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Here is a couple questions/thoughts for everyone to ponder. As we read (yes really) peoples profiles, we are trying to get to know some basics about you to see if we feel that we have enough in common to request a friendship/meeting (we don't request a friendship based on pictures....although they help). We have had alot of people request friendships, we accept only to find out after a few chats or PM's that we don't have a common connection that could have been found out in their profile if they had just added a few lines about themselfs.
We are a very busy couple, we work (because of our business') on average 70 hours a week, but we are also very serious about meeting people for the fun side of things. So In our profile we are very honest about who we are, and what we are looking for so we dont waste anyones time (nor our own) if there is no chance of meeting.
So take our profile for an example, do you take our profile as to long? rude? Just straight to the point? just right etc. Does it make you want to contact us or just pass us by because of the Long(ish) text you have to read? What do you look for in a profile? Just some random questions and thoughts...please discuss
We have wondered the very same thing. We have specifically requested no single males, but have had many requests from them, as well as requests from people we have never chatted with, let alone met. We take the request of a friendship seriously, and it means just that, we are now friends, hence we have had to at least a few conversations, and more, isn't that why we are all here?
We respect others privacy as well as our own. And for many of us our faces and more personal side is in our private album, therefore, before becoming friends and exposing that personal side, we ask that we have some idea of the couple's intention.
Your profile is great, to the point and we believe that honesty is the best policy. For those of us that are really in this to meet great couples, have many adventures and ultimately a great group of friends with benefits, we hope others read profiles as well. We are not interested in "tire kickers" and/or picture collectors either.
Good luck!
I would only argue with one thing in your profile, Redrockcouple - she doesn't have a great body she has a FANTASTIC body! :)
When viewing a profile or looking at a friend request, I look at weight, body type then age, check to see if they are real or vip, then look at pics, if thats okay then i read the profile, i however dont pay much attention here because they all seem to say pretty much the same thing and i really dont care what we have in common, if that were the case we would never hookup with anybody because i have extreme points of view on certain things,
After putting someone on our friends list i delete them if thier private pics dont show who they really are, also alot of the time thier pics show what the inside of their house looks like and show if the carpets are all stained and dirty and if there are piles of unorganized belongins everywhere and outside pics will show how well they take care of thier yard and so on dirty people get deleted also all genital pics/no face pics are good reasons to delete too, if after that iam interested ill email them asking if they want to meet, 90% of the time i get no reply, these profiles are obviously deleted too.

The problems i see with your profile is it is to long you could condense all your pionts into one or two paragraphs, also your not certified real or vip
GREAT points, PITMOMMY.
I've seen some real PIG STIES in profile pics.

I also have a real problem with people who don't seem to have anywhere else to take pics but in a motel room.
THAT is a red flag for me.

But my biggest concern is for those who post fully clothed Swingular profile pics of themselves with their kids clearly visible in the background.
What kind of BUTT HOLE would do THAT?
Speaking of red flags..What about the couples profile that only post self pics of the male..? some also have self pics of both spouse's..[just seems odd...that's all..] There are also a lot of profiles that have not been updated for years yet the person or persons are logged on..Wouldn't you want to update once in a while..?!
Back to redrocks..I think having enough info on your profile is a good thing..too much info is a hard read but can be very useful when you are specific..kudos
I read your profile, compared to ours it's really quite short but gets the point across.
(Compared to ours most are quite short)
Pitmommy has some washboard abs like the pros -- better than some or most of the female wrestlers you see on television wrestling.