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We'll be new to the area in November. We've noticed a lot of beautiful women in the SLC and surrounding areas. We've also noticed that in the pictures there is a lot of girls posing for pics and in sexual situations with other girls. Do the girls usually leave the men out to play with themselves while the girls enjoy each other? Do the men prefer this? I know this is a generalization but it's an observance based on the photos we've seen so far on swingular. One couple had mentioned this could be due to jealousy? Another female in a couple actually said "she" prefers single men due to the fact that, "...Utah produces a lot of beautiful women and although I am comfortable with my body and trust my husband completely, I don't trust other women..." Sounds like jealousy in that case. We're looking for opinions....thanks for any input.

v/r
~Ammend
we have noticed the same. we recived a lot of messages asking if the girls could play.
This has been something that we have identified as well, which has prompted us to spell out explicitly in our profile what it is that we're looking for.

Neither of us got into the Lifestyle for the girl/girl play exclusively, that many seem to assume is what we all sign up for.

~J
We look at it, everyone plays in our sandbox, or we dont wanna play!..lol;)
it totally depends on if the girls are attracted to each other or not, if they are then they might play and get the men going(hot & horney)then they ALLWAYS join in, it's not just about the girls..at our parties it just depends on who's here and what everyone feels like that night.. it's fun to get the party going with the girls starting it off then the men join in with either there wifes or some like to swap,just whatever we all feel like...but if your profile says "BI" then that usually meens theres some attraction to the same sex,right??? but the men are allways apart of it all...
AGFORFUN:

Nicely put!..and your parties ARE the BOMB!!;)XO
thanks Wolf we love you to and look forward to next week to get re-aquanted???????
AG: Most definately!!;)

As for the thread..Girl- Girl is a blast, but sorry, without the guys, its only half the fun!..If I want to sit in the bleachers, Ill go to a football game..lol
Amen Wolf :) lol !


Were the same way... We all play or were not interested. That's what turns us on about it.. everyone having a great time :)

Donna & Brian
Maybe we should change it from the land of Zion to the land of Bion.

How about the Bi-On curtain.

Or Bi-topia.

Bi-tah?

Mav
Haha...very clever MAV...and funny!
I suppose it is what you might be into. To me (him), if I was interested in only watching girl on girl, why not just rent a porno? Cheaper and I can rewind to any scene I like.
This is what we call Wife Baiting
You post pics of your wife with
hot girls.
A wide variety of profiles have just the
female half of the couple that is what we
call wife baiting
I wonder if there is a "Golden Rule", or "Rule of Thumb" as far as how many pics does it take before a profile is considered to be a wife-baiter profile?

Is there an exact ratio?

Is it more of an approximation?

Once it exceeds the 50/50 mark in her favor...does she become bait?

What if there happens to be more images of him? Does that make it a husband-baiter profile (or would that be mister-baiter?)?

I suppose if there were mostly images of him with a hard-on it would be called a "master-baitor" profile...haha

Undoubtedly there are those that do use their S/O's to lure people into their obvious web of deceit, however we like to assume good intent, and assume that they are merely putting their best images forward.

We have always had more pics of Mrs. Thought on both of our profiles, but rest-assured, it's not due to the fact that either of us needs to pimp her to get friends or playtime. It's merely due to the fact that I (Mr.) am almost always the one behind the camera.

She is and always has been my muse, and nothing pleases me more than to capture her beauty and share that.

Call it what you will, but I'm certain we're not the only ones with the same scenario. ;)

J
HAHA! J! You fuggin foonie.
We agree with Wolf, the women get things started and that is the begining it does not ever end there . We all know women can cum and cum and cum again . LOL
I would have to say if there are NO pics of him...its wife baiting!
Also, I think the girl on girl is more of a foreplay thing.
J...you are SOOOO busted!!
Guilty as charged as well... But I do like the "bunny" pictures better!!!
I think we have one or two of the hubby on our profile, but he likes taking my pictures way more than he likes letting me take pics of him. *shrugs* I agree with the wife baiting theory for the most part though.
Wife baiting is funny. Is that to say that the husband's pic isn't worth putting on the profile? It's just as easy to hand the camera to your wife to snap a pic or two. Men are just as capable of starting foreplay as women are. Besides, if you play as a couple why only have pics of one of you and not both of you? Unless of course the husband strictly takes photos only...
We are pretty equal on the pictures we post on here. And we like to see both the male and female before meeting a couple. Even if we both love what the wife looks like. Erin still wonders about the guy... We think everyone should post both pictures! I mean, we're meeting both of you! right? Anyway. Good topic Ammends and we agree with you fully!
Agreed AMMEND
heres one of me and one of my toys lol

kristylynn
I guess all you need to do to be a "professional model" is have your picture taken next to some motor cylces and dress up in costumes. Hey, we're all professional models! Congratulations everyone and welcome to Swingular INC your one stop shop for professional models. Looks aren't important and all are welcome as long as it's trashy. You to can be in beaver hunt and Hustler!
Wow...I'm speechless....ummm.....
No kidding Ammend, I'd been thinking the same thing for quite some time but wasn't sure if or how it should be said. Now that I see it - you're spot-on...
AMMEN--- Don't worry we both like to play and all though the wife is a little bi I don't think she would ever want to be without the male half to play with. Look us up if you would like to chat.J&S
For us, wife really isn't into the girl-girl thing. She likes the guys. And really, this doen't bother me, I wouldn't want to have to just watch. We both like to get fully involved:)
Funny i just posted about this wife bating thins it really is annoying.
Both the girls insist on seing the male half themselves before there is any chatting really.
Not really for looks but to see if the person looks creepy or is to large and may hurt them.
Jenn is very fragile and cannot handle much weight on her lol.
Utpoly, Jenn can be on top. Anytime lol
lol she dont like top but britt does haha
jenn is more the fuck me pound me but be gentil with me britt is the fuck me choke me call me your slut
there both an interesting combination :p they both want ot learn more though and have more expierences
Good to know Britt is on top then and Jenn I will take it easy with
We had had several couple talk to us that are only looking for the girl-girl thing. As the husband I don't get it. And, the wife doesn't get it either. She wants the guys not the gals. We are in this together, we don't mind watching each other... but we all want to be involved in the end.
Both men and women respond to women. This isn't computer science. Some people make it sound like husbands are left out during girl-on-girl. Those are the selfish individuals I suppose. For not all women want another man just as some can't appreciate a women's touch.

Our advice is to see that everyone comes around in the end, same partner or not. For those that can't cum, ease up a little. Maybe that will help?
My husband knew before we got together that I loved women, I was dating one going on two years when i met him at the place we worked at. He has no problem with me being alone with a women. We've talked in detail what we are ok with and not ok and I think it helped us alot!
I love the girl on girl play. It lets me be more lazy, and I can watch more English Premier League. lol
We were in a hotel last year after a party and the couple next door had a few friends over then all the girls left for a few hours so I guess the guys just had a sausage fest. A few couples that we had in our room all though that was really odd but we all agreed that it seems to be pretty normal in Utah. So I guess for us the answer is definitely a group activity.

Bob
IDCPL4FUN69 wrote:

We were in a hotel last year after a party and the couple next door had a few friends over then all the girls left for a few hours so I guess the guys just had a sausage fest. A few couples that we had in our room all though that was really odd but we all agreed that it seems to be pretty normal in Utah. So I guess for us the answer is definitely a group activity.

Bob


I'm sorry but...HUH? What seems to be pretty normal in Utah? Answer = group activity...did I miss something...what was the question?

Sorry I guess I'm just tired...lol...for us girl/girl play is like foreplay and the guys have got the cameras...about the time they join us is about the time everyone forgets about the cameras...lol...As far as pics...he is usually behind the camera so we have way more pics of me than him...and I have sexier outfits...lol...as for it being "wife baiting", wouldn't it be "me-baiting" since I do this account and he does the morgancouple account?..lol...and maybe the guy thinks "ah nobody wants to see all these pics of me...just my sexy wife"...IDK...I don't see why it's a big deal that there are more pics of the female than the male as long as there are some of him too...anyway just my 1 1/2 cents....kisses....Naugh-Ty
There is just simply something so beatiful about girl/girl. Of course it's always personal preference but it is hands down my fave. It can be like having the appitizer before the meal. I have never met a man that doesn't enjoy watching two girls go at it. Well as always peace and love. xoxo Mrs. Crunk