Hate to break the hate train, but thought I'd ask this question in this group..living in florida, my wife and I see this so much..why is there still such an issue of interacial sex..between whites and blacks..
Now mind you, we are both professionals and hold our weight in any situations and we know our money is just as green as everyone elses, but we still get the brush off from some people and we know its not because of anything but race..its the first thing you see that makes the impression...
We are well groom'd, well spoken, and mannered. I understand the swinging world is just a sub-culture of our overall society but just as the military or the NFL or other groups that make up their own culture, are we not suppose to be above this. This is not a political question but more of a moral one. Oh, dont use the "preference" word..if you do, base your preference on something. Anyone seen or had experiences in this realm. On and it works both ways..
Dave/Denise
Now mind you, we are both professionals and hold our weight in any situations and we know our money is just as green as everyone elses, but we still get the brush off from some people and we know its not because of anything but race..its the first thing you see that makes the impression...
We are well groom'd, well spoken, and mannered. I understand the swinging world is just a sub-culture of our overall society but just as the military or the NFL or other groups that make up their own culture, are we not suppose to be above this. This is not a political question but more of a moral one. Oh, dont use the "preference" word..if you do, base your preference on something. Anyone seen or had experiences in this realm. On and it works both ways..
Dave/Denise
Dave/Denise
Because there are so many shades of racism (pun intended) there isn
Because there are so many shades of racism (pun intended) there isn
Well, I'm not exactly sure that my wife is a racist or is genuinely still affected by something from her youth. She will not have sex with a black man. She had a black boyfriend in her late teens and he treated her badly, she says....and I have no idea what that means. The result is that she will not have sex with a black man... No problem with a black woman.. (Am I being incorrect using the term black as opposed to African American) BTW Afro or African American is an oximoron.... can't be African and American at the same time) She will dance, kiss and otherwise allow a black man to touch her but no further..... This has limited our possibilities. I find some black women as well as other ethnicities to be quite exotic and sexy.
So there may be some situational issues to the racism. It only takes exposure to people of other races to realize that orientals are not stupid or all bad drivers... that all European woman do not have hairy legs and look like gorillas under their arms with hair. That Middle men really bathe and do not stink. I think we are still living in the wake of the times up to the 70's. People did not associate with people of different races, particularly blacks--(AA). It may be a hassel now but give it time....
Ray
So there may be some situational issues to the racism. It only takes exposure to people of other races to realize that orientals are not stupid or all bad drivers... that all European woman do not have hairy legs and look like gorillas under their arms with hair. That Middle men really bathe and do not stink. I think we are still living in the wake of the times up to the 70's. People did not associate with people of different races, particularly blacks--(AA). It may be a hassel now but give it time....
Ray
We agree, it just limits their opportunities. Florida is a very diverse state and there are so many mixed relationships here. We will play with who we find an attraction to. I know it must be frustrating to deal with the rejection which you feel is based on race but would you really want to associate with these people anyway. I know we wouldn`t.
I have said it a thousand times...surround yourself with good people and good things will happen. We have proved this theory to work over the past few years for us and we consider ourselves to be very lucky to have made all the strong relationships along the way.
I have said it a thousand times...surround yourself with good people and good things will happen. We have proved this theory to work over the past few years for us and we consider ourselves to be very lucky to have made all the strong relationships along the way.