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There is hope for THIS single male! Meet Sam or "firehunglow"-- look him up! :)

There is always so much single male bashing on this site, I thought I would let you all know that there ARE some really fantastic single males out there!

Take a look at this pic...I would say that both myself and Mrs. Silent_scorp are completely satisfied with this male! Wouldn't you?

Single males...play your cards right and this could be you! Honestly ladies and couples that look for nice, respectful, courteous, FUN and most of all...happy endings, this is one guy you should check out!

BTW...both hubbys were present and accounted for during this encounter...they were busy DPing another chick! LOL

Mrs. Hottie and Mrs. Silent_scorp

P.S. Sam...I want 10% of your action!!! HAHA
Love ya!
It is so nice to see good things happening for the good single males. There are so many bad seeds out there and so much single male bashing that it gets really old...and I am not even a single male (I am a married female...lol). We know a few good single males and they are great guys. I am honored to say we are friends with some single males....you know who you are.....Thank you guys.....kisses

P.S. That photo makes me wish I was a single male....hehe....kisses
Well, believe me when I tell you being one of the "Good Guys" is hard when you keep getting bashed all the time in the media print so to speak. I have met some very nice couples and I am very polite. So, if anyone would like to entertain a nice guy for some wonderful encounters, drop me a line and lets have some fun...Maverick
oh, so you found one good one out of that whole stack? hehe just kidding guys :P
As a single male who is NOT one of the typical jerks, I'd like to thank you for a long overdue and positive post.

Open minded folks like you are what makes the Lifestyle so much fun.
In the past two months, we have met two nice single males. We introduced both to a few of our single lady friends so now all of them can go to events as a couple rather then a single. So far it is working out great for everyone.
Well all I can is thanks for the comments. I have been single for 9 years now and although I have a live in girlfriend I do post as a single male. she also has a post and as a single female.

It is really interisting how many each of us get for invitations sent out and mail sent and even opened or replied to we each play together and have played alone. but we felt that as singles you should be honest.

We have our duplicate friends and our own. So to the ones who make plans and don't show, shame shame shame and this happens with single females and couples as much as single males. don't always stray because it says single.

I/ we have never missed a meet without call well in advance so that the others had an oppertunity to make other meets. and I have made it up to each and every one with a meet to show that we as singles or couples are not all fake.
Just because some say they are a couple or single female dosen't really meen that it is true.

happy hunting to all and if anyone m/f/couple/ ff /mmf /ffm /etc. want to meet or chat . drop me/ us a line or invite me as a friend

Terry
HOTTIE-N-NAUGHTY - I'm one of those guys - throw a guy a bone ova here. . .hehehe =)
Nothing wrong with single men. They just have no rights and they can't expect or complain about not getting equal treatment. It is the complainers that make trouble for the rest.
Wow I never expected to see that written about single guys! Thanks for the plug! Its nice that someone feels that way about us. Guys just remember to keep up that respectful behavior so people don't have any reasons to look elsewhere. I've always considered myself very a respectful single guy and would just love the chance to prove it. I hope that sometime I get a plug like that written about me haha. Way to earn the respect firehunglow!
Very interesting post. Of the three sites I use alternatively this is the only one where so much content is so disrespectful or unappreciative. I think it has allot to do with the horrible navigability of the site for a single man, causing the less "net worthy" to contact couples who do not have interest in playing with males. It's nice to see something positive for a change. I can tell you that if you had a disappointing experience with a single man, it may have to do with your pre-play judgement? I know that I've been just OK for some couples and GREAT for others. The issue works both ways but we don't bash couples overall when the last one wasn't great ;-)
Let's be honest.. most women on here are looking for the single guy who is the underwear model fantasy looking.. unfortunately they are missing out on some of the real gem singles on here like some of the ones I have met.. Frankly if I guy shows in his profile photo his body, abs, dick, etc and not his face, my experience has been he's more into himself than the experience. I've had much more fun with guys who are like my hub.. a little thicker, not a full head of hair. Nothing against you fellow ladies who want joe six-pack.. I'll take joe average any day because 99% of the time, he's a hell of a lot nicer and alot better in bed. You may say I'm generalizing, but in our experiences here, the guys who get passed over by others have been much more fun than the guys whom, it seems, most women want first on here.. just my 2 cents..

Bren
Ok keeping the positive side of the hot single males here (my list of bad ones would be too long and thats not what this post is for anyways)....I have a couple categories...

A) Have met and can personally vouch for how wonderful, respectful, kind, funny and a blast to be around guys...
Whynotsayhi
Hungharleyman


B) Have not met but talked to so much it feels like we have met and are wonderful guys and would not hesitate meeting them...
Onehotfirefighter
Carrierman
Andyman
Utahstormie
Slowhand


C) Have not met but would like to get to know a little more before we did but seem like probably good guys.....
JesseJames
Trujiller09

If I left any of the good guys I know out I apologize.....Kisses....Mrs. Morgan
im a kind nice single male that knows his place its just that i have a hard time meeting people even at the meet and greets i have been to a few yet ill bet no one remembers me. koi
Ok, so here is a couple things we look for when deciding if we are going to aprove a single male friendship request or spend the time getting to know you....I know it is different for every couple or female but

1)Must have pics in public album...we understand discretion so they don't HAVE to be a face shot though it is nice...and please...if they are naked pics...try and make it tasteful, not just a pic of your hard on

2)READ THE PROFILE....if it says NO SINGLE MALES...then sorry...don't send friendship request...unless we have chatted in the chat room and you politely ask if you may send us a friendship request...which brings us to #3

3)Take the time to talk to us in the chat room. Be polite....have a CONVERSATION with us...dont just say show us your tits! Talk to both of us, alot of times it is the hubby on during the day since construction is slow right now. I don't usually initiate conversations with single males but sometimes D will tell me "hey I have talked to this guy quite a bit and he seems like he's pretty cool. Then I will start talking to you, if you have taken the time to show my hubby the respect of getting to know him then there is a good chance you can get to know me.

4)Be honest...don't list your profile as a couple and it's just you...if there is a reason like you have broken up or something, let us know in your profile.

5)We don't always care how big your dick is or what you can do with your tongue. It is all about respect, honesty and being a real person, not just someone trying to get down our pants.

6)Please remember that you are an accessory. I am not saying this to be mean or rude but as a female I have my soul mate/lifetime lover/forever partner in my husband. If I chose to let a single male into our "relationship" it is to be my "toy", to give me something that I may not have or something different, to fullfill a fantasy. It should be considered an honor to be let into our bedroom so treat me/us that way.

I know this sounds like a set of rules, etc. but sometimes it gets frustrating for us females just as it does for the single males. Sometimes we want to have a single male for that once in a while encounter but if we advertise that then we are bombarded with all the jerks among the few good ones. I know that it is frustrating for D too when the typical jerk disrespects me/us because D doesn't disprespect me why should he let anyone else and then let him f*ck me...don't think so.

Basically it boils down to if you treat a couple like it is an honor to even be considered to be let into their relationship/bedroom and not like your just there to get your rocks off then the reward will be well worth the effort to get there...there is nothing like the passion of a married, uninhibited, confident, experienced, comfortable, sexual married woman!

I hope I'm not just rambling or sounding like a conceeded jerk, I just wanted to give a few tips from "my" point of view that may help those single guys not be looked upon as "the single male" and maybe more of them can enjoy the pleasure of being with a couple.

Kisses to all
Mrs. Morgan

P.S. Sorry it's so long :-)
there you go simple and easy thumbs up
Damn FireHungLow, you can't buy publicity like this! Good deal...

Mav
How nice it is t see a post actually promoting a single guy no mater who. He's one who obviously has done things right and hope it gives him a boost.

Mrs.Morgan, Wow I'm honored. I would never have guessed. As the single guy I have no way of knowing there's interest unless someone expresses it to me and I'm not bulk mailing every couple to see if they would be. Give me a green light and you'll get 100% but I need the green light. So to those couples that do like the occassional guy, don't be afraid to write them and say you would like to know more about them. You'll know in just a couple exchanges wheather you'd want to go further. The good ones understand what paitence and repect mean.

Just remember,it's about the fun. So what ever your looking for, find it, and enjoy it and let go the judgments ya know?
Damn I wish we had some cool single males down here they all act cool and respectful to me but I work out of town alot and as soon as they hear I am gone they tell my wife how easy it would be for her to cheat and tell her "oh dont worry he would never find out" or " come on over my brother and I can tag team you while your husband is out of town" .
OH COME ON MAN YOUR BROTHER REALLY SICK F#@%$
but anyways thank you to all of the real respectful single males
N&J
And the search still continues on the Guf coast
LMAO eagertoo
We have found the few single males that are nice and then we have found the few single males that act their shoe size. We are still looking for that one single male that would like to have a long term relationship with the wife.
Ok, see this last post just goes to show how different of something each and every one of us is looking for. They are looking for a single male to have a long term relationship with the wife, others are looking for friends with benefits and yet others want a "toy" as I earlier put it. But that is the best part of being in this lifestyle is the diversity of opinions and desires. Some more rare than others.

I guess it all boils down to respect of others no matter what your gender or seeking status is if you are respectful to others you shall recieve the same respect in return....The old golden rule "do onto others as you have others do unto you".....I guess here that has more than one meaning.......;)
Mrs. Morgan,

I see nothing wrong with your post. In fact it gives us single guys a good guideline to follow. It pretty much follows the lines I try to follow in every contact I make. Hopefully I can have a chance to catch you in the chat room.
Goldenhandz77

Hello (again...hehe)and thank you . ;)

I have hope for every single male. Not only that they get whatever experience it is that they are looking for but that everyone have a chance to find what so few of us have and that is true love with someone as understanding and perfect as Mr. Morgan...oh and peace on earth....lol

This lifestyle can be so confusing at times but all we have to remember is why we are here and that is to bring pleasure to those we love most....that is why we are here anyway. Happy searching to all whether you be a couple, single male or single female...

Kisses