Hi just wondering? why is it that we have no trouble getting friends to add us on this site and we all agree to be on each others friend list. However, no one talks or responds to emails, well a good majority of our friends on our list, when we send a request to chat in the video chat room. They are all on it shows them as being on. I just don't understand why they would agreed to be on our friend list if they aren't going to chat with us. We like to get to know our friends first through chat before we try and set things up with them kind of a security thing but, it's what works for us. Any advice about how we could improve communication between friends.
We have the same issue. Here's how we deal with it. If we don't hear from them regularly for a week or two we figure they have no interest. At this point we'll delete them from our friends list. It keeps our list small and only the serious ones are our friends. No hard feelings or issues. Most probably ever know they've been deleted anyway because they have accumulated so many online friends anyway. Get used to it it happens way more than not.
Right on ABCMAN you hit the nail on the head, alot of people are picture collectors. We all know what a male and female privte parts look like, some big some small, big lips fat lips no lips who cares. By the way can I see your private pic's. LOL...... Yes looks are important but a person's profile is also important, it tells alot about them. I give no one my private pic's until a few e-mails and a public meeting has been arranged, this weeds out the collector's.
how about those people that try to add you as a friend but never have chatted, emailed or anything with you and to top it off they live in another state! so the chances of meeting them are slim to none..
now if you have conversed with them on some level or met or are planning to meet them on say a trip then the out of state thing does not apply.
now if you have conversed with them on some level or met or are planning to meet them on say a trip then the out of state thing does not apply.
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We get about 5-6 of these "friend requests" a week on this board without any initial conversation. Many are people thousands of miles away. NONE of them apparently read profiles because our first paragraph asks people NOT to send us these things unless we have chatted FIRST.
We get them from couples and single men, they are ALL deleted.
We get about 5-6 of these "friend requests" a week on this board without any initial conversation. Many are people thousands of miles away. NONE of them apparently read profiles because our first paragraph asks people NOT to send us these things unless we have chatted FIRST.
We get them from couples and single men, they are ALL deleted.
FL4FUN wrote:
FLCPL4FUN0920
We get about 5-6 of these "friend requests" a week on this board without any initial conversation. Many are people thousands of miles away. NONE of them apparently read profiles because our first paragraph asks people NOT to send us these things unless we have chatted FIRST.
We get them from couples and single men, they are ALL deleted.
OMG, if this isn't truest statement made. People, read...everything, ya might learn something and ya might even find out that the person you are looking at isn't interested in a long distance relationship! Trust me people, I don't care how long your pecker is, it won't reach from Butte, Montana to Tampa
We get a ton as well, about one every six weeks or so, when were going out we send them all a invite to meet us at habits. IF THEY ARE A NO SHOW WE DELETE THEM.
We have a very short friends list. We only add once we have meet them. Even then with some we consider friends, if we dont see them for like six months we delete them. Of course all they need to do is make contact again come over or call and we add them back.
The easiest too delete are those with no pictures and states away. zap and they are gone...
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We have a very short friends list. We only add once we have meet them. Even then with some we consider friends, if we dont see them for like six months we delete them. Of course all they need to do is make contact again come over or call and we add them back.
The easiest too delete are those with no pictures and states away. zap and they are gone...
the simples
I've been told that if you dont log off the site and just close it you still appear to be online. It seems to be true because we get contacted saying we seen you were on and nether the wife or I was home. Damn kids may have gotten our pass word. Hope not! lol
ALL4MYPLEASURE wrote:
I've been told that if you dont log off the site and just close it you still appear to be online. It seems to be true because we get contacted saying we seen you were on and nether the wife or I was home. Damn kids may have gotten our pass word. Hope not! lol
Well if they DID get your password, it will save you from having to have that uncomfortable "Birds & Bees" conversation with them.