Hi there.
Here is a topic that I haven't seen addressed yet, and I thought it would be interesting to get some comments about it.
Personally, Aliya loves to deep throat, and over time has developed her ability to do so, but it was something that did take some time and a lot of practice. Some people talk about "being a natural" and find that the ability to control their gag reflex is something that they can naturally do. Such was not the case for her. For us, one day, we were watching a video where the woman took the guy "all the way down". I said wow! So she said, would you like it if I did that to you??? (Is this a trick question???)
So, she tried. and at first, she found that she did have quite a bit of a gag reflex, but in time, she found that she could go deeper and deeper, and that the gag reflex soon subsided quite a bit, and it got easier and easier to do But it was primarily her sheer determination to learn how to do this, as well as lots of practice (big grin) that enabled her to be able to do it.
I recognize that there are some men who might find this of interest as well as far as the ability to give great head to another male partner, but for purposes of this posting, I started out trying to make this post gender nuetral, but found it easiest just to write it in the context of a woman giving the oral pleasure to her man. So please don't feel that I am being biased at all. These techniques undoubtedly would work equally well for either sex, regardless of your specific orientation.
The rewards? Well, obviously, the man is going to enjoy it. I have found that when the tip of my cock reaches the tight channel at the back of her throat, it really feels amazing.
But what about for the woman who is performing the deep throat? She can take pride in knowing that she has now joined an elite group of women who can do something that many women cannot. She has the satisfaction of knowing that she is among the "best of the best" when it comes to orally pleasuring her partner, and she has added a new method to her bag of tricks.
Here are a couple of things that we have found that do seem to help.
First and foremost, attitude is of key importance. This must be a skill that the woman wants to learn. The male partner should never force her to do it just because he wants her to. If one really wants to learn this technique, below are some tips that may help. If she does not want to, the couple should maybe just move on to the next topic. I believe that any woman/person that truly wants to master this technique really can.
Next, there is a product called "Mr. Goodhead" that comes in a green tube. It is mint flavored. Something in it does seem to desensitize the back of the throat and helps with the gag reflex. It also tingles on the penis, and helps to both stimulate and desensitize the penis. (I know that doesn't make sense, just try it, and you will understand what I am talking about!) One thing though, VERY IMPORTANT. There may be something in the Goodhead, maybe the oil of spearmint or peppermint which might break down a condom, (I need to verify this), so it might not be a good idea to use the good head if you plan to be using a condom.
When learning this technique, one should be comfortable with breathing through the nose.
Another technique, is to have the woman loosely wrap her four fingers around the mans penis so that the little pinky finger is touching the base of his shaft. Have the woman put the mans penis in her mouth and see if she can touch her top first finger with her lips. If she can, have her hold her fingers more tightly together (in terms of their relative position to each other, not in terms of how tightly she is grasping the penis) That will increase the depth by about one half of a fingers depth. If she can touch the top first finger with her lips, then she should move her small (pinky) finger away from the base of the shaft, so that her third (ring) finger is now touching the base of the shaft, and loosely place the first three fingers around the shaft. This will increase the depth by about another half a finger. Repeat this process, removing fingers until the woman feels that she has gone about as deep as she can without gagging. and if you do gag, No big deal! (It actually feels great for the guy, because the throat tightens momentarily), so just accept it as part of the process. It will get easier! She can then use her relative finger positions as a gauge to mark her progress and she can start at that point when the couple has their next "training session". When she is able to go that deep without gagging, she can then either place her fingers closer together, or remove one more finger, until finally there is only one finger around the base of the shaft, and then eventually none. The first time that a woman goes "all the way down" will be a thrilling one for both. The man will definitely enjoy the view of his woman taking him in completely, and it will feel amazing for him. and for the woman, there will be a rush from having accomplished something difficult.
Another technique is to have the woman take the man into her mouth completely when he is flaccid and try and keep as much of him in their mouth as they can as he grows and engorges. Breathe through the nose. Some women have been amazed to find that the gradual growing in their mouth is not such a shock to their throat, and when they pull him out, their male partner is almost completely erect.
Some women say that when they start to feel a gag coming on, swallowing helps. Others find that gulping or relaxing their throat helps.
What are some of your experiences with "Deep Throat"?? Are there any other women out there that enjoy it??? Let's hear your experiences, and comments...
Are there any questions???
I hope that this helps!
Take care,
GREAT_SLC_CPL
Here is a topic that I haven't seen addressed yet, and I thought it would be interesting to get some comments about it.
Personally, Aliya loves to deep throat, and over time has developed her ability to do so, but it was something that did take some time and a lot of practice. Some people talk about "being a natural" and find that the ability to control their gag reflex is something that they can naturally do. Such was not the case for her. For us, one day, we were watching a video where the woman took the guy "all the way down". I said wow! So she said, would you like it if I did that to you??? (Is this a trick question???)
So, she tried. and at first, she found that she did have quite a bit of a gag reflex, but in time, she found that she could go deeper and deeper, and that the gag reflex soon subsided quite a bit, and it got easier and easier to do But it was primarily her sheer determination to learn how to do this, as well as lots of practice (big grin) that enabled her to be able to do it. I recognize that there are some men who might find this of interest as well as far as the ability to give great head to another male partner, but for purposes of this posting, I started out trying to make this post gender nuetral, but found it easiest just to write it in the context of a woman giving the oral pleasure to her man. So please don't feel that I am being biased at all. These techniques undoubtedly would work equally well for either sex, regardless of your specific orientation.
The rewards? Well, obviously, the man is going to enjoy it. I have found that when the tip of my cock reaches the tight channel at the back of her throat, it really feels amazing.
But what about for the woman who is performing the deep throat? She can take pride in knowing that she has now joined an elite group of women who can do something that many women cannot. She has the satisfaction of knowing that she is among the "best of the best" when it comes to orally pleasuring her partner, and she has added a new method to her bag of tricks.
Here are a couple of things that we have found that do seem to help.
First and foremost, attitude is of key importance. This must be a skill that the woman wants to learn. The male partner should never force her to do it just because he wants her to. If one really wants to learn this technique, below are some tips that may help. If she does not want to, the couple should maybe just move on to the next topic. I believe that any woman/person that truly wants to master this technique really can.
Next, there is a product called "Mr. Goodhead" that comes in a green tube. It is mint flavored. Something in it does seem to desensitize the back of the throat and helps with the gag reflex. It also tingles on the penis, and helps to both stimulate and desensitize the penis. (I know that doesn't make sense, just try it, and you will understand what I am talking about!) One thing though, VERY IMPORTANT. There may be something in the Goodhead, maybe the oil of spearmint or peppermint which might break down a condom, (I need to verify this), so it might not be a good idea to use the good head if you plan to be using a condom.
When learning this technique, one should be comfortable with breathing through the nose.
Another technique, is to have the woman loosely wrap her four fingers around the mans penis so that the little pinky finger is touching the base of his shaft. Have the woman put the mans penis in her mouth and see if she can touch her top first finger with her lips. If she can, have her hold her fingers more tightly together (in terms of their relative position to each other, not in terms of how tightly she is grasping the penis) That will increase the depth by about one half of a fingers depth. If she can touch the top first finger with her lips, then she should move her small (pinky) finger away from the base of the shaft, so that her third (ring) finger is now touching the base of the shaft, and loosely place the first three fingers around the shaft. This will increase the depth by about another half a finger. Repeat this process, removing fingers until the woman feels that she has gone about as deep as she can without gagging. and if you do gag, No big deal! (It actually feels great for the guy, because the throat tightens momentarily), so just accept it as part of the process. It will get easier! She can then use her relative finger positions as a gauge to mark her progress and she can start at that point when the couple has their next "training session". When she is able to go that deep without gagging, she can then either place her fingers closer together, or remove one more finger, until finally there is only one finger around the base of the shaft, and then eventually none. The first time that a woman goes "all the way down" will be a thrilling one for both. The man will definitely enjoy the view of his woman taking him in completely, and it will feel amazing for him. and for the woman, there will be a rush from having accomplished something difficult.
Another technique is to have the woman take the man into her mouth completely when he is flaccid and try and keep as much of him in their mouth as they can as he grows and engorges. Breathe through the nose. Some women have been amazed to find that the gradual growing in their mouth is not such a shock to their throat, and when they pull him out, their male partner is almost completely erect.
Some women say that when they start to feel a gag coming on, swallowing helps. Others find that gulping or relaxing their throat helps.
What are some of your experiences with "Deep Throat"?? Are there any other women out there that enjoy it??? Let's hear your experiences, and comments...
Are there any questions???
I hope that this helps!
Take care,
GREAT_SLC_CPL
We went to see the movie Deep Throat when it first came out. I too asked hubby if he would enjoy that. DUMB QUESTION. Is there any guy who doesn't? I figured it wouldn't be that hard to do, I was already pretty good at giving head (never had a guy complain). Well, let me start off by saying hubby is about 9.5", but luckily not super thick. First time I tried, I gagged so bad I almost threw up. But I was determined to learn how to do it. It's nothing more than a matter of practice (and hubby NEVER complained about me practicing). With him, it really is in my throat when I do it. All it took was doing it a few times and I got over the gag reflex. In fact, I kinda enjoy the feeling of it going into my throat now. And it is not a matter of breathing through your nose. Once it is in your throat you can't breathe through your nose, or any other way either. You have to learn to breath around the thrusts. It's just like the sword swallower in the circus, you learn how to open your throat and take it in. Since learning, I've done a guy who had over 11" with no trouble at all. The only time I have a problem is if the guy is real thick, those I can't do, just no room. But other than, I think I could do 15" or more, once it's in, there's plenty of room. I love doing it. The look on the face of a new guy the first time you do it to him is fabulous. The "WOW, I'VE NEVER HAD A GIRL DO THAT TO ME BEFORE" is a real turn on to me. And since most guys we meet are in the 5.5" to 7" range, I can do it without even thinking about it.
AND GIRLS, there is one great advantage to doing Deep Throat. If you are like me, and don't particularly care for the taste of cum, you can swallow anytime, just take it down your throat, no taste at all. I know that guys like to cum in your mouth, they all say it is a much more intense feeling than cumming any other way. Well, I have no way of knowing if that is true or not, but hell, I make them happy, let them do it and it doesn't bother me a bit. Let's see, Deep Throat came out in 1972 or so, which means I've probably swallowed two gallons or more of cum since then, and never had to deal with the taste issue. Well, that isn't true, sometimes the guy came when he wasn't in my throat. But then, that is a topic for another discussion, what do guys taste like, and why?
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AND GIRLS, there is one great advantage to doing Deep Throat. If you are like me, and don't particularly care for the taste of cum, you can swallow anytime, just take it down your throat, no taste at all. I know that guys like to cum in your mouth, they all say it is a much more intense feeling than cumming any other way. Well, I have no way of knowing if that is true or not, but hell, I make them happy, let them do it and it doesn't bother me a bit. Let's see, Deep Throat came out in 1972 or so, which means I've probably swallowed two gallons or more of cum since then, and never had to deal with the taste issue. Well, that isn't true, sometimes the guy came when he wasn't in my throat. But then, that is a topic for another discussion, what do guys taste like, and why?
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Problem is believe it or not.. if you are a woman and you have a small mouth, going down too far can dislocate your jaw or help lead to it. I am 21 years old and one day my face just swelled up out of nowhere and I had problems with my jaw after that. I went to see my doctor and he asked me if I gave oral sex. At first I was kinda offended by the question but then he expalined to me that my mouth was too small, I already had TMJ and deepthroating is what dislocated my jaw. The number one cause of dislocated jaws in young girls. So watch out.. if you feel stress on your jaw, get it checked out.
Another problem is if the guy pushes on your head too hard.. this may cause extra stress on your jaw.
Sorry I thought I would just add this as a warning to other women because it happened to me.
Another problem is if the guy pushes on your head too hard.. this may cause extra stress on your jaw.
Sorry I thought I would just add this as a warning to other women because it happened to me.