THIS HAS BEEN BROUGHT UP ON EVERY SITE WE ARE ON .
AND I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS SO HARD ABOUT WRITING SOMEONE BACK AND SAYING NO THANKS .
SOME PEOPLE HAVE USED THE EXCUSE SAYING THEY ARE TO BUSY . AND DONT WANT TO DEAL WITH HURTING SOMEONES FEELINGS . BUT I GUESS THEY DONT CARE WHEN THEY DONT WRITE NOTHING THAT ALSO HURTS THEIR FEELINGS AND PISSES ALOT OF PEOPLE OFF .
THE PEOPLE THAT I HAVE SEEN USE THAT EXCUSE JUST DONT THINK ABOUT OTHERS FEELINGS . THEY ONLY THINK AND WORRY ABOUT THEM . AND IF THEY WANT TO PLAY WITH U THEN THEY WILLL WRITE U BACK . IF NOT THEN THEY DONT .
I HAVE ALSO HEARD PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT THE OTHER PEOPLE WRITING BACK AND ASKING WHY ????? NOT ?????????/ IN THAT CASE I WOULD TELL THEM THE THRUTH . AND ANYONE THAT TRIED TO TALK ME INTO IT THEN I WOULD JUST BLOCK THEM .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL . . BUT WE ONLY PLAY WITH A FEW . BUT WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL . SO IF I DONT THINK WE WOULD CLICK AS PLAY MATES I STILL OFFER TO HANG OUT WITH THEM .
THE ONLY TIME WE DONT WRITE SOMEONE BACK IS WHEN THEY SEND ONE OF THOSE SOME ONE LIKES U . CAUSE IF THEY COULDNT TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE SOMETHING THEN IAM NOT GOING TO WASTE MY TIME DOING IT . AND THEY CAN DO THAT FOR MANY REASONS . MAYBE THEY JUST WANT TO ADD ME TO THEIR LIST SO THEY CAN KEEP AN EYE ON MY PICS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT .
THE ONLY TIME I DONT WRITE SOMEONE BACK WHEN THEY WRITE US IS IF THEY ARE RUDE OR PUSHY FROM THE GET GO . IF THEIR FRIST EMAIL IS LIKE THAT THEN I DONT EVEN WANT TO DEAL WITH . NOR DO I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO OR SHOULD WASTE MY TIME DEALING WITH SOMEONETHAT DOESNT HAVE OR SHOW RESPECT TOWARDS ME .
EVERYBODY ELSE WE TRY TO WRITE BACK .
WE ARE ON ALOT OF DIFFERENT SITES . AND WE GET ALOT OF MAIL ON ALL OF THEM . AND IAM JUST AS BUSY AS THOSE OTHER PEOPLE THA TSAY THEY DONT HAVE TIME TO WRITE OTHERS BACK .I THINK THATS JUST A LAME BULLSHIT EXCUSE . THEY HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO WRITE BACK IF THEY LIKE U . BUT NO TIME JUST TO SAY NO THANKS . I THINK IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO MANNERS .AND SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT HAVE THEM .
I TRY TO TELL PEOPLE PROFILES AND PICS CAN BE VERY MISLEADING AT TIMES . BUT HOW U TREAT OTHERS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN .AND THOSE PEOPLE MIGHT NOT BE RIGHT FOR YOU TODAY . BUT NEXT YEAR THEY COULD BE A PERFECT MATCH . OR U COULD SEE THEM AT A PARTY AND LIKE THEM OR THEIR FRIENDS . AND PEOPLE DONT FORGET RUDE PEOPLE . AND THEN U WONT HAVE A CHANCE .
I HAVE ALWAYS WRITTEN PEOPLE BACK . IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO .
I PERSONALLY DONT CARE IF SOMEONE WRITES ME BACK OR NOT . BUT SINCE BEING ON THE SITES AND SEEING PEOPLE SAY HOW IT BOTHERS THEM OR IT HURTS THEIR FEELINGS AND ALL OF THAT . THEN I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY OTHER S WOULD WANT TO DO THAT .
I TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY I WANT TO BE TREATED . AND I DONT THINK IT WOULD HURT FOR EVDRYBODY JUST TO BE A BIT NICER TO EACH OTHER . IT WOULD MAKE THE WORLD AND COMPUTER WORLD A WHOLE DIFFERENT HAPPIER PLACE .
I WONDER ABOUT THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE UP EXCUSES ON WHY THEY CANT WRITE SOMEONE BACK . IF THOSE SAME PEOPLE WERE AT A PARTY HOW THEY WOULD ACT WHEN SOMEONE CAME UP AND SAID HI TO THEM . I GUESS THEY PROB. WOULDNT HAVE THE TIME TO SAY NO THANKS EITHER SO THEY PROB WOULD JUST WALK AWAY WHILE THE PERSON WAS STILL TALKING TO THEM ....
I THINK SOMETIMES PEOPLE GET SO CAUGHT UP IN THE COMPUTER WORLD THAT THEY DONT REALIZE THAT THESE ARE REAL PEOPLE . WITH FEELINGS .
AND THEN I REALIZE THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST RUDE WITH NO MANNERS .
AND DONT CARE ABOUT ANYONE ELSE BUT THEMSELVES . HOW SAD .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
AND I REALLY DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT IS SO HARD ABOUT WRITING SOMEONE BACK AND SAYING NO THANKS .
SOME PEOPLE HAVE USED THE EXCUSE SAYING THEY ARE TO BUSY . AND DONT WANT TO DEAL WITH HURTING SOMEONES FEELINGS . BUT I GUESS THEY DONT CARE WHEN THEY DONT WRITE NOTHING THAT ALSO HURTS THEIR FEELINGS AND PISSES ALOT OF PEOPLE OFF .
THE PEOPLE THAT I HAVE SEEN USE THAT EXCUSE JUST DONT THINK ABOUT OTHERS FEELINGS . THEY ONLY THINK AND WORRY ABOUT THEM . AND IF THEY WANT TO PLAY WITH U THEN THEY WILLL WRITE U BACK . IF NOT THEN THEY DONT .
I HAVE ALSO HEARD PEOPLE COMPLAIN ABOUT THE OTHER PEOPLE WRITING BACK AND ASKING WHY ????? NOT ?????????/ IN THAT CASE I WOULD TELL THEM THE THRUTH . AND ANYONE THAT TRIED TO TALK ME INTO IT THEN I WOULD JUST BLOCK THEM .
WE HANG OUT WITH ANYONE THAT IS RESPECTFUL . . BUT WE ONLY PLAY WITH A FEW . BUT WE ARE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR FRIENDS AS WELL . SO IF I DONT THINK WE WOULD CLICK AS PLAY MATES I STILL OFFER TO HANG OUT WITH THEM .
THE ONLY TIME WE DONT WRITE SOMEONE BACK IS WHEN THEY SEND ONE OF THOSE SOME ONE LIKES U . CAUSE IF THEY COULDNT TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE SOMETHING THEN IAM NOT GOING TO WASTE MY TIME DOING IT . AND THEY CAN DO THAT FOR MANY REASONS . MAYBE THEY JUST WANT TO ADD ME TO THEIR LIST SO THEY CAN KEEP AN EYE ON MY PICS OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT .
THE ONLY TIME I DONT WRITE SOMEONE BACK WHEN THEY WRITE US IS IF THEY ARE RUDE OR PUSHY FROM THE GET GO . IF THEIR FRIST EMAIL IS LIKE THAT THEN I DONT EVEN WANT TO DEAL WITH . NOR DO I FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO OR SHOULD WASTE MY TIME DEALING WITH SOMEONETHAT DOESNT HAVE OR SHOW RESPECT TOWARDS ME .
EVERYBODY ELSE WE TRY TO WRITE BACK .
WE ARE ON ALOT OF DIFFERENT SITES . AND WE GET ALOT OF MAIL ON ALL OF THEM . AND IAM JUST AS BUSY AS THOSE OTHER PEOPLE THA TSAY THEY DONT HAVE TIME TO WRITE OTHERS BACK .I THINK THATS JUST A LAME BULLSHIT EXCUSE . THEY HAVE ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD TO WRITE BACK IF THEY LIKE U . BUT NO TIME JUST TO SAY NO THANKS . I THINK IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO MANNERS .AND SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT HAVE THEM .
I TRY TO TELL PEOPLE PROFILES AND PICS CAN BE VERY MISLEADING AT TIMES . BUT HOW U TREAT OTHERS WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN .AND THOSE PEOPLE MIGHT NOT BE RIGHT FOR YOU TODAY . BUT NEXT YEAR THEY COULD BE A PERFECT MATCH . OR U COULD SEE THEM AT A PARTY AND LIKE THEM OR THEIR FRIENDS . AND PEOPLE DONT FORGET RUDE PEOPLE . AND THEN U WONT HAVE A CHANCE .
I HAVE ALWAYS WRITTEN PEOPLE BACK . IT JUST SEEMS LIKE THE RIGHT THING TO DO .
I PERSONALLY DONT CARE IF SOMEONE WRITES ME BACK OR NOT . BUT SINCE BEING ON THE SITES AND SEEING PEOPLE SAY HOW IT BOTHERS THEM OR IT HURTS THEIR FEELINGS AND ALL OF THAT . THEN I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY OTHER S WOULD WANT TO DO THAT .
I TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY I WANT TO BE TREATED . AND I DONT THINK IT WOULD HURT FOR EVDRYBODY JUST TO BE A BIT NICER TO EACH OTHER . IT WOULD MAKE THE WORLD AND COMPUTER WORLD A WHOLE DIFFERENT HAPPIER PLACE .
I WONDER ABOUT THE PEOPLE THAT MAKE UP EXCUSES ON WHY THEY CANT WRITE SOMEONE BACK . IF THOSE SAME PEOPLE WERE AT A PARTY HOW THEY WOULD ACT WHEN SOMEONE CAME UP AND SAID HI TO THEM . I GUESS THEY PROB. WOULDNT HAVE THE TIME TO SAY NO THANKS EITHER SO THEY PROB WOULD JUST WALK AWAY WHILE THE PERSON WAS STILL TALKING TO THEM ....
I THINK SOMETIMES PEOPLE GET SO CAUGHT UP IN THE COMPUTER WORLD THAT THEY DONT REALIZE THAT THESE ARE REAL PEOPLE . WITH FEELINGS .
AND THEN I REALIZE THAT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST RUDE WITH NO MANNERS .
AND DONT CARE ABOUT ANYONE ELSE BUT THEMSELVES . HOW SAD .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
If anyone has been in the Lifestyle long enough, It has always been a problem. Getting answers to e-mail, or even Regular mail. Some people see it as not a big deal and others see it as rude. Different people handle it differently. Sorry, that it is still a problem.
David and Susan
David and Susan
I'm new to this, but it seems to me that perhaps some are a bit impatient. I may be prejudging, but since the advent of cell phones and email, everyone expects an immediate response. I answer my us mail about every 3 weeks. We are busy. I hope that it is not perceived that we or others don't care. If you are in this lifestyle, you are taking a large chance, and a leap of trust.
I treasure my friends that have the courage and the decency to accept me and my honny. old and horny as we are, and would not want a lack of immediate, or weekly response to be taken as a slight, or a lack of respect. I may be out of town on business. I may not feel sexy (wait till your 50).
My point is, don't assume the worst. Yes, there are people who will chicken out when it's time to turn fantasy into reality. Don't be too harsh. Society and business put a lot of restraints on people's natural desires and freedoms. They may not be able to do what they thought they wanted. Or, they may be jerks that get off on teasing and lying about what they wanyt.
There will always be pretenders, no matter what endeavor you are in. Forget them. You know who you are, and what you want and are willing to give. Forgive and forget the rest. They don't know what they are missing.
I treasure my friends that have the courage and the decency to accept me and my honny. old and horny as we are, and would not want a lack of immediate, or weekly response to be taken as a slight, or a lack of respect. I may be out of town on business. I may not feel sexy (wait till your 50).
My point is, don't assume the worst. Yes, there are people who will chicken out when it's time to turn fantasy into reality. Don't be too harsh. Society and business put a lot of restraints on people's natural desires and freedoms. They may not be able to do what they thought they wanted. Or, they may be jerks that get off on teasing and lying about what they wanyt.
There will always be pretenders, no matter what endeavor you are in. Forget them. You know who you are, and what you want and are willing to give. Forgive and forget the rest. They don't know what they are missing.
We try our best to send out a few e mail's and to answer our own each day ! but some people must understand that every once in a while there are rude people out there as well ? like a single person writing to a couple without reading there profile first that say's nothing about a single person ? So we guess as a concideration to the person writing the E-mail to anouther see what there preferences are and if they have something that could be worked with (for example) ? If they say they are into hard swapping some people accidently click the wrong button or didn't understand that ?( but ) if they say nothing about single males and one E-Mail's isn't that kind of rude in itself ? Well anyway's we hope you find tha answer your looking for and Good Luck ! in Your Quest !
Love Alway's : lifeslittlejoys
Love Alway's : lifeslittlejoys
We have to agree with TampaFreaks in that commom decency would as for a simple "thanks, but no thanks". Reasonable people would not demand a reason, but would just accept that and move on.
As for being busy, that is understandable, but I have to question whether or not someone is serious when they do not reply after 3 weeks. Of course we all get extended vacations at times, so why not post on your profile something like "Going to Kenya and will be back in September".
As for being busy, that is understandable, but I have to question whether or not someone is serious when they do not reply after 3 weeks. Of course we all get extended vacations at times, so why not post on your profile something like "Going to Kenya and will be back in September".
I PERSONALLY DONT (TAKE IT TO HEART ) IF SOMEONE DOESNT REPLY BACK . I WRITE AND CHAT WITH SO MANY PEOPLE EVERYDAY THAT I DONT EVEN REMEMBER WHO HASNT WRITTEN BACK .NOR DO I CARE WHAT THEIR REASONS WHERE FOR NOT WRITING BACK .
YES SOME PEOPLE WRITE SOMEONE AND THEN SIT THERE WAITING FOR A REPLY BACK.
THATS KINDA OF WEIRD TO JUST EXPECT PEOPLE TO BE ABLE TO WRITE BACK CAUSE U ARE (WAITING ) FOR THEM TO DO .
I UNDERSTAND PEOPLE ARE BUSY . OR ON VACTION OR DONT CHECK THEIR MAIL EVERYDAY . THATS ALL UNDERSTANDABLE .
WE GET TONS OF MAIL EVERYDAY . SOME TIMES SOME MAIL GETS OVER LOOKED AND FORGOTTEN ABOUT . WHEN IAM CLEANING OUT MY BOX ILL STILL TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE THE PEOPLE BACK AND SAY LOOK IAM SORRY IAM JUST NOW WRITING YOU . IT GOT LOST .
PEOPLE CAN TAKE IT AS I WAS RUDE TO WAIT SO LONG . OR THEY CAN SEE IT AS THEIR EMAIL GOT LOST AMOUNG THE REST AND WAS FORGOTTEN ABOUT . NOT BECAUSE WE DIDNT CARE OR ANYTHIGN LIKE THAT . BUT JUST THE FACT THAT IT WAS LOST OR WE WERE BUSY AT THE TIME AND WAS PLANNING ON WRITING THEM BACK BOT FORGOT ABOUT .
ANYONE THAT CAN T UNDERSTAND THAT AND REALIZE THAT I WAS BUSY AND BE OK WITH THAT . THEN I DONT REALLY WANT THEM AROUDN ME IN THE FIRST PLACE . AND THE FACE THAT I WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO STILL WRITE THEM A FEW WEEKS LATER AND SAY THAT IAM SORRY AND ALL OF THAT SHOULD SHOW THEM THT I DO MEAN WHAT I SAY AND THEY SHOULD BE OK WITH THAT . JUST AS PEOPLE SHOULD BE OK WITH SOMEONE SAYING NO THANKS .
BUT SOME PEOPLE WILL TELL U FLAT OUT THAT THEY WONT EMAIL ANYBODY BACK UNLESS THEY WANT TO HOOK UP WITH THAT PERSON . TO ME THAT IS KINDA OF RUDE . SOMEONE TOOK THE TIME TO WRITE THEM . IT ONLY TAKES A MIN TO WRITE NO THANKS . TO THE OTHER PEOPLE . WOULD THEY ACT THE SAME WAY IN PERSON IF SOMEONE JUST SAID HI AT A PARTY . PROB SO . THEY WOULD PROB ACT LIKE THEY DIDNT HEAR THAT PERSON SAY HI OR JUST WALK AWAY .
TO ME THAT JUST SHOWS THAT PEOPLE HAVE GOTTEN USED TO BEING ABLE TO BE (RUDE) AND SHOW NO MANNERS TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLES FEELINGS . ITS NOTHING ABOUT WANTING TO HOOK UP OR ANYTHING LIKE . ITS JUST ABOUT BEING A POLITE PERSON WITH MANNERS . FOR SOME REASON PEOPLE HAVE FORGOTTEN ABOUT MANNERS AND WORRYING ABOUT OTHER S FEELINGS . AND TO ME THAT IS SAD .
WE ARE ON ALOT OF SITES . AND WE HAVE BEEN IN THE LIFE STYLE FOR MANY YEARS . AND IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE HAVE TALKED ABOUT . SOME SEE IT AS BEING RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL . AND OTHERS SEE IT AS ITS ALL PART OF THE LIFE STYLE OR BEING ON A COMPUTER . AND DONT SEE A PROBLEM WITH IT .
TO ME IF THEY HAVE BEEN ON THE SITE OR THE LIFE STYLE LONG ENOUGH THEY KNOW THAT OTHERS ( DO TAKE IT TO HEART AND OTHERS DO SEE IT AS BEING VERY RUDE ) SO WHY WOULD THEY KEEP DOING IT . AND TO TELL PEOPLE TO GET A THICKER SKIN ABOUT IT ALL . ITS A VERY SAD WAY TO LOOK AT THE OTHER PEOPLE THAT ARE JUST TRYING TO BE POLITE PEOPLE WITH MANNERS . AND IF EVERYBODY JUST GOT A THICKER SKIN ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING ELSE THAT BOTHERED SOME BUT OTHERS DIDNT FEEL THE SAME OR THE NEED TO CHANG EIT THEN EVERYBODY IS GOING TO BE ALOT RUDER AND DISRESPECTFUL TO EVERYBODY .
AND TO ME THE WORLD HAS ENOUGH PROBLEMS AND MEAN PEOPLE . IT DOESNT NEED ANY MORE . IF EVERYBODY JUST TOLD EVERYBODY TO DEAL WITH IT ABOUT ANYTHING THEN THERE IS GOING TO BE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT NEVER THINK ABOUT ANYONE ELSE .
AND I KNOW SOME OF THESE PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE TO WRITE OTHERS BACK . AND YES THEY ARE THE RUDE AND STUCK UP TYPE . THAT THINK THEY ARE BETTER THEN EVERYBODY ELSE . ... AND ANYONE THAT ISNT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM ISNT WORTH THE TIME TO WRITE BACK .
PEOPLE CAN MAKE UP ANY EXCUSE THEY WANT TO . TO EXPLAIN THEIR ACTIONS . BUT IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO WHAT KINDA OF PERSON DO U WANT TO BE ? AND HOW DO U WANT OTHERS TO SEE YOU ?AND IF SOMEONE IS OK WITH BEING A RUDE AND THICK SKIN PERSON THAT DOESNT WORRY ABOUT OTHERS FEELINGS THEN I NOR ANYONE ELSE CAN CHANGE THEM BUT WE ALSO DONT HAVE TO LIKE THEM OR WANT TO HANG OUT WITH THEM OR (BECOME LIKE THEM ). AND I HOPE THAT ANYONE THAT TRIES TO WRITE PEOPLE BUT DOESNT GET ALOT OF REPLIES BACK NEVER FORGETS THAT IT DOES BOTHER SOME . AND KEEPS WRITITNG PEOPLE BACK . U CAN AGREE NOT TO AGREE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THIS . AND LET PEOPLE DO IT THEIR WAY . BUT U CA ALSO KEEP DOING WHAT U THINK IS THE RIGHT WAY AND NOT BECOME LIKE THEM AND THEIR WAYS . LIKE I TELL MY KIDS . U CAN HANG OUT WITH KIDS THAT DO THINGS DIFFERENT . BUT U DONT HAVE TO ACT LIKE THEM OR DO WHAT THEY DO . IF U THINK OR KNOW IT IS WRONG .
IF EVERYBODY PICKED UP EVERYBODIES BAD HABBITS THEN THEY WONT BE BAD IT WILL BE NORMAL. AND TO ME THAT WORRIES ME .
LIKE I SAID THE WORLD HAS ANOUGH PROBLEMS ANDMEAN ANDHATE FULL PEOPLE .
I HOPE SOME WILL THINK ABOUT HOW THEY TREAT PEOPLE AND WANT TO BECOME A NICE PERSON BUT IF NOT .THEN TO EACH THEIR OWN .
BUT I BEG THE PEOPLE THAT ARE STILL GOOD AND RESPECTFUL AND POLITE WITH MANNERS TO NOT LET THOSE MEAN PEOPLE MAKE U GET THICK SKIN AND BECOME LIKE THEM .
BUT TO EACH THEIR OWN .
ILL ALWAYS BE NICE AND RESPECTFUL AND SHOW MANNERS TO ALL . AND NO ONE WILL EVER MAKE ME WANT TO CHANGE THAT .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY
YES SOME PEOPLE WRITE SOMEONE AND THEN SIT THERE WAITING FOR A REPLY BACK.
THATS KINDA OF WEIRD TO JUST EXPECT PEOPLE TO BE ABLE TO WRITE BACK CAUSE U ARE (WAITING ) FOR THEM TO DO .
I UNDERSTAND PEOPLE ARE BUSY . OR ON VACTION OR DONT CHECK THEIR MAIL EVERYDAY . THATS ALL UNDERSTANDABLE .
WE GET TONS OF MAIL EVERYDAY . SOME TIMES SOME MAIL GETS OVER LOOKED AND FORGOTTEN ABOUT . WHEN IAM CLEANING OUT MY BOX ILL STILL TAKE THE TIME TO WRITE THE PEOPLE BACK AND SAY LOOK IAM SORRY IAM JUST NOW WRITING YOU . IT GOT LOST .
PEOPLE CAN TAKE IT AS I WAS RUDE TO WAIT SO LONG . OR THEY CAN SEE IT AS THEIR EMAIL GOT LOST AMOUNG THE REST AND WAS FORGOTTEN ABOUT . NOT BECAUSE WE DIDNT CARE OR ANYTHIGN LIKE THAT . BUT JUST THE FACT THAT IT WAS LOST OR WE WERE BUSY AT THE TIME AND WAS PLANNING ON WRITING THEM BACK BOT FORGOT ABOUT .
ANYONE THAT CAN T UNDERSTAND THAT AND REALIZE THAT I WAS BUSY AND BE OK WITH THAT . THEN I DONT REALLY WANT THEM AROUDN ME IN THE FIRST PLACE . AND THE FACE THAT I WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO STILL WRITE THEM A FEW WEEKS LATER AND SAY THAT IAM SORRY AND ALL OF THAT SHOULD SHOW THEM THT I DO MEAN WHAT I SAY AND THEY SHOULD BE OK WITH THAT . JUST AS PEOPLE SHOULD BE OK WITH SOMEONE SAYING NO THANKS .
BUT SOME PEOPLE WILL TELL U FLAT OUT THAT THEY WONT EMAIL ANYBODY BACK UNLESS THEY WANT TO HOOK UP WITH THAT PERSON . TO ME THAT IS KINDA OF RUDE . SOMEONE TOOK THE TIME TO WRITE THEM . IT ONLY TAKES A MIN TO WRITE NO THANKS . TO THE OTHER PEOPLE . WOULD THEY ACT THE SAME WAY IN PERSON IF SOMEONE JUST SAID HI AT A PARTY . PROB SO . THEY WOULD PROB ACT LIKE THEY DIDNT HEAR THAT PERSON SAY HI OR JUST WALK AWAY .
TO ME THAT JUST SHOWS THAT PEOPLE HAVE GOTTEN USED TO BEING ABLE TO BE (RUDE) AND SHOW NO MANNERS TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLES FEELINGS . ITS NOTHING ABOUT WANTING TO HOOK UP OR ANYTHING LIKE . ITS JUST ABOUT BEING A POLITE PERSON WITH MANNERS . FOR SOME REASON PEOPLE HAVE FORGOTTEN ABOUT MANNERS AND WORRYING ABOUT OTHER S FEELINGS . AND TO ME THAT IS SAD .
WE ARE ON ALOT OF SITES . AND WE HAVE BEEN IN THE LIFE STYLE FOR MANY YEARS . AND IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN SOMETHING THAT PEOPLE HAVE TALKED ABOUT . SOME SEE IT AS BEING RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL . AND OTHERS SEE IT AS ITS ALL PART OF THE LIFE STYLE OR BEING ON A COMPUTER . AND DONT SEE A PROBLEM WITH IT .
TO ME IF THEY HAVE BEEN ON THE SITE OR THE LIFE STYLE LONG ENOUGH THEY KNOW THAT OTHERS ( DO TAKE IT TO HEART AND OTHERS DO SEE IT AS BEING VERY RUDE ) SO WHY WOULD THEY KEEP DOING IT . AND TO TELL PEOPLE TO GET A THICKER SKIN ABOUT IT ALL . ITS A VERY SAD WAY TO LOOK AT THE OTHER PEOPLE THAT ARE JUST TRYING TO BE POLITE PEOPLE WITH MANNERS . AND IF EVERYBODY JUST GOT A THICKER SKIN ABOUT THIS OR ANYTHING ELSE THAT BOTHERED SOME BUT OTHERS DIDNT FEEL THE SAME OR THE NEED TO CHANG EIT THEN EVERYBODY IS GOING TO BE ALOT RUDER AND DISRESPECTFUL TO EVERYBODY .
AND TO ME THE WORLD HAS ENOUGH PROBLEMS AND MEAN PEOPLE . IT DOESNT NEED ANY MORE . IF EVERYBODY JUST TOLD EVERYBODY TO DEAL WITH IT ABOUT ANYTHING THEN THERE IS GOING TO BE ALOT OF PEOPLE THAT NEVER THINK ABOUT ANYONE ELSE .
AND I KNOW SOME OF THESE PEOPLE THAT DONT LIKE TO WRITE OTHERS BACK . AND YES THEY ARE THE RUDE AND STUCK UP TYPE . THAT THINK THEY ARE BETTER THEN EVERYBODY ELSE . ... AND ANYONE THAT ISNT GOOD ENOUGH FOR THEM ISNT WORTH THE TIME TO WRITE BACK .
PEOPLE CAN MAKE UP ANY EXCUSE THEY WANT TO . TO EXPLAIN THEIR ACTIONS . BUT IT ALL BOILS DOWN TO WHAT KINDA OF PERSON DO U WANT TO BE ? AND HOW DO U WANT OTHERS TO SEE YOU ?AND IF SOMEONE IS OK WITH BEING A RUDE AND THICK SKIN PERSON THAT DOESNT WORRY ABOUT OTHERS FEELINGS THEN I NOR ANYONE ELSE CAN CHANGE THEM BUT WE ALSO DONT HAVE TO LIKE THEM OR WANT TO HANG OUT WITH THEM OR (BECOME LIKE THEM ). AND I HOPE THAT ANYONE THAT TRIES TO WRITE PEOPLE BUT DOESNT GET ALOT OF REPLIES BACK NEVER FORGETS THAT IT DOES BOTHER SOME . AND KEEPS WRITITNG PEOPLE BACK . U CAN AGREE NOT TO AGREE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THIS . AND LET PEOPLE DO IT THEIR WAY . BUT U CA ALSO KEEP DOING WHAT U THINK IS THE RIGHT WAY AND NOT BECOME LIKE THEM AND THEIR WAYS . LIKE I TELL MY KIDS . U CAN HANG OUT WITH KIDS THAT DO THINGS DIFFERENT . BUT U DONT HAVE TO ACT LIKE THEM OR DO WHAT THEY DO . IF U THINK OR KNOW IT IS WRONG .
IF EVERYBODY PICKED UP EVERYBODIES BAD HABBITS THEN THEY WONT BE BAD IT WILL BE NORMAL. AND TO ME THAT WORRIES ME .
LIKE I SAID THE WORLD HAS ANOUGH PROBLEMS ANDMEAN ANDHATE FULL PEOPLE .
I HOPE SOME WILL THINK ABOUT HOW THEY TREAT PEOPLE AND WANT TO BECOME A NICE PERSON BUT IF NOT .THEN TO EACH THEIR OWN .
BUT I BEG THE PEOPLE THAT ARE STILL GOOD AND RESPECTFUL AND POLITE WITH MANNERS TO NOT LET THOSE MEAN PEOPLE MAKE U GET THICK SKIN AND BECOME LIKE THEM .
BUT TO EACH THEIR OWN .
ILL ALWAYS BE NICE AND RESPECTFUL AND SHOW MANNERS TO ALL . AND NO ONE WILL EVER MAKE ME WANT TO CHANGE THAT .
NAUGHTY DREAMS
FREAKY KITTY