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After reading a few forums recently we thought it would be a good idea to post in a forum what it is that you are looking for on this site. With talk about adding people as friends, unwanted e-mails, nobody contacts us, and all that stuff why not make the first move on here. Post in your own unique way but here is how we will start it. We hope this is as drama free a subject as possible.

We are looking for local couples, couples the go to Club Elite, or others that might be planning a vacation to Florida. Single males are considered since we have a few single female friends but they are the least on our list of priorities. We are no better then anyone else, just two shmucks that go to work every day and try to enjoy ourselves on the weekends. We prefer to make friends first but sometimes we have found that connection right away. We never turn down the opportunity to meet people even if we have the geographical problem because we enjoy having good people ( Dale ) around us whether it be just friends or not. We love hosting parties at our home and seeing our friends, new and old making new friendships and everyone enjoying themselves.

Our perfect match, well we have already met them so we will just explain them to you. He is a mans man, able to laugh at himself or others, has a great personality and is very caring of others. He bieng a former professional athlete/entertainer she loves his physique. She is a warm and caring person with the sexiest smile and eyes on the planet. Again she has a sense of humor and is very sociable and built great. He loves the fact that once you give her the ahead she will devour you completely and is very good at what she does. We find ourselves completely compatible with this couple and that is why they are the perfect match for us.

Please be open minded and accepting of others. This is a diverse world we live in so you should have the ability to be around others even if you know they are not potential play partners for you. Good people come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
O.K. we will go next we are looking for a REAL cpl who lives close by yeah right been on here for two years and about the only thing we have found use for on this site is the forums. The debates on the upcoming presidential have been quite amusing if you have not checked out the political forums you ought to go check them out they are a barrel of laughs.

Norm&Sharon
Bishop to Queens Knight 3.

Oh, sorry, thought we were talking about first moves....

Mav
NP
Dale, I am the same way in that I am so laid back that it seems like I am not interested. So many have on their profiles how they do not like pushy people so our fear is being considered just that. Because we take the time to know our newer playmates they learn that we are very non agressive.

I think by creating this topic, it gives anyone looking to actually meet others the opportunity to put it out there on the front page of the site. Seems more productive then waiting for someone to browse your profile.

Joe
Heather and I are looking for people/couples that we can be friends with and if that includes sexy time even better. so please take a look ar our profile and hit us up. We are also on yahoo at holiday_cpl. The forums do kick ass as well, I just cant post anymore with the election cause its scaring me that we are heading to the great depresson part 2.
We will give this a shot, we are looking to find new friends to hang out with, males, females, and couples, we just like spending time with people that can be relaxed, and have fun, have an open dialog, and loves to flirt, we don't mind traveling around the state, or the surrounding states. we love the excitement of the sex, but really like to be around people that we can have fun with, wether it be for a night or for a weekend. we are kind of to the point that most experiences for us are new and always exciting, and for the most part ready to try anything. if we can can do it some of our best experierces have been spur of the moment, kinda fun when that happens. we are very open with each other and have found that the people that we have played with that have that same kind of openess is the ones we feel most relaxed, drama is not a problem for us, just leave it home when you come out to play, So lets all get naked and have some fun. check out our profile, there are a few pics there, but we are always willing to share more with the right people. hope ya'all have a great day.
Seems like a few of you are looking for the friends outside the bedroom as well. Isn`t that the nice thing when a few friends can go to a ballgame, festival, or a concert and then the group ends up back at one of your houses and then there is playtime. We love the fact almost all of our friends are in the lifestyle so we never know if a normal day out is going to end with playtime or not.

We have a meet and greet to attend next Saturday night and we will invite everyone there to come back to our house for naked volleyball in the pool, hot tubbin, and playtime. I know we will not be compatible with everyone at the meet and greet but we do have the lifestlye in common with them and that is a base to start a friendship on. We don`t play with all of our friends but if you want to play with us then you must be considered a friend.
Hi! We are new and so far have had no luck here aside from a few pleasant exchanges via email. We have exchanged pics as requested to some only to hear nothing ever as a response, which seems rude to me, or a little chat then nothing. We don't go to dance clubs much but are ok with martini bars, lounges, wine, music, and we prefer to socialize downtown SLC.

We are looking for *single females only*, ~no men at all~, not even as voyeurs/bystanders. We will play together as a couple or alone with whoever we may eventually find- we allow ourselves an honest open marriage. We aren't sure what the problem is (maybe we are impatient!), but we get some couples who contact us and when we write back RE-explaining what it says in our profile, that's the last we hear. We always tell others we are cool to meet couples for dinner or whatever, but not for sex; only women please.

Our profile bio's me (her) as bisexual, but I have told someone I am bisexual for my husband, but not other men- no sex with them. Women and me are all good, all the time though, and that is why we are so specific. It used to say gay, but we wondered if that would seem strange- or simply filter out couples. I would appreciate thoughts and opinions about that if anyone is willing to comment-!!:) We want anything from casual freindly meetings over drinks/dinner or whatever to sex hook-ups. We are educated, like travel and eat out often.

Thanks!
L of J & L
Steamy, while we think what you are looking for is very rare to find you are putting yourself on the front page of a major website so hopefully the right person sees your post and contacts you. The beauty of this lifestyle is that everyone has their own desires and rules they go by. Once a strong friendship is formed, we allow each other to play seperate. While it is not our preference we do leave that option open for each other. Good luck.
Hmm..well, we will just continue to be patient lol! We have seen enough profiles of single women looking for women only or couples, so we'll keep holding out for the elusive "Her" that will be glad she finally found us ha ha~ thanks all for your replies!
L
Steamy, if you were in Florida we could introduce you to a few friends that fit what you are looking for. They are out there, just keep at it.