recieving end of a "we like you as people but just not attracted", we would appreciate the honesty. We would have more respect for you and probably refer you to couples we think you would like in all ways. We have met most of our friends by networking.
As far as the group goes, yes it is proper for the people who know the new couple to do some sort of introduction. We have done the pointing to each person and giving the name to the new couple and every time there was the invitation to slip into the group where they want to. My point was that by acknowledging the new couple beforte they have to interrupt the people they know first, it always tends to make them feel more welcome.
As far as the group goes, yes it is proper for the people who know the new couple to do some sort of introduction. We have done the pointing to each person and giving the name to the new couple and every time there was the invitation to slip into the group where they want to. My point was that by acknowledging the new couple beforte they have to interrupt the people they know first, it always tends to make them feel more welcome.
All are good suggestions, and for us in every case the invitees were not tardy the group was just a bit ahead of schedule. So we have done the pause-intruduce-wave twice and once I extricated myself from the activities and walked over to talk. The getting up to talk was definately a bit more awkward because the center of attention seemed to keep driftng a bit south of the naval. It's all good and we were just hoping to share a bit, learn a bit, and hopefully help out some others.
Bob
Bob
Well yeah a guy can only hope, which also helps perpetuate the hard-on problem, of course then most of the time they start hitting on the other girls. LOL