Hi, we are Rob and Aliya, we are a couple in the Salt Lake City area, and we attended the Swingular party on December 4th. Aliya was the unforgettable tall (and I have to add absolutely gorgeous) blonde in the black jumpsuit.
My question is this... Aliya is VERY bi. She has been fantasizing for some time about having a big get together with a few or several other Bisexual women.
She would love to have an evening with 2 or 3 or more women where they all get together, have some drinks, and/or dinner, get to know each other, and then if the chemistry is right, have an experience with a few women.
This raises the following questions.
1. How many women out there would be interested in attending a "women only activity"?
2. How many of the male part of the couple would be willing to allow their lady to do something without their being involved?
Maybe we could have an alternate activity for the men in the couples and go to American Bush, or to Hooters to watch a game, what do you think?
It seems to me that many couples have a rule that they never "swing separately" which I certainly respect, and I am in no way trying to offend or to make anyone feel excluded or left out. For those that have this rule, would you consider a "Girls Night In" to fall into that category? For us, the lifestyle is all about putting your own needs and interests behind those of your partner and thinking of the other partner first. As such, I would have no problem with allowing my special lady to do something with some other women without me. I believe that part of being in the lifestyle is to explore and allow our partners to explore all sorts of new and wonderful experiences. Also, this certainly does not mean that we are not interested in meeting other couples and having some fun with other couples, because we definitely are.
How do you feel? In proposing this, do you feel that I have been inappropriate, in suggesting an evening for the ladies that might make the men feel left out, or could this be something fun for all?
Is this something that any women in the Northern Utah area would be interested in? If so, reply to this forum or send an E-mail to Great_SLC_cpl. We can provide pictures to interested couples.
Thanks! Rob and Aliya
My question is this... Aliya is VERY bi. She has been fantasizing for some time about having a big get together with a few or several other Bisexual women.
She would love to have an evening with 2 or 3 or more women where they all get together, have some drinks, and/or dinner, get to know each other, and then if the chemistry is right, have an experience with a few women.
This raises the following questions.
1. How many women out there would be interested in attending a "women only activity"?
2. How many of the male part of the couple would be willing to allow their lady to do something without their being involved?
Maybe we could have an alternate activity for the men in the couples and go to American Bush, or to Hooters to watch a game, what do you think?
It seems to me that many couples have a rule that they never "swing separately" which I certainly respect, and I am in no way trying to offend or to make anyone feel excluded or left out. For those that have this rule, would you consider a "Girls Night In" to fall into that category? For us, the lifestyle is all about putting your own needs and interests behind those of your partner and thinking of the other partner first. As such, I would have no problem with allowing my special lady to do something with some other women without me. I believe that part of being in the lifestyle is to explore and allow our partners to explore all sorts of new and wonderful experiences. Also, this certainly does not mean that we are not interested in meeting other couples and having some fun with other couples, because we definitely are.
How do you feel? In proposing this, do you feel that I have been inappropriate, in suggesting an evening for the ladies that might make the men feel left out, or could this be something fun for all?
Is this something that any women in the Northern Utah area would be interested in? If so, reply to this forum or send an E-mail to Great_SLC_cpl. We can provide pictures to interested couples.
Thanks! Rob and Aliya
OK, over 50 views and no responses. Whats the deal??? Some of these other questions have gotten dozens of responses. With probably 99 % of the women on this site claiming to be bi or at least bi curious, the only thing I can figure is either:
1. These views have been by guys, who would be supportive of allowing their bi female partners to attend a "girls only" party, but "forgot" to mention to their female partners that there was some interest in organizing a girls night in.
2. These views have been by guys who would NOT be supportive of allowing their female partners to attend a "girls only" type of function, for whatever reason.
3. The views have been by "straight" women who would not be interested in attending a "women only" event.
4. The views are by "Bi" women who could attend if they wanted to, but in fact really are not interested in attending a female only type event.
5. The views have been by Bi women who would love to attend a female only event like this, if only they felt that their male partners would be supportive of them doing so.
or, maybe there is another angle that I hadn't considered. This forum is a great means of discussing subjects that might even be sensitive or controversial. So, how do you feel? Guys, would you be willing to allow your ladies to do something, if there was nothing in it for you? ladies, would you feel uncomfortable doing something that didn't involve your partner, even if it was with another woman???
Personally, I would be very supportive of my female partner attending a Girls Only type party, if I felt that it would be an enjoyable experience for her, which I am sure that it would be.
Am I just more open minded than the norm, or is there really zero interest in organizing a "girls only" party???
Just curious.
Thanks,
great_slc_cpl
1. These views have been by guys, who would be supportive of allowing their bi female partners to attend a "girls only" party, but "forgot" to mention to their female partners that there was some interest in organizing a girls night in.
2. These views have been by guys who would NOT be supportive of allowing their female partners to attend a "girls only" type of function, for whatever reason.
3. The views have been by "straight" women who would not be interested in attending a "women only" event.
4. The views are by "Bi" women who could attend if they wanted to, but in fact really are not interested in attending a female only type event.
5. The views have been by Bi women who would love to attend a female only event like this, if only they felt that their male partners would be supportive of them doing so.
or, maybe there is another angle that I hadn't considered. This forum is a great means of discussing subjects that might even be sensitive or controversial. So, how do you feel? Guys, would you be willing to allow your ladies to do something, if there was nothing in it for you? ladies, would you feel uncomfortable doing something that didn't involve your partner, even if it was with another woman???
Personally, I would be very supportive of my female partner attending a Girls Only type party, if I felt that it would be an enjoyable experience for her, which I am sure that it would be.
Am I just more open minded than the norm, or is there really zero interest in organizing a "girls only" party???
Just curious.
Thanks,
great_slc_cpl
I think I know the answer,,, Nobody lives in northern Utah!!
LOL, Sorry dude, just kidding
The idea is cool, I would just have to push my wife kicking and screaming
although she's not bi so I guess it doesn't matter.
LOL, Sorry dude, just kidding
The idea is cool, I would just have to push my wife kicking and screaming
although she's not bi so I guess it doesn't matter.
OK. I give up. I can't figure out why with well over 125 views on this topic, and no one is willing to talk about it. Other subjects have gotten literally dozens of replies. Maybe there really is no interest. (But if that were the case, why so many views???) Or more likely, maybe I touched on a subject that many would rather just be left alone, and that many are uncomfortable in discussing, namely the subject of whether or not one partner would be willing to allow their partner to participate in something if "there was nothing in it for them" so to speak. Personally, I think it is a matter worth some deep consideration, and merits open discussion. Isn't that what these forums are for??? Anyway, never mind. It looks like no one wants to talk about it.
If My Little Princess were to let me know that she wanted to participate in an all-girl party, I would certain;y have no problems with agreeing to it. I love and trust her and relish the fact that she is comfortable enough with our relationship to know that she can come to me with requests like this. I will agree that our relationship is a bit unique, But the bottom line is that I enjoy the idea of her being pleasured.