Have you ever noticed how there are about five couples (people) on here who are always bashing everyone else? If they don't like you (even if they have never met you, or been to a party at your house) they start a hate campaign? What is it with that? I come here and look every once in a while to see if things have changed, obviously they have not. It
I think swingular should change its name to "Single guys piss off"
You're all prejudged anyway!!!
You're all prejudged anyway!!!
I agree with you, this is the pot calling the kettle black. I just haven't been here forever and like others here I'm tired of the same shit different day. The same people who tell you not to post "air brushed and old pics" are the same one who have them. The same people asking for more "nice-ness" aren
have you ever heard that charity starts at home? let me explain so there is no "mis understanding" about what I am saying.
if you want people to be nice you should be the nicest!
if you want people to respect you- respect them first!
if you are looking for something show it by example!
and don't be even uglier than the accused!
and remember your opinion isnt law.
just my two cents
jeremy!
if you want people to be nice you should be the nicest!
if you want people to respect you- respect them first!
if you are looking for something show it by example!
and don't be even uglier than the accused!
and remember your opinion isnt law.
just my two cents
jeremy!
I don't actually hate swingular...I actually love the site! But does everyone have to prejudge the single guys? Not all of us are the jerks. I'm one of the most respectful guys I know and would never want to offend anyone. If your flat out not interested in single guys thats one thing, but some people are really quite rude to the single guys they've never even met, or given a chance to! Its hard enough as it is for us with out getting hammered on by the rude ones. All I'm asking is that people be a little more courteous.
We just wanted to throw our two cents into this and say that it's unfortunate that there are those people out there and we are doing our best to remove whatever posts we find that are in violation of policies. However, we don't read everything and we don't police the forums so we rely on our members to report any issues.
Also, we try as much as possible not to censor postings and let people express themselves as much as possible. Take this topic for example, most other sites would have removed it by now because it negatively reflects on us. But we haven't because we like to see these types of discussions, it can bring out the best or worse in you and I think that those that talk the trash only condemn themselves.
Like others have previously said, don't fight fire with fire. Let it burn itself out. And those who started the fire will only make themselves look bad. No need to become what you so adamantly dislike.
So just remember, if you come across something that is absolutely uncalled for or is completely off-topic, let us know and we will look into it. If it's just a heated battle or debate, we may not do anything. Otherwise, we'll most likely delete it.
But we're definitely keeping the name.... Swingular.
Also, we try as much as possible not to censor postings and let people express themselves as much as possible. Take this topic for example, most other sites would have removed it by now because it negatively reflects on us. But we haven't because we like to see these types of discussions, it can bring out the best or worse in you and I think that those that talk the trash only condemn themselves.
Like others have previously said, don't fight fire with fire. Let it burn itself out. And those who started the fire will only make themselves look bad. No need to become what you so adamantly dislike.
So just remember, if you come across something that is absolutely uncalled for or is completely off-topic, let us know and we will look into it. If it's just a heated battle or debate, we may not do anything. Otherwise, we'll most likely delete it.
But we're definitely keeping the name.... Swingular.
Oh, and for the Single Male... same goes for you... the SM topic comes up time and time again. Just remember, you are always going to run into those that despise Single Men and those that love them, but those that don't are more vocal. Again, just ignore them and do your thing. Or they win.
Trust us, we have learned, you can't please everyone and you never will. So you please those who want to be pleased and just put up with the rest.
Trust us, we have learned, you can't please everyone and you never will. So you please those who want to be pleased and just put up with the rest.
"I think swingular should change its name to "Single guys piss off"
You're all prejudged anyway!!! "
Sorry, Oral Times. Knowing what you want is not the same as being prejudice. Your post is made of fail.
You're all prejudged anyway!!! "
Sorry, Oral Times. Knowing what you want is not the same as being prejudice. Your post is made of fail.
Have to agree with POSSIBLECRAZY, it's definitely ironic.
Very well put Jeremy, If you don't like what is being said....pass it by. If you don't like the so called "haters" on this site.....Don't talk to them. Each of us has our own right to our opinions, even if it is mean and cruel what some say.
So, I would just do what most of us do.......go on about your life and let those people be who they are! Why worry or complain about someone else? Is it really worth it?
So, I would just do what most of us do.......go on about your life and let those people be who they are! Why worry or complain about someone else? Is it really worth it?
perfectly put riderz
We have seen some of the more negative posts. We have also made the mistake of stating our position on a subject and had some folks come down on us. It is nice to see that most of the folks on Swingular take exception to that behavior.
As for single guys ......... Right time, right place, from time to time ........ we enjoy the company of a polite single male. Unless they whine about being a single male on a swingers site designed primarily for couples.
It is simply a social expression of an economic law -- Supply and Demand. Within swinging the supply of single males far exceeds the demand. Thus their value within the world of swinging is greatly deminished.
It is not my intention to demean any single male as an individual. As individuals each has their own worth. It is just that we are in the "business" of swinging here and business is business.
As for single guys ......... Right time, right place, from time to time ........ we enjoy the company of a polite single male. Unless they whine about being a single male on a swingers site designed primarily for couples.
It is simply a social expression of an economic law -- Supply and Demand. Within swinging the supply of single males far exceeds the demand. Thus their value within the world of swinging is greatly deminished.
It is not my intention to demean any single male as an individual. As individuals each has their own worth. It is just that we are in the "business" of swinging here and business is business.
We've been bashed and beat up on when we've posted our views on a certain subject many times. And it has kept us from contributing any further comments.
Let me explain something - when we post a comment it's not hate mail or bashing someone or something - it's our opinion on the subject. When we posted the comment on single males and how one aspect of the lifestyle is "exchanging partners" (ie - COUPLES only) we got so beat up on we just stopped coming here. It was just our opinion and WOW did we get bruised.
Again people - we do have the right to express an opinion that didn't verbally attack any individual or group. Keep it above the belt.
Let me explain something - when we post a comment it's not hate mail or bashing someone or something - it's our opinion on the subject. When we posted the comment on single males and how one aspect of the lifestyle is "exchanging partners" (ie - COUPLES only) we got so beat up on we just stopped coming here. It was just our opinion and WOW did we get bruised.
Again people - we do have the right to express an opinion that didn't verbally attack any individual or group. Keep it above the belt.
The bashing on the forums is because the forums are lightly or not at all moderated. This is a reason I very seldom post here, it's just not worth the drama. However, every once in a while a clear voice of reason comes through, and everyone knows who those voices are.
The good thing about the bashing is it publicly shows which people to stay away from without wasting money on dinner and/or a club to meet them.
The good thing about the bashing is it publicly shows which people to stay away from without wasting money on dinner and/or a club to meet them.
I would like to echo Caress' comment. Reading the forum must be quite similar to what panning for gold was like. A lot of sifting for a few good nuggets. There is just enough content to keep me periodically engaged. Truth is though, I like to write or I probably wouldn't bother. 
G'day!
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G'day!D
Cool! Is that how we can all get our political opinions on the front page?
To the single men. You touched on something that always pisses me off. Swinging is about sharing. Since you have nothing to share you have no rights. Single men are not swingers and not part of the LS. Just like the toys in the draw you come out when you are called for. Otherwise keep quiet. You are just looking for a little free pussy to be blunt. You are to cheap to pay for it.
Just to be clear we have played with single men.
Just to be clear we have played with single men.
I do not think it is the opinions that she is complaining about. I think it might be the name calling.
"Swingers" is defined as a form of recreational social and sexual intercourse between consenting adults. Swingers commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting with other male/female couples for sex and ongoing intimate.
I'm sure no matter where you look on the internet - you'll find whatever definition you want. Again - it's our opinion you can't be single and in the lifestyle.
I'm sure no matter where you look on the internet - you'll find whatever definition you want. Again - it's our opinion you can't be single and in the lifestyle.