Swingers Forum - choices

you don't plan this lifestyle , you just fall in to it ! you got some thing like love missing you don't know what it is and how to get it so you try this , or you get horney only to sin ,or if you are the male part it is normal and it is in your cells or genes the need for a variety of females don't ever forget the fact that most men had more then 1 wife about 100 years ago and a lot still have now and the desire did not change , the body and brain don't change by the only fact that gov. banned it , so we see a new era of prostitute filling in that gap like
, gentlemans boutique , sex xxx , swing clubs , it was there and its still here just took a diff. shape or in couples swingers sometimes you are pushed in to it by an insane spouse that you actual depend on , "or you join or leave " or a childishly jealousy by the female part if you fuck whom you want so i will too , risking family values .........:h

To add a little more spice to an already exciting & fulfilling life. To see my partner experience something new which is VERY exciting (and vice versa). To have fun!

This is referred to as a lifestyle but we view it as just a part of our life. Our lives are fulfilling and exciting already and this is just one aspect of that interesting life. We are adventurous in many areas of our life and that continues here.

For us it isn't necessarily an either/or. We don't view this as vanilla or swinger. There are so many shades of openminded. There are so many levels of swinging. There are so many views regarding how vanilla someone IS or ISN'T. Because of that, we just experience this as the opportunity fits into our lives and IF/when it is satisfying for BOTH of us.