We were curious as to the reality of what "safe sex" truly is. Come to our surprise, with Trina in the medical field and Mike's family having RN's and Dr.'s in the family, NEWS FLASH, there can be STD's transfered by oral sex, YES oral sex people, even though small but still can happen JUST LIKE PENETRATION. John's Hopkins has written articles concerning this matter and why we feel, if you won't lick it, don't stick it attitude. Safe sex is NOT just penetration but also oral.
What we are asking is, WHY THE HYPE on penetration but the non-knowledge on the oral subject KNOWING at a smaller risk, one can still get an STD? We are always researching this because we know we are clean and get checked bi-annually for everything. It jst bothers us sometimes when all is going well, the topic of condoms and safe sex NEVER was brought up, then when the sex starts, OMG get the condom, kinda ruins the mood. We go bareback and respect ANYONE that thinks condoms prevent std's, just remember, you can get it orally too!!!!
We would like to know how people feel and do not hate us for being honest how we feel and know we DO respect any opinion and will take it to heart. We have been doing this for 11 years and after all the experiences we have had, 0 problems, so why the concern? Do you not trust you instincts, your partners choices, you "friends" you make? Just answer honestly and know we are not trying to stir up a bee hive just stating std's can be transmitted orally AND thru penentration but at different risk levels.
What we are asking is, WHY THE HYPE on penetration but the non-knowledge on the oral subject KNOWING at a smaller risk, one can still get an STD? We are always researching this because we know we are clean and get checked bi-annually for everything. It jst bothers us sometimes when all is going well, the topic of condoms and safe sex NEVER was brought up, then when the sex starts, OMG get the condom, kinda ruins the mood. We go bareback and respect ANYONE that thinks condoms prevent std's, just remember, you can get it orally too!!!!
We would like to know how people feel and do not hate us for being honest how we feel and know we DO respect any opinion and will take it to heart. We have been doing this for 11 years and after all the experiences we have had, 0 problems, so why the concern? Do you not trust you instincts, your partners choices, you "friends" you make? Just answer honestly and know we are not trying to stir up a bee hive just stating std's can be transmitted orally AND thru penentration but at different risk levels.