we live in a small town and no one seems to put a pic on their profile, we look at it this way, if you are a trial member or courious, u can only see the first pic, but if you are really wanting to get into it you will get a membership and see what is available. You should not worry about showing a pic because these ones viewing it would also be swingers. Does this not make sense?????
Todd and Renee'
Todd and Renee'
Beth and I do not even look at profiles that don't have pictures.
If someone sends an e-mail and they don't have a photo, she will delete
it without even reading it. I'll read it and respond that we don't do blind dates
and no I don't want to jump through hoops to recieve some old pics you may have.
Clay & Beth
If someone sends an e-mail and they don't have a photo, she will delete
it without even reading it. I'll read it and respond that we don't do blind dates
and no I don't want to jump through hoops to recieve some old pics you may have.
Clay & Beth
That\'s a shame. I have pictures posted, but they are in my private folder. This way I can (to a degree) manage who has access. My employement is in a field where if the wrong person ever found out I could lose my job. Richmond being a small city like it is; word of mouth and my lifestyle would never be a secret again. I\'m sure there are lots of other people that feel the same way. Heck just look at the lastest episode of Nip/Tuck where someone making a point informed a commanding officer of a bisexual within their ranks.
I use to have a private webpage meaning it was hidden so you could not find it by chance. I posted the link in a few lifestyle clubs and yes someone at my work did find out. Luckly they were just giving an FYI and warning me that a few other non-swingers knew that worked in my office. The person did not include their name so they also were afraid of fall out. Luckly nothing came of it, but I do consider myself lucky and have been more careful since.
It would be nice if none of us had anything to hide from, but sadly it\'s not the world we live in.
I use to have a private webpage meaning it was hidden so you could not find it by chance. I posted the link in a few lifestyle clubs and yes someone at my work did find out. Luckly they were just giving an FYI and warning me that a few other non-swingers knew that worked in my office. The person did not include their name so they also were afraid of fall out. Luckly nothing came of it, but I do consider myself lucky and have been more careful since.
It would be nice if none of us had anything to hide from, but sadly it\'s not the world we live in.
Try living in a small Utah town. YOu really have to be careful, so there are no face pics on our public profile, but we did put them on our private album. That way we feel a degree of safety against browsers.
we think crescent city could be smaller than zephyrhills lol
we used to have our pic for public view till someone at her work stumbled on it and luckly they were a friend other wise it would have been trouble
so we understand the need to regulate who see,s our pic
we will answer emails and ask if they have pic
we feel it is polite to answer all emails
but that is just our opinion
we used to have our pic for public view till someone at her work stumbled on it and luckly they were a friend other wise it would have been trouble
so we understand the need to regulate who see,s our pic
we will answer emails and ask if they have pic
we feel it is polite to answer all emails
but that is just our opinion
We are also in a small NC town. Not sure where Dobson is, but if it\'s anything like here, you\'ve got to drive to a city to even find a good bar for a night out!
Agree that pictures are good!
Agree that pictures are good!
We are in Welcome NC (listed as Lexington ) and it is a very small town. We putour pics up and if anyone sees them and gets rude we just ask why they were on the site if they are not interested, and we know where Dobson is, pass it on the way to Cana, another small town where we have friends that we play with. BTW nice pics luv2fuk
To a degree I understand your point, but at the same time Brenda and I ran into a situation where we went to our favorite club and ran into a guy we she knew from work. It was very awkward for her when we met him back at her job (she\'s a nurse), but he was cool with it none the less. Thank goodness he was, but what about someone else who just have a vendetta towards her (and trust me there are some spiteful bitches at her job)?
We agreed if any pictures of us we won\'t show our faces until we are very comfortable with the other couple or single woman. I\'d say we have to at least met you once before we would even let our regular photo pic is up.
I don\'t know if Dayton, Ohio is considered a small town, but a medium size city may be a better way to describe it. It is also one of the horniest places in Ohio. At one time we had four swing clubs here in town; we have one of the best gentlemen\'s club in the country (Diamonds); and we\'re just miles away from a Hustler\'s Hollywood. We may be small in stature, but they do party like big city folks.
Ed
(EdNBrenda0)
We agreed if any pictures of us we won\'t show our faces until we are very comfortable with the other couple or single woman. I\'d say we have to at least met you once before we would even let our regular photo pic is up.
I don\'t know if Dayton, Ohio is considered a small town, but a medium size city may be a better way to describe it. It is also one of the horniest places in Ohio. At one time we had four swing clubs here in town; we have one of the best gentlemen\'s club in the country (Diamonds); and we\'re just miles away from a Hustler\'s Hollywood. We may be small in stature, but they do party like big city folks.
Ed
(EdNBrenda0)
We live in a small town in Texas. We have (according to the profiles on several swing sites)
about 35 swinging couples within 20 miles of us.
We are business owners in our town and have somewhat clear face shots on our profile.
None of the other couples have pics at all.
Since putting our face pics up our business has had an increase in the past 2 years .
Our biggest problem is we send emails to those couple that are nearby and never get a response. Heck our next door neighbor has parties about once a month and we are sure they are swingers but we are never invited.
We understand about people losing their jobs in some cases, but heck WE live in the middle of the \"BIBLE BELT in Texas.\"
We have a commissioner that lives about 2 miles away that is trying to shut down the G-RATED strip clubs in our county. (Stripping down to panties and pasties) and he fights stores that have EASYRIDER magazine on their shelves.
The most hilarious thing is he is one of our customers and comes to our annual customer BBQ\'s........lmao
about 35 swinging couples within 20 miles of us.
We are business owners in our town and have somewhat clear face shots on our profile.
None of the other couples have pics at all.
Since putting our face pics up our business has had an increase in the past 2 years .
Our biggest problem is we send emails to those couple that are nearby and never get a response. Heck our next door neighbor has parties about once a month and we are sure they are swingers but we are never invited.
We understand about people losing their jobs in some cases, but heck WE live in the middle of the \"BIBLE BELT in Texas.\"
We have a commissioner that lives about 2 miles away that is trying to shut down the G-RATED strip clubs in our county. (Stripping down to panties and pasties) and he fights stores that have EASYRIDER magazine on their shelves.
The most hilarious thing is he is one of our customers and comes to our annual customer BBQ\'s........lmao