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I've never been to a hotel party for the purpose of meeting swingers/possible swinging. Has any one else been? We've been invited next weekend and I'd like to know what to expect. I'm already discussing it with the Mr since he seems to be a little more forward than I. (ahem) Of what *I* will and won't be doing, just in case.

I hate going to these kinds of things sometimes because it almost always ends up being a waste of time and money. Then on the way home I'm mentally kicking myself for 1, the time I wasted, and 2, the money I wasted.
We look at hotel parties (or any others for that matter) as being as much fun as what we make of it. We don't go with expectations other than making the most of the time we have to party. I suspect that if we went with the belief that it might be a waste of time or money...it probably would end up that way.

I would suggest that if you decide to go, introduce yourselves to as many people as possible, dance, and just enjoy yourselves. Whether anything more happens or not, you will already have had a great time together so anything else is just a bonus.
Garnet, please tell me you are speaking of the one in Orlando next Saturday. We will be there and are spending the night. Don`t think we are lucky enough to have you coming to Florida for this one but we can still hope. Go ahead, break our hearts and tell us we are going to be at the wrong party to see you.