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Send one to us!..we'll reply:)...lol
We agree. If you are not interested send a reply and say so. If someone takes the time to wirte you should reply back to them.

R
There are people on both sides of that fence. We usually don't reply if we are not interested. We've had too many people get offended to make it worth our time and patience. Besides, l still think no reply says it all and spares both parties akwardness. There are a lot of people who can't handle rejection.

I think you should just move on to the next people and cut your losses. It's not worth the frustration. It's a fact in the lifestyle and no one is going to change people's minds or right to remain silent. This topic is an old one. I guess to sum it all up... Just suck up and drive on. That's all any of us can do.

-D-
It leaves you wondering why no reply. Did they for get or not interested? If they can't take rejection then they need to try something else! LOL If we do not get one we do suck it up and move on. We feel it would be nice to say no thanks. After all we took the time to write to you. Our 2 cents!

Good luck all!
We think it is rude not to reply. But then there are rude people in the world. We move on and let them be. As I recall there is a no thanks in the reply! How hard is that? Such is life!

Smile All
I agree with Tequila...this is a much rehashed subject.

Why...oh why...for the love of GOD must it be brought up monthly?

The last line of our profile description sums up very succintly our feelings on responding to e-mails.

We make no excuses for our non-reply.

If we're not interested...we MAY respond, or we MAY not respond. It's our choice.

Take the absense of a return e-mail as a "polite" no.

A "no thankyou", either verbal, written, or silent....is simply that: "Thanks...but no". Nothing more, and nothing less.

We've had our fair share of non-replies, and always just figure that it's a polite decline. It's all good.

Why must people get their swinger-panties in a bunch over this issue? There are literally THOUSANDS of members on this site...why get hung up on one or two couples that don't jump at the chance to bed you, and eagerly express it with an overwhelming "HELL YES" in an e-mail?

Is it rude? Only if you think so. But that's your deal.

Perhaps not any more rude than those that clearly fall outside of what we have listed as our interests in couples/playmates (again...very explicitily spelled out in our profile body), yet STILL contact us?
Awww dear sweet TG-don't let the relentless repeating of the same subject get your sweet panties in a bunch...PUHLEEZE!!! Some people just need to vent and so they do!!! If needed, let me offer my services to unbunch them for you!!!;)

H
We agree with the no reply could be a polite no. We tend to reply to most emails, but not all. Maybe we are just shitheads!? :D