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We belong to a local yahoo meet and greet group that gets together once a month for lifestylers to meet in a public setting. All ages, all shapes ,sizes, and colors are welcome as it is just a meet and greet.

Today a couple makes a post, insulting the entire group, naming a few people out and even said the one girl would have to resort to going black to get laid. They don`t understand why others would need to talk about politics, god, or anything else because it does not help you to have sex with another person. They then told the group to stay at the event it holds so the other nice looking and younger couples in the area would be safe to go out without having to look at members of the group. And they claimed this was the running joke with their friends.

Funny thing is they are 57 and 45 ,or so they claim and they are pretty darn pathetic looking themselves. So in one touch to the send button they have insulted an entire group in their home area, incriminated their friends who were dumb enough to validate them, insulted all black males, insulted anyone they deem as old or not height weight proportionate.

Oh yes, they even claimed to know what the clubs in the area want and that is only people as beautiful as them. And they bad mouthed a new website saying it is the place to find bbws and fat fucks only.

Can`t imagine anyone ever wanting to meet them for pleasure. They also have a profile on here and know they are going to read this so please, let them know how much they are loved by the rest of the swinging community. And remember you should not talk about anything in these forums that does not lead to getting laid or so they say.
It's people like them that are inept in the lifestyle and are taking it out on those more successful then they are. I wouldn't put too much thought into their words. That all they are is words. The only possible reason to even say those things are to cause a reaction. Don't let them have their pathetic satisfaction.

-D-
Theres always gonna be people out there like that.....they only screwed themselves(or thats all they'll be screwing)dont mind the pun......;)
Just dont worry with them. The really (real) people dont pay no attention anyways.......


P.S.
What new website.........?? We wanna check it out........:)
NP - I would simply look at it this way: I wish all the jerks out there would do such a great job of identifying themselves through out-front, idiotic behavior. It would make sorting out the worthwhile folks so much easier! :)

Have a good one!
Thought I would post the message this idiot put in the yahoo group so you could see just how ignorant and racist he is. They have a profile on here and at the bottom of his profile he threatens to send a virus to people. In his own words below " i`m posting this anonymously " but he was not smart enough to remove his e-mail and that had his full name attached so now everyone he pissed off knows where he lives. I doubt he is smart enough to send a virus since he can`t even remove his name from an e-mail.

Well I've been biting my tongue for a couple of years now and trying
my best not to comment.If a bunch of old,overweight,unattractive
people want to get together with similar people and do whatever you
do that's OK by me.I just wish you didn't post pictures but then
again I don't have to look at them.The joke locally was at least you
got everyone together in one place once a month so it was safe for
the rest of us to go out!i'm posting this anonymously but you need to
know that whatever the club owners say,and I'm sure it's nice, as
they all are,regular members really don't want to see you there.Paul
and Anne made a huge mistake when they met you guys and gave freebies
on the site.What they envisioned for their new project has turned
into an elephant,literally.It seems it's the premier site to find
BBW's and fat fucks.The site is dead and cannot be resurrected.Why
the hell you can't stay in the Tamiami bar and not venture forth I do
not understand.When you arrived in Sarasota all thoughts of a stiffy
turned into a softy and we left.And in parting.What the hell has the
flag,the troops,God,politics,and all the rest of the crap you guys
post got to do with trying to have sex with someone
else?????.......I'm apolitical but it sounds republican to me.Oh,then
there was sarah and the beast!!!Revelations.It's no revelation that
some crazy,single,overweight,40ish plain woman has a thing going with
God.It's not like she's going to get it anywhere else unless she goes
black.---
Please, oh please, let me know who posted that, I would love to give them a piece of my mind. Spineless fuck! People like this need to be outed for who they are, SCUM.

Guaranteed they would NEVER say any of this in your presence, or mine!

Ron
My point in posting this was that if a few people agreed that it was not the nicest way to words things ,they might get the clue. We contacted this couple a few years back and they responded with a "no thanks, to big for us." Well, the fact they even responded and offered a reason was refreshing to see. Despite being turned down we respected them and are wondering what happened to that person after reading this. We hope they change their ways because rants like this are bad for the lifestyle.

This post of theirs was made to the group as the group was mourning the loss of one of its nicest members and a veteran who fought for this guys freedoms. Nothing like kicking someone when they are down.
Have to agree with Chrke and (as much as it hurts) Don, on this. Its better to know who the ignorant pricks are ahead of time instead of wasting any time trying to get to know them.

As for the prick's comments about the posting about god, politics, etc., it has everything to do with getting together with people for sex. I don't know of too many people that will show up to an event and allow some complete stranger to have sex with them. I don't know about anyone else but I have always found sex to be much more desirable with someone that I share some other interests with outside the bedroom.
We have, unfortunately, met several couples like this. Now I understand that not everybody likes their women to be "fluffy", and not everybody in the lifestyle could grace the pages of playboy (or Playgirl). However, that doesn't give ANYBODY the right to be rude and insulting.

Even when we find couples that we aren't compatible with, we will at least say "Thanks for the conversation, but we don't think we are compatible. Good luck in your search." or words to that effect. I just wish other people would give us the same consideration.

All that having been said, we would love to meet couples in the central Florida area.
No, the are not from the Daytona area. They are from near us, very near us I should say.
Does anyone know why someone would sit in a group when the members there are so undesireable in your eyes? Why belong if you don`t like the people there? I think they are just jealous of the friendships they see being made there. We have a lot of friends there and some we play with and some we don`t. There are all ages in this group but it is a close knit group.
Are they from Port Charlotte?
Damn it, I thought this was going to be about the 9/11 video from the Republican National Convention:@
The funny thing about *being* something, whether it be a swinger, religous, black, white, asian etc is there are always those people who think they are *more so* part of that than anyone else.

I think that may be the case with these people.

Its funny in "the lifestyle" how many people will discrimate against others for some reason or another. We've all made a concious choice to belong to the lifestyle, and yet somehow we/others can stand some of the people who belong too.

Yes, that couple was way out of line. And, they made their ignorance public, so thankfully in that cicrle no one will speak to them again.
What surprises me most about some of the "swingers" is the lack of open-mindedness. You don't have to like our appearance, but, fuck, try and get to know someone's personality sometime. Even if you don't attract sexually, at least you gave it an effort, you never know unless you try.

We had the pleasure of meeting NP and several others at the big Swingular party, and we had a fucking great time just chatting and getting to know one another. Where is it written that swinging means you automatically spread your legs for others.

We are not that type of swinging couple, we prefer to get to know a little about the couple or group first. Physical appearance is part of it, but, arouse me with intellect and personality, and I am yours! :)

Ron
As Eric and I have always said there is someone for everyone in the lifestyle! That's what makes it so much fun meeting all the different types of people who are in it.
Some people think this lifestyle should only be ken and barbie well in fact REAL swingers come in all shapes and sizes, age and races.

Just my two cents ;)

Angie
I am surprised he hasn't been called to the open where we could have an open trial and let the good people of our swinging village decide his guilt. That would be all is needed to have admin. wash him from our hands. Oh and our village.
Let's grab our torches, pitchforks, tar and feather....and BURN THE WITCH!
Burn the witch? Wait, Chrissy is a witch, please don't burn her! :D

Ron
No offense to those that may practice Wicca, Paganism...or anything in the likeness thereof...just a fun play on an old cliche...

Now...where is my torch??