Okay people, I'm thinking of calling it quits on this lifestyle because I never get any responses from anyone. Maybe some of you could tell me why. I've been on this site for a little over a year now and my average response is about one every three or four months, and those pretty much say "thanks but we're not interested". Am I doing something wrong? I'm a very respectful single guy, I don't think I'm that bad looking, I usually send face pics when I find someone I'd like to meet, and I try and be respectful to those profiles that say no single men, but no one ever responds to my emails. Who would be kind enough look at my profile and be honest with me? Tell me what it is I'm doing or maybe not doing that no one finds me interesting. I sure would appreciate it.
Thanks!
Thanks!
It looks as if you have had success recently with "panteeluver", thats more then us as a couple have had in the last week, not sure what happened between you two but she gave you a good review that is all that you can ask for and hopefully people will notice what people say about you.
I would never give up the lifestyle but we have certainly taken our fair share of breaks and some have spannned where we did not play for 6 months at a time, mind you we have been in the lifestyle for over 13 years together, but you should never give it a time frame or it will let you down in the end.
Just thought I would give my 2 pennies!
Peace
Wayne & Stephanie
I would never give up the lifestyle but we have certainly taken our fair share of breaks and some have spannned where we did not play for 6 months at a time, mind you we have been in the lifestyle for over 13 years together, but you should never give it a time frame or it will let you down in the end.
Just thought I would give my 2 pennies!
Peace
Wayne & Stephanie
Your #1 problem is - you're a single male.
And so am I, so I feel qualified to offer advice/suggestions.
There are a LOT of single males in the Lifestyle who are total jerks, and they make it bad for the rest of us.
A lot of people judge ALL single males by what they've seen from the few jerks.
Establish online friendships, go to meet-and-greets and let folks learn for themselves that you're an OK guy.
No, you won't be beating offers away with a stick, but it should improve your percentages.
Always remember: "As singles, we are an ACCESSORY - not a NECESSITY"
And so am I, so I feel qualified to offer advice/suggestions.
There are a LOT of single males in the Lifestyle who are total jerks, and they make it bad for the rest of us.
A lot of people judge ALL single males by what they've seen from the few jerks.
Establish online friendships, go to meet-and-greets and let folks learn for themselves that you're an OK guy.
No, you won't be beating offers away with a stick, but it should improve your percentages.
Always remember: "As singles, we are an ACCESSORY - not a NECESSITY"
a lot of couples (us included) choose to put no single males cause we are not looking to get bombarded with emails however we are not closed to the sinle male or female idea.. we would rather meet them at a party or meet n greet and then if we choose to approach them we can after we see how they act in a casual setting.
just our 2 cents
just our 2 cents
That's probably a wise thing to do, and no one can blame you for it.
Just as an addendum to my previous post................
The vast majority of couples I've played with as a single male have NO SINGLE MALES in their profile.
It keeps the jerks at bay - but it doesn't necessarily discriminate against the rest of us.
Just as an addendum to my previous post................
The vast majority of couples I've played with as a single male have NO SINGLE MALES in their profile.
It keeps the jerks at bay - but it doesn't necessarily discriminate against the rest of us.
Yea it's called a "Flesh Watch".
Hmmm... No mail history with us, so we haven't ignored you. Whew... We try to answer all emails, even if it is a "no thank you", and I can't say after reading your profile we'd give you that answer.
Your profile looks pretty good to me. Everything is spelled correctly. Grammar is great. Sentence structure is great. You actually seem like quite a find.
One problem you could be having is that you are overwhelmed with competition. There are two single guys on this site for every couple looking for one. And most of them are just terrible candidates whether it's because they are lecherous and rude or married trying to cheat, or for many other reasons. Others are killing your chances. I know many couple who just delete anything from a single guy without even looking at their profile for those very reasons.
If you are all that though, don't give up because you will succeed.
Your profile looks pretty good to me. Everything is spelled correctly. Grammar is great. Sentence structure is great. You actually seem like quite a find.
One problem you could be having is that you are overwhelmed with competition. There are two single guys on this site for every couple looking for one. And most of them are just terrible candidates whether it's because they are lecherous and rude or married trying to cheat, or for many other reasons. Others are killing your chances. I know many couple who just delete anything from a single guy without even looking at their profile for those very reasons.
If you are all that though, don't give up because you will succeed.
Hey thanks everyone for all your comments and emails. I will take the advice I've gotten and thank you for the compliments! Its great that so many of you guys care out there and are willing to take your time to respond. Thanks so much!!!
Oh, and I don't really want a gold watch...but a gold condom would be awesome!
Oh, and I don't really want a gold watch...but a gold condom would be awesome!