ok you fake azz poeple ...lets try this .....
we are looking for ALL THE REAL PEOPLE
we want to play but it seems their is to many fakes if you are for real look and see
we are looking for ALL THE REAL PEOPLE
we want to play but it seems their is to many fakes if you are for real look and see
There will always be a lot of fakes. Assume if the profile isn't validated it has a very high chance of being fake.
We will normally schedule a meeting with unvalidated people someplace we would normally go anyway. This way if they don't show up we're not worried about it. We also judge by how long someone has been on a site.
If they have been on for a long time and aren't validated there is probably a reason. We joined on the second and were validated within a few days, there really isn't much excuse for people being members for a year or more and not being validated.
We will normally schedule a meeting with unvalidated people someplace we would normally go anyway. This way if they don't show up we're not worried about it. We also judge by how long someone has been on a site.
If they have been on for a long time and aren't validated there is probably a reason. We joined on the second and were validated within a few days, there really isn't much excuse for people being members for a year or more and not being validated.
Let's face it, there's always gong to be some fakes, but there's also some very nice people here. Can you turn the volume down on that hostility a bit? 
We are real but live on the wrong coast. We have friends that live near Melbourne and are coming to one of the Captain Jacks parties on Feb. 21st. If you go to Captain Jacks, look us up and see that we are real.
We are very real and have been a member for years. Unfortunatly we live in the wrong place for this site. Hence we are not validated. We are also not very aggresive, so I guess that contributes to not being validated also. Emails and pics and maybe phone validation will prove how reral we are. Don't throw out the baby with the bathwater, just because we have been a member for awhile and we are not validated doesn't mean we are not real.
The only chance we have of meeting fakes is if the couple at the club or party turns out to be transsexual dwarfs and were fooled by their elevator shoes making them look taller. We have been around this stuff a good while. Actually we have never tried to meet a couple on this website, we gave that approach to meeting long before this website came to be. (I know my ass doesn't look that old but it is trust me)
Fakes have always plagued these boards, it was FAR WORSE when you didn't have the verification systems in place and while these are good they are still not a guantaree you are dealing with the real deal. The now infamous "Christylynn" was certified as a "real couple" and technically they were a "real couple" just not what you had planned on. You can e-mail someone back & forth till your fingers bleed but your will not truly know what's behind door number two until they walk through the door.
The best way to try and eliminate fakes and flakes is obviously to meet them in person. The only way to hope to be successful is NOT to plan an evening out with ONE COUPLE. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of swingers clubs and organized lifestyle parties in our area to use as a place to meet where we can not only see the couple we can SEE the couples interaction. (This is the part that helps you avoid the flakes) This works great for people like the original poster who lives in West Palm Beach Florida and this is what I recommend.
For those who live in Alta, Utah (Pop.304) this approach is not so good. You fine folks in Alta will probably have to do a little more on-line work to round up some party people. (Just start with real seal at MINIMUM and work it from there...good luck.
Fakes have always plagued these boards, it was FAR WORSE when you didn't have the verification systems in place and while these are good they are still not a guantaree you are dealing with the real deal. The now infamous "Christylynn" was certified as a "real couple" and technically they were a "real couple" just not what you had planned on. You can e-mail someone back & forth till your fingers bleed but your will not truly know what's behind door number two until they walk through the door.
The best way to try and eliminate fakes and flakes is obviously to meet them in person. The only way to hope to be successful is NOT to plan an evening out with ONE COUPLE. We are fortunate enough to have a variety of swingers clubs and organized lifestyle parties in our area to use as a place to meet where we can not only see the couple we can SEE the couples interaction. (This is the part that helps you avoid the flakes) This works great for people like the original poster who lives in West Palm Beach Florida and this is what I recommend.
For those who live in Alta, Utah (Pop.304) this approach is not so good. You fine folks in Alta will probably have to do a little more on-line work to round up some party people. (Just start with real seal at MINIMUM and work it from there...good luck.
Getting validated is easy:
http://www.swingular.com/validation.php
Or do a search for local people that are validated and contact them to see if they will meet and validate you. There doesn't even need to be physical attraction, just a meeting.
If you live in the Lakeland, FL area we would be happy to meet and validate you.
Although for the record I still think Fl4Fun is a fake. We've supposedly been on cruises and at multiple parties with them and still have yet to meet them. Maybe they will prove they are real in a little over a month.
http://www.swingular.com/validation.php
Or do a search for local people that are validated and contact them to see if they will meet and validate you. There doesn't even need to be physical attraction, just a meeting.
If you live in the Lakeland, FL area we would be happy to meet and validate you.
Although for the record I still think Fl4Fun is a fake. We've supposedly been on cruises and at multiple parties with them and still have yet to meet them. Maybe they will prove they are real in a little over a month.
DARKNLADYJEDI
There were 200 couples on those cruises and you spent all your time playing naked shuffleboard. :S
This time we are going to be standing at the gangway during boarding holding up big signs with your profile name. (The vanilla tourists from Idaho will sure love it)
My gawd will February ever get here!
There were 200 couples on those cruises and you spent all your time playing naked shuffleboard. :S
This time we are going to be standing at the gangway during boarding holding up big signs with your profile name. (The vanilla tourists from Idaho will sure love it)
My gawd will February ever get here!
Mr Fl4Fun, naked shuffleboard is out, but twister is a possibility 
And it's a good thing my screen name isn't something really public inappropriate!
Dog, REAL is someone who has been validated by someone who is VIP, VIP is someone who is validated by the site admin in person.
You can even get validated by sending the admin a picture with both of you in it holding a handwritten sign. Instructions are in the link I posted.
And it's a good thing my screen name isn't something really public inappropriate!Dog, REAL is someone who has been validated by someone who is VIP, VIP is someone who is validated by the site admin in person.
You can even get validated by sending the admin a picture with both of you in it holding a handwritten sign. Instructions are in the link I posted.
we've been members for well over a year, met a ton of people and been to several parties and still not validated.
Weird.
Now that you mention it I guess we just keep forgetting to ask people! LOL
Well, some on the site know us, so if you have any pull, feel free and validate away! LOL
If not, one of these day's, we'll remember to ask or do the webcam / e-mail thing .................
Dale & Kim
Weird.
Now that you mention it I guess we just keep forgetting to ask people! LOL
Well, some on the site know us, so if you have any pull, feel free and validate away! LOL
If not, one of these day's, we'll remember to ask or do the webcam / e-mail thing .................
Dale & Kim
"we've been members for well over a year"
Dale & Kim, according to your join date you have been members almost three years?
Did you highjack this profile? :S
Dale & Kim, according to your join date you have been members almost three years?
Did you highjack this profile? :S
We are a very real couple, and have met some wonderful people from this site. It is not difficult to weed out the fakes.As suggested, get validated, that is something we always look for. Have people comment on your profile, that always helps also.
Lots of Florida members here, but alas, we are spread out all over the state.
Ron & Chrissy
Lots of Florida members here, but alas, we are spread out all over the state.
Ron & Chrissy
We're happy to validate any couple we meet in person
We were here for about 4 years and not validated... We didn't really see any need for it. Just keep talking to people and enjoy those you meet.
HERREQUEST
Your profile would be the type of profile we would never e-mail and if you sent us e-mail it would simply be deleted. No photo of any kind, a very limited profile, and not real certified.
This type profile is what we would normally recommend people avoid, just as many have already said this post.
Nothing personal but since you chimed might as will be honest. You say people are talking to you, then it must be working for you. Rock on and don't change a thing.
:-)
Your profile would be the type of profile we would never e-mail and if you sent us e-mail it would simply be deleted. No photo of any kind, a very limited profile, and not real certified.
This type profile is what we would normally recommend people avoid, just as many have already said this post.
Nothing personal but since you chimed might as will be honest. You say people are talking to you, then it must be working for you. Rock on and don't change a thing.
:-)
We will be happy to validate in the ogden area
We also are VIP and usually remember to ask if a couple needs to be validated when we meet. If we have wet you and forgot to ask, contact us and we will make it right.
Im sitting here reading this and I dont even know if we ever did the validation thing?!?! lol any way if some here has met us and we arent validated and they can do it would you please?? I know at least one of the couples here knows us...miss you guys need a karaoke night out !!
we are real been off site for a while but we are back and ready for action
crazym
crazym
We have to second the recommendation to arrange to meet people at a local swing club (in Tampa we have the good fortune to have Nightmoves and Club Elite). There is no pressure to play and you get to see how real they are. If the other couple doesn't show up there is no loss since you are in the perfect place to have fun anyway.
Hey AKCPL4U269,
You posted:
<will only meet people for the first time at a club. Since moving to FL we haven't really found a good club to do this at, so any suggestions from the locals would be welcomed openly. >
If you are ever in the Tampa area we highly recommend Caliente. $15.00 entry fee to get in and party naked, hang out in the hot tub and meet terrific couples. It is a nudist resort so no open playing, but it really is very nice and a bit more upscale than your average on-premise club.
Hey AKCPL4U269,
You posted:
<will only meet people for the first time at a club. Since moving to FL we haven't really found a good club to do this at, so any suggestions from the locals would be welcomed openly. >
If you are ever in the Tampa area we highly recommend Caliente. $15.00 entry fee to get in and party naked, hang out in the hot tub and meet terrific couples. It is a nudist resort so no open playing, but it really is very nice and a bit more upscale than your average on-premise club.
We are very real why haven't we been validated we have never met anyone with the ability to validate on this site yet and wife will not sit down in front of web cam to validate directly with swingular. We have used this site mainly for the forums as people in this area are all looking for Barbie and Ken or the under 40 crowd. With us being both over 50 it has reduced the # of local contacts now if we were in Utah or Col or Southern FL then we would have quite a few people to meet as we get messages from the ones that live too far away :-(. If you were to check our profile on another site you would see we have 40 certifications. REAL yes we are REAL and if we ever find a cpl to meet on this site maybe we will get validated.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon
Loving naked, where exactly is that spell check box. The wetting took place last night as we had three squirters in one bed. However, if we have simply MET you as we had originally intended, we will still validate you.
We are real... look at our pro-file.. been here for a little over 3 year's. There are so many gr8 people on this site we have met.many we have became gr8 friend's with. But i have noticed in these home page subject's, there seem's to be some asses out there that i'd prefer not to meet.Mean people just suck. We are some of the biggest sweetheart's and we are real down to earth peep's. Even thoew Amanda is a little on the wild side, she is sweet and adorable, and soooooooooo beautiful. We get along with most types of people. But the point is no matter what Swing site you go to or are on, There will alway's have some fake ass people on. H&A
Damn, I sure feel as if i am real. But, that could just be my imagination.
hey Dark,
I can vouch for the bum FL4FUN.. I met him and his lovely Mrs on the last cruise. and believe it or not can be actually funny in person. We had a few laughs at the crew's expense during the muster
We hope to get Mrs FL4 to open up this time. she did seem a bit shy, well it's either that or she was saying to herself " why in gods name is this idiot talking to me?"
See ya in a few weeks!
M
Ohh and validating on this site is a breeze.
Just cam with the admin and while he's watching start fucking ur wife! .. no seriously all we had to do was "kiss and hug" and he said ok your validated.
I can vouch for the bum FL4FUN.. I met him and his lovely Mrs on the last cruise. and believe it or not can be actually funny in person. We had a few laughs at the crew's expense during the muster
We hope to get Mrs FL4 to open up this time. she did seem a bit shy, well it's either that or she was saying to herself " why in gods name is this idiot talking to me?"
See ya in a few weeks!
M
Ohh and validating on this site is a breeze.
Just cam with the admin and while he's watching start fucking ur wife! .. no seriously all we had to do was "kiss and hug" and he said ok your validated.
Nah...Were fake, we dont even exist :-) , your reading a figure of your imagination.
We have never met anyone on here.
Were never out because we actually have to run our lives and our families as well.
So um...yeah that's it, were Totally FAKE. Never been to a bar with the Mr. and Mrs RECON or hang out with our close friends either ( Coupleof69rs ). Nope, we have never went to any of the gatherings at Habits and we have had sex with everyone else on this site EXCEPT YOU!! .
It's because we dont like you, so you you call us fake. Yet to be honest we ( like most everyone else ) are selective on who we meet and IF we entertain after a few times hanging out. Its just that some of you cant eccept that, mentally or emotionally. Not everyone finds everyone attractive and were not all your type ( and vice versa) so I hate to bust your bubble.
Hope this helps all of those who get accused of this as well to have a little laugh, it sure brought a smile to my face typing it.
Mr. Curiousinut
We have never met anyone on here.
Were never out because we actually have to run our lives and our families as well.
So um...yeah that's it, were Totally FAKE. Never been to a bar with the Mr. and Mrs RECON or hang out with our close friends either ( Coupleof69rs ). Nope, we have never went to any of the gatherings at Habits and we have had sex with everyone else on this site EXCEPT YOU!! .
It's because we dont like you, so you you call us fake. Yet to be honest we ( like most everyone else ) are selective on who we meet and IF we entertain after a few times hanging out. Its just that some of you cant eccept that, mentally or emotionally. Not everyone finds everyone attractive and were not all your type ( and vice versa) so I hate to bust your bubble.
Hope this helps all of those who get accused of this as well to have a little laugh, it sure brought a smile to my face typing it.
Mr. Curiousinut
Their is no way we are real!!!!!No one should ever accuse us of being real WE ARE FAKE>>>> We lied to get our real seal......The Tarts P.S Next time ya see us come say hi!!!We only nibble if ya ask.......
P.S Next time ya see us come say hi!!!We only nibble if ya ask.......u know, i don't think we're validated or certified or whatever they call it here on this site. we've been on so many it's hard to keep track. anyway, we're very real and we just don't give a hoot about validations anymore. i guess u could say we've progressed thru maslow's hierarchy of needs for swingers to the self-actualized phase. that's a clever way of saying we no longer give a rat's ass what other people think. 
we've been swingers since 2003, and we really only went to a lot of parties and sought out new experiences with regularity for the first 2 years. now it's just another "thang" we dabble in from time to time when the mood hits us...mostly on vacation, weekend getaways, and stuff like that.
and we really have no ego stake in how many unsolicited emails we do or don't get from people asking us to hook up or inviting us to parties. if we get the itch, we'll look around, find something that piques our curiosity, and send them a message.
it's all really no big deal. and we have found that folks who get wrapped around the axle about this stuff are not the kind of folks we want to hang out with anyway.
we've been swingers since 2003, and we really only went to a lot of parties and sought out new experiences with regularity for the first 2 years. now it's just another "thang" we dabble in from time to time when the mood hits us...mostly on vacation, weekend getaways, and stuff like that.
and we really have no ego stake in how many unsolicited emails we do or don't get from people asking us to hook up or inviting us to parties. if we get the itch, we'll look around, find something that piques our curiosity, and send them a message.
it's all really no big deal. and we have found that folks who get wrapped around the axle about this stuff are not the kind of folks we want to hang out with anyway.
There seems to be a lot of flakes here who want to collect
pics or have you let them into your private pics when they have
either none or just a couple that you can't tell what they look
like anyway.
pics or have you let them into your private pics when they have
either none or just a couple that you can't tell what they look
like anyway.
"We hope to get Mrs FL4 to open up this time. she did seem a bit shy"
MR. FLCPL4FUN0920
She was so strung out on Xanax she thought you were the room steward.
Don't you remember her asking you to go get her a fluffy pillow? :S
MR. FLCPL4FUN0920
She was so strung out on Xanax she thought you were the room steward.
Don't you remember her asking you to go get her a fluffy pillow? :S
Dammit man, stop drugging the woman!
Are you kidding? Rufanol is the only way I can't get women to talk to me even though they don't talk too long. :S
We are for very real and may be going to meet our first couple soon. We live in the country and the nearest city is 50 miles one way, 66 miles another, and 77 the other. We have to alway dive deep into the pool. All of the cities I mentioned are not really that big either.
One wrote not to plan on meeting only one couple in the same night. This sounds like making plans not to meet before the meeting. I will have to say that certain things in life can happen to change plans but we would never meet without phone contact in the first place. We have never made plans that we didn't keep and have never been stood up.
Did all of you know that there are usually two feet to put the shoes on. I have realized that many are more promiscuous than others, and have less regard to STD's. Then there are those that are looking for the proverbial Ken and Barbies.
We seek real people that we match and click with and do not care if someone does not want to email at least a few times to see. I guess----in our way---we weed out the "FAKES".
It is this simple. We correspond to find a match to meet for great times. If we meet---great. If we meet and things go farther---fantastic. We have met--things went great--we went farther and things were fantastic---and the night ended up mind blowig. This makes a little--------------"wasted time"----------- worth a little trouble.
If we had a meet planned and the party did not show up we would simply have a party ourselves. Then again---after 32 years we don't really need help--just like the excitement and fun.
I will ask---WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH SOME WANTING TO SAY HELLO TODAY AND MEETING TONIGHT or at least by tomorrow night? If there is that big a hurry to get laid then go to an on premise swing club. This is just my thoughts.
We have been selectively swinging for years, have many rocking chair memories, and plan on having many more.
So how do you define "fake"?
One wrote not to plan on meeting only one couple in the same night. This sounds like making plans not to meet before the meeting. I will have to say that certain things in life can happen to change plans but we would never meet without phone contact in the first place. We have never made plans that we didn't keep and have never been stood up.
Did all of you know that there are usually two feet to put the shoes on. I have realized that many are more promiscuous than others, and have less regard to STD's. Then there are those that are looking for the proverbial Ken and Barbies.
We seek real people that we match and click with and do not care if someone does not want to email at least a few times to see. I guess----in our way---we weed out the "FAKES".
It is this simple. We correspond to find a match to meet for great times. If we meet---great. If we meet and things go farther---fantastic. We have met--things went great--we went farther and things were fantastic---and the night ended up mind blowig. This makes a little--------------"wasted time"----------- worth a little trouble.
If we had a meet planned and the party did not show up we would simply have a party ourselves. Then again---after 32 years we don't really need help--just like the excitement and fun.
I will ask---WHAT IS THE PROBLEM WITH SOME WANTING TO SAY HELLO TODAY AND MEETING TONIGHT or at least by tomorrow night? If there is that big a hurry to get laid then go to an on premise swing club. This is just my thoughts.
We have been selectively swinging for years, have many rocking chair memories, and plan on having many more.
So how do you define "fake"?
The Internet can be an issue because some people use web sites to mask themselves. Seems silly to us but we have experienced this from several sites. Although the webmasters try to keep them off. Someone who is crafty enough always seems to get through the systems.
After many meetings in which we found people used old or wrong pictures, not as claimed, single males pretending to be couples; we decided to work the Internet differently. Instead of making special arrangements to meet others at restuarants or bars, we started telling them where we were already going. Normally a swing club or local party. That way if they did not show or showed and were not as represented our night was not wasted.
In fact, this worked so well for us that we started our own group Florida's Finest Couples which has grown to have over 1,300 member couples throughout Florida. Now when we talk to a couple online we can tell them that if they wish to meet they can join us at a meet. We usually have 100+ at the meets so it allows plenty of connections for them as well...if they don't care for us.
Brian & Nancy
Hosts Florida's Finest Couples
After many meetings in which we found people used old or wrong pictures, not as claimed, single males pretending to be couples; we decided to work the Internet differently. Instead of making special arrangements to meet others at restuarants or bars, we started telling them where we were already going. Normally a swing club or local party. That way if they did not show or showed and were not as represented our night was not wasted.
In fact, this worked so well for us that we started our own group Florida's Finest Couples which has grown to have over 1,300 member couples throughout Florida. Now when we talk to a couple online we can tell them that if they wish to meet they can join us at a meet. We usually have 100+ at the meets so it allows plenty of connections for them as well...if they don't care for us.
Brian & Nancy
Hosts Florida's Finest Couples
Dog, you can be verified by meeting someone casually, by going to any number of events members are at, or by getting on webcam with the admin of the site.
It took us 3 days to get verified.
We just verified a new member that we met at a non-lifestyle party a while ago after getting a friend request from them and contacting them off site to make sure it wasn't stolen pictures.
Getting validated is easy. And only emailing multiple times with people who are validated will cut down on pic collectors and fakes all by itself.
Doesn't mean we aren't willing to exchange a couple of emails with someone who isn't validated, and like I said earlier, we will meet with anyone local who needs to be validated. Validation doesn't equal sex, it just means that the person is who they say they are.
It took us 3 days to get verified.
We just verified a new member that we met at a non-lifestyle party a while ago after getting a friend request from them and contacting them off site to make sure it wasn't stolen pictures.
Getting validated is easy. And only emailing multiple times with people who are validated will cut down on pic collectors and fakes all by itself.
Doesn't mean we aren't willing to exchange a couple of emails with someone who isn't validated, and like I said earlier, we will meet with anyone local who needs to be validated. Validation doesn't equal sex, it just means that the person is who they say they are.
Anyone who would like to meet us and "Validate" us we would welcome the validation Nah we just want to have some fun sex we could care less about being validated lol.
Norm&Sharon
Norm&Sharon