We recently met a couple from Arnold Missouri and got with them a few times and had a great time and thought we had made some new lifetime friend's . We even set them up with a lifetime membership on a website, And had bought her something for her birthday .Even offered to go there and see them ? Well anyway we invited them to a club party here and went out of our way to make them feel Welcome into our home. We even offered when they come up for the party they could stay at our home . before and after the party unless they found anouther couple to hang out with afterword's ? They where supposed to come by our house that friday and stay the night for the party on Saturday. Well that never happened then they said they would come early before the party had started and guess what ? no show ! So we headed out for the party and we called them to find out if they where comming ? they said they called our home but we had already left ? but would meet us somewhere we suggested a gas station that was easy to find right off the interstate ,when we got there they where sitting there so we told them to follow us to the lifestyle party and so they did . when we arrived we checked in to a room at the hotel and they followed suit and got them a room. after getting there room he told her that he had no money to get into the party which was $30.00 a couple he said he would have to run to a ATM machine and draw out more money. Well being conciderate we offered to pay there way in and they could pay us back the follwing day! Well we kinda of went our own way's that night and they had no new experiences and we did so we where up late that next morning , then went on to bed in our room ! When we had woke up and went to there room they had already checked out ? So she called them on there Cell phone and he told us he had forgot and was sorry that he would get a money order in the mail to us right then . We said that was fine ! Well it has been like three week's now and when we tried to yahoo chat with them about it they say they dont need the drama ? we said what drama ? fact is you owe us $30.00 . Well needless to say we are pretty sure we'll never see that money again and have to chaulk it up to a learning experiance . but also have to wonder how many people they may have pulled this on ?and maybe by reading this you will learn from it as well ? Just Wanted to say thank you to the couple from Arnold Missouri !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Its ashame people have to be so shallow you held out your hand helped out the cpl and thats how they treated you?
We recently attempted to get a few cpls together to go on a snowski/swing trip to Gatlinburg Tn. we had 12 people who said they were CONFIRMED to attend so we took the money out of our pockets rented a cabin for 13 people (we could have gotten away with one for 4!) the only person out of the confirmed 12 that showed up was one single guy who turned out to be a very nice gentalman and he gave us $ 120.00 plus paid for our breakfast plus when we showed up at the meeting place this gentalman had a banner made that said "southernskibums" (the name of our ski/swing group) so anyone out there that wants to slam the single guys READ what we just said the ONLY person who was TRUE to the word was a SINGLE GENTALMAN ! The cost of the cabin was $494.00!
We did manage to find 3 lifestyle cpls at the last minute to at least make the weekend enjoyable but they did not stay in the cabin two just came played and left one did donate $20.00 and one cpl just came and watched! We had told everyone if you come and party with us we asked for a $20.00 donation well one out of the 3 donated.
If, it wasn't for the single guyand the one cpl who donated we would have paid the entire amount ourselves!
The weekend turned out to be very enjoyable we met some nice people even actually got to snow ski on Sat and Sun and had 3 wild sex filled days in a cabin 4 times the size that we needed lol. Glad you only lost $30.00 and not more but we still feel for ya as its not only the money its the fact that your so called friends treated you that poorly.
Norm&Sharon
We recently attempted to get a few cpls together to go on a snowski/swing trip to Gatlinburg Tn. we had 12 people who said they were CONFIRMED to attend so we took the money out of our pockets rented a cabin for 13 people (we could have gotten away with one for 4!) the only person out of the confirmed 12 that showed up was one single guy who turned out to be a very nice gentalman and he gave us $ 120.00 plus paid for our breakfast plus when we showed up at the meeting place this gentalman had a banner made that said "southernskibums" (the name of our ski/swing group) so anyone out there that wants to slam the single guys READ what we just said the ONLY person who was TRUE to the word was a SINGLE GENTALMAN ! The cost of the cabin was $494.00!
We did manage to find 3 lifestyle cpls at the last minute to at least make the weekend enjoyable but they did not stay in the cabin two just came played and left one did donate $20.00 and one cpl just came and watched! We had told everyone if you come and party with us we asked for a $20.00 donation well one out of the 3 donated.
If, it wasn't for the single guyand the one cpl who donated we would have paid the entire amount ourselves!
The weekend turned out to be very enjoyable we met some nice people even actually got to snow ski on Sat and Sun and had 3 wild sex filled days in a cabin 4 times the size that we needed lol. Glad you only lost $30.00 and not more but we still feel for ya as its not only the money its the fact that your so called friends treated you that poorly.
Norm&Sharon
Honestly it's not the cost ? We figure $30.00 wont make or break us . But the principle's behind the deception ? and the lose was not that of our money but the trust of a so called friend . Tend's to make people a little gun shy for the next real friend's that we may encounter ? Of coarse we know in our heart's that it may or may not ever happen again and that true friend's wouldn't have done such a thing to start with and they aren't the same people that did this and should be givin the same respect we give them and other's ! but anyway's Thank You for your reply, and maybe we can help someone they get with in the future by writting this artical and hope they figure them out before it happen's to them but we dought it as shady people tend to get away with thing's like that quit often ? but Thank You !
Love Alway's: Ken & Michelle !
Love Alway's: Ken & Michelle !
Just because people are in the lifestyle it doesn't make them any different when it comes to being plain down right rude and to us what they pulled was very rude. Don't let one cpl prevent you from meeting others yes its a sad fact that there are those types out there just chalk it up as a life learning experience and move on. Hell we had one cpl meet with us before hand they wanted to do everything you should have read the chats with them we met and played then after the wife of the other cpl had cum many many times from me doing oral on her she said she needed a break then as my wife was sucking the other guy off he jumps up and rushes into the bathroom then he comes back out and says "I'm sorry we just can't do this your welcome to use the room we will stay in the bathroom" needless to say we were a bit upset my wife say hell lets use the room I said "no lets split" we laughed all the way home next day the gal sends us a IM explaning that her husband just couldn't take watching her being so pleasured felt "he wasn't doing his job correctly" LOL. It was after this encounter we decided NOT to take this lifestyle so serious and we now laugh at things that would really piss off anyone else as we came to learn if your going to remain in this lifestyle you have to take the good with the bad and so far at least for us the good definitely outweigh the bad. Sorry for the long reply but we just wanted to say we feel for ya but your better off doing like us and just learn to say "NEXT" LOL. Good luck and if ya ever cum towards the Pensacola area of Florida let us know we would love to meet you and we have no problem splitting the room cost as we cannot entertain at home.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
Thank You Norm & Sharon ! We think everything should be just fine and thank's for your word's of encouragment we just figure this couple had no Scruples or Honor but unlike them we have sense found several great couples that are great as you two are i guess that people that are in this lifestyle dont realize that when they do something to one person that's wrong it spread's from coast to coast huh ? LOL ! You are a great couple and sense then we have found out there are several couples here that are great people too ! hoping we can get to Pen. Florida to see you all this summer and Thank You for Everything ! and wish all the best too !
Love Alway's: Ken & Michelle !
Love Alway's: Ken & Michelle !