Im interested in knowing whats peoples opinions are on Exclusive swinging. Would you consider it? I havent heard a whole lot about the subject, but from what I have heard, it seems to have an abundance of issues.
What say you?
T
What say you?
T
Its a personal issue that varies from couple to couple based upon their concerns, relationships and desires. Personally, we have negative feelings about it based upon our own experiences. We dont like to being locked down to specific couples and given feelngs of betrayal. However, we have seen it work for others. Its just not for us.
Variety keeps it fresh and fun for everyone! Getting locked down to either one couple or specific groups gets old and opens the drama door. Now we do have special friends, and we always have fun, but also have some distance as well.
Bel,
Your basic definition is correct.. in most cases..
Your basic definition is correct.. in most cases..
We saw exclusive swinging break up a really fun group of people. One lady just got too jealous. It does have issues.
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I think exclusive swinging is just a style of swinging I see nothing wrong with this , If both
couples are secure in there relationships it not a big deal . I feel there is more drama in dating lots of couples , everybodies thoughts and veiws are different about swinging , opinions are like assholes everyone has one it doesnt mean its right or wrong its just whatever works for you !! I say if it works for you then game on like Donkey Kong !! In this lifestyle i feel there is alot more weird stuff going on than exclusive swinging ..... Peace,Love & Pancakes
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I think exclusive swinging is just a style of swinging I see nothing wrong with this , If both
couples are secure in there relationships it not a big deal . I feel there is more drama in dating lots of couples , everybodies thoughts and veiws are different about swinging , opinions are like assholes everyone has one it doesnt mean its right or wrong its just whatever works for you !! I say if it works for you then game on like Donkey Kong !! In this lifestyle i feel there is alot more weird stuff going on than exclusive swinging ..... Peace,Love & Pancakes
!! BADBOY8P !!
This question was just thrown out there because we were trying to find something we have not seen discussed on here ... if it has we couldnt find it...!... Any way I think to each their own! Everyone has their own idea about what swinging is.. some feel more comfortable with a more seclusive relationships, others only let singles into their lives... and others are open to variety.. etc... as far as exclusive goes.. You deffinately have to be mature about it and your relationship with your other half needs to be very secure.... but then again it should be when doing this life style anyway or honestly, in my opinion you shouldn't be swinging in the first place! For me this isn't a bandaide to fix your relationship, It is to enhance your life and to gain good friends! So if it is in agreeance with all... let them do what they want ,if it makes them happy then go for it!!
Muronica
Muronica