are there any other's hubbies that only want to watch .... hubby here has always said he only wants to watch and we think that maybe part of our problem finding couples and well really anyone to play with ... most everyone wants full participation in the life style .... well what we mean is everyone wants us both to participate but he dont want that just wants to watch .. are we that unusual or what ?
While we are a "full participation" couple, we do not find it strange that the male in your couple wishes to watch. In fact, if we were nearer geographically, we would most certainly be contacting you because we find that your descriptions of preferences works quite well with our own sensibilities. Good luck to you.
thanx checmistry ... we were just wondering if there are like minded couples and others as well because most couples we contact say that they want everyone involved ..... we think that it would be like the ever so hard to find single bi-female ... but we could be wrong .... i mean if i only watch and she plays .. thats what it would be . but only with a viewer .. but the viewer part is the problem i think the couples just dont want to be watched ... but thats ok to i guess it is thier loss .. we know there are better lookng couples and all but we dont think thats relavant because some of the worst looking people can still be fun to be around ..
I'm the same as your husband about half the time. That's why we look for single guys and couples. When were looking for single guys I'm in it just for the major turn on of watching her.
When it's couple time it's fun for all and it would not be fair to not be a giver.
Clay & Beth
When it's couple time it's fun for all and it would not be fair to not be a giver.
Clay & Beth
well said indeed, just seems there are always to many guys yet seems most dont want them even if there looking for them
well we are looking for someone realisticly close enough for us to meet with .. we do not travel due to his jobs being so demanding and we have very little time for play but when we do have time we love to have fun ... and well of course the guy has to be in her likeing ...
My wife would prefer to watch but does partake on occation. Sometimes it makes it difficult on the other couples male half.
My husband loves to watch me with other people. He enjoys participating, but his biggest turn-on is to watch me enjoy myself. I must admit, I enjoy being watched.